Beef: Ashanti’s Sister Tells Nelly’s New Girlfriend Not to Come to New York?

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Photo Credit: @lashontae Instagram

Photo Credit: @lashontae Instagram

By: Amanda Anderson-Niles

Ashanti and Nelly have been rumored to have had an on and off relationship for years. Although the former couple never really confirmed that they were together, to most in the industry, it was just kind of common knowledge. Well now they are off and according to the latest gossip, it’s because of infidelity. While some tried to say Ashanti cheated on Nelly, more people are accusing Nelly of stepping outside of the relationship. Regardless, the shade throwing between these two on the social networks has been thick ever since Nelly found himself a new boo in Tae Heckard (video vixen, now actress). Folks close to Ashanti are saying Tae was creeping around with Nelly while they were in a serious relationship. We don’t know if the rumors are true, but it appears that Ashanti’s little sister Shia isn’t too thrilled about Nelly’s new love interest.

And nowadays, when people have issues, they like to bring them on Twitter. Apparently Ashanti’s little sister had some words for Tae, and if she is really is referring to Tae in the tweets, it seems as if she’s warning Nelly’s new boo not to come to New York (Ashanti’s stomping grounds) anytime soon.

She tweets (read from the bottom up):

nelly ashanti beef


Tae made it clear that she isn’t at all moved by Shia’s tweets:


tae heckard ashanti


And Nelly also threw a little shade, making it clear that’s he’s not worried either about Ashanti’s little sister’s alleged warnings:

ashanti nelly beef


Ashanti for the most part is taking the high road but she did throw a little shade on her Instagram account, hinting that her ex boyfriend Nelly isn’t as “hard” as he wants people to believe:


nelly and ashanti beef


Ashanti’s people even resorted to writing nasty comments on Tae’s Instagram account and calling her a side chick repeatedly and even blaming her for Ashanti and Nelly’s break up.


  1. Anon

    February 4, 2013 at 2:19 pm

    I’m going to need Ashanti’s people to not make her look so bitter. This is a bit much.

  2. Tasha

    February 4, 2013 at 2:21 pm

    Isn’t Nelly broke? LOL, let Tae have him.

    • Fantasia

      February 4, 2013 at 9:15 pm

      Isn’t Tay GAY?!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Be yourself

      July 5, 2013 at 8:38 pm

      Nelly is and will ALWAYS be FINE AS HELL !!! and NELLY IS PAID.He has invested wekl.Trust!

  3. Xanthia

    February 4, 2013 at 2:23 pm

    If Nelly cheated, they are mad at the wrong person. And even then, he’s not worth all the attention they are giving him. He’s been washed up for the last few years. They need to figure out how to get Ashanti popping again because no one is checking for her anymore. Focus on the right things. lol.

  4. CiCi

    February 4, 2013 at 2:24 pm

    LOL at Tae getting all excited because she has the attention of a “has been” rapper.

    • Ratchet Queen

      February 4, 2013 at 2:35 pm


  5. Viv

    February 4, 2013 at 2:28 pm

    Sigh…another example of people doing too much on Twitter.

  6. The Realest 514

    February 4, 2013 at 2:32 pm

    If you’ve been in a serious relationship for the past few years and dude never claims you in public or proposes to you, you may want to re-evaluate your situation. Nelly did her a favor so move on and cut out the high school antics. Her sister needs her own identity. Ashanti is a big girl – since when does she need her sister and her “Presidential Dimes” to be all up in her relationship? Grow up already…

  7. Michelle

    February 4, 2013 at 2:36 pm

    Ashanti’s sister has always been a bird. But it’s funny how Nelly is taking pics and doing more with this new girl and he was with Ashanti for all these years and NEVER claimed her. Crazy.

  8. Heather B.

    February 4, 2013 at 3:26 pm

    They all need to grow up.

  9. sweetjasmine89

    February 4, 2013 at 11:57 pm

    Nelly needs to stfu have a seat. How can nelly go around knowing that he cheated on a beautiful woman like ashanti & act like it’s okay. And he’s always feeling the need to defend himself why? Because he is guilty. Nobody, even nelly & tae’s fans should be defending them for wrong doing. As for tae she should be ashamed of herself hooking up with nelly knowing he’s in a relationship with ashanti. Ashanti don’t need all this bs. The pdees was only standing up & looking out for their big sis. She may be hurting from all of this but she’s a strong woman who can bounce back from this bs. She’ll let all of it out through making some good music.

  10. f#$ktheh8ters

    February 5, 2013 at 5:15 am

    To blame his current girl and insult Nelly is what’s childish. The people that were involved are the only ones that know what’s up. 3sides to every story so unless you finger pointers were actually there, how about have a stadium of seats. It’s funny Ashanti wants to shade him now. Whatever she’s claiming he is/or isn’t now, he was that way then so please. People break up every day, gtfoit. Again a person can’t come between someone’s relationship if it’s not allowed.

    • sweetjasmine89

      February 5, 2013 at 9:01 am

      @f#$ktheh8ters i don’t think it’s childish. What nelly & tae did behind ashanti’s back is childish. They couldn’t confront the issue to her they had to sneak around. Like what the pdees said she already knew nelly was still in a relationship with ashanti. The pdees know nelly personally they even said he’s wrong. Nelly dated this tae person while still with ashanti. Pdees know the details they wouldn’t be going at her for nothing. They’re simply just standing up & looking out for big sis who is probably hurting right now by all the bs. Wouldn’t you do the same if you knew someone was playing your family like that? How the hell nelly moved on that fast & already had pics with her? Because he already had her on the side. Ashanti loved & trusted this man. And what do you mean a person can’t come between someone’s relationship if it’s not allowed??? It’s called cheating!! Nelly allowed it & by the looks of it she knew damn well what she was getting into. They’re wrong period. Don’t defend them for what nelly & this tae for their wrong doing.

  11. f#$ktheh8ters

    February 6, 2013 at 5:33 am

    Sweetjasmine89..wasn’t defending anyone. Only Nelly n Ashanti actually. Knows what happened and why. If he cheated then she should be glad he’s out of her life. Of course she may be hurting but again they are the only 2 that actually knows what happened regardless of what someone else says. He never admitted being with Ashanti but taking photos with someone else, sweetie that speaks for itself. Twitter fighting,shading, name calling, whatever the case may be is childish. Talk to me straight up. But I feel you.

    • sweetjasmine89

      February 6, 2013 at 10:22 am

      @f#$ktheh8ters well it sure sounded like you were defending them. Of course ashanti’s lil sis & the pdees are gonna know the details. They lookout for big sis. People need to read between the lines & know that whenever nelly & ashanti would say they’re “good friends” coding for them probably mean boyfriend/girlfriend. I’m pretty sure their circle of friends knew they were in a relationship. They don’t want the public in. She’s better off without him & i pray that she will find someone who will truly love her. How nelly went about it cheating by the looks of it he has his money way over his head. And for another why does Nelly feel the need to defend himself on twitter? Why because he’s guilty for what he did. I’m not hating on nelly or this tae but just know what they did was wrong. All that things pdees said on twitter ain’t nothing wrong with letting the truth out.

  12. CAMZ

    February 10, 2013 at 10:39 am


  13. Jordynn

    March 29, 2013 at 2:24 am

    Oh well she cheated..he cheated so too me Oh well..Tae carry on..As for Ashanti’s lil sista b-tch take a nap..because everybody would be ALL bent outta shape if Nelly’s daughter and his niece was to get involved and say some ignorant sh-t bout her and Ashanti..!! So it is what it is..Ashanti doing her and Nelly doing him..

  14. latasha1000

    April 13, 2013 at 7:59 pm

    Ashanti’s a stalking a-s hater. Nelly never claimed her for no 10 years just”2 years early 2000. The b-tch and her lil sis stalked me. She hates to see him move on. Bad girls don’t CRY! Lol booboo

  15. kimberly greene

    May 6, 2013 at 9:49 am

    wowwwww. nelly your dum af. your not even a rapper no more. its funny how you gonna leave ashaunti for a retarted, video, and show star hoe. smh . seriously. u can do better. but instead you down graded. mmmm. welp dat hoe betta not come to newyork. ahahahha. stupid hoes.

  16. Shareese

    October 24, 2013 at 6:59 am

    I don’t see why its such a bother to ppl anyways. He believed she was lying to him about being faithful the whole time after he had put everything out there. He left her. They been on and off and it aint gonna kill nobody that he got somebody new. Maybe if they was in they 60s it would be some cuz they aint gonna find too many more then. Shoot they young !!

  17. Raye

    February 20, 2014 at 4:32 pm

    loool but guess what i think nelly and tae have been together for a while because if you watch Nelly’s “Grillz” music video back in the day the girl in the video was Lashontae.

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