People have been very critical of Tammy Rivera’s decision to not leave her husband Waka Flocka Flame, after she found out he was guilty of infidelity.
Many of those critics have been expressing this displeasure of Tammy all over social media. Even while she went on her week-long beach vacation with Waka, the messages still poured in.
Tammy is responding to those critics, very subtly.
Recently, Tammy liked a comment on Instagram that calls out those critics. Tammy apparently feels that those critical of her marriage don’t know how it feels to be in a marriage. She also feels those critics have enough drama in their on lives, possibly even dealing with men who put them in even more drama than Waka gave Tammy.
Check out the comment below.
When Boosie praises you for staying, you have to ask yourself some questions.
Lmaoooo!!!
Both of them need to have a seat.
The choice to stay or leave was Tammy’s and hers alone; that’s fine. But the argument about staying through infidelity because of your vows is just…annoying. Those same vows are supposed to unify those same two people – forsaking all others. But I guess the ones who cheat can just Harlem Shake right past that one tho…
I laughed at the Harlem shake… but so damn true. It’s like women married or not want to have one up on each other so bad tho. The ones who are married throw their marriages in the one who are not faces and the ones who aren’t married crticize the women for staying with a husband who cheats. Women blaming women when the fault lies in these men. The ones who ain’t ish enough to make a woman out of you and the ones who really ain’t ish for making a fool out of you. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and union under God, if your man cheats on you AFTER those vows were taken you have a problem. BUt he was cheating on Tammy before the marriage and she knew it but she wanted to be the wife so bad just to say she was married like it put her on some type of pedestal over his side ho*s. Just my opinion
Amen.
She’s insecure as sh-t.
I agree with the wise lady who commented on instagram. Nobody knows the real situation in your marriage except for you and your spouse. No marriage is perfect or without occasional problems. There are always going to be people with opinions and judgement about how a woman chooses to handle her marriage. Nobody is perfect and there will ALWAYS be temptation out there for both men and women. Some fall weak to flesh and some do not. Taking your husband/wife back after a mistake does make you weak, it just means you love your spouse and that you are a forgiving person. If your spouse cheats multiple times then maybe you should reevaluate your relationship, but one mistake is not enough of a reason to let years of love go down the drain. I have never let anyone advise me on my husband and I never will. Keep haters and negative people out of your marriage.
Yeah I’m marrried and don’t agree with this. First of all, being married doesn’t make me or any other wife superior to single women. When I see women with this mindset, it just reads low self esteem to me. They are basically saying, yeah my man cheats on me but I’m better than you because we are married. Huh? There’s a lot of very happily single women out here who are doing well in life because they don’t have to put up with the emotional abuse that comes from cheating. I think the goal women should have in 2017 is valuing themselves regardless of their relationship status. Then just maybe they won’t feel like tolerating cheating is some badge of honor. Like D Val said, the Bible is very clear that we are supposed to be faithful in our marriages. If you choose to stay, Tammys of the world, great. But be confident in your decision and stop defending it all the time. When you do, that lets everyone know you really aren’t sure you did the right thing by staying.
Keep folks out of your marriage or relationship. Stand by your man if you want to ain’t nobody’s business if you do. There are some who wear a wedding ring like a badge of honor and some that just go with the flow. I realize there are tons of insecure women out there but don’t let anyone make you feel inferior ever. My first husband, I wouldn’t claim back in the day for nothing. I was like you’re married well, good for you. The second time around, I got it right but, it was still work. So, why trip on someone else’s nightmare. And don’t always believe the hype………women and men lie…..
So this is what we’re teaching our girls now, that it takes courage to stay with a sorry a-s man because you’re married to him? I just want to know what happens when these girls grow up and stay with these types of serial cheaters and wind up with HIV, AIDS or herpes from their husbands. Are we still going to tell these girls that they should stay married then too?