Wendy Williams Gives Porsha Stewart Advice, While Kordell’s Friends Start Talking
By: Amanda Anderson-Niles
Everyone has something to say on the recent confirmation regarding Porsha and Kordell Stewart’s impending divorce. For some people, the news was a total shock; but for others, including fellow RHOA NeNe Leakes, the news isn’t a shock at all, and was pretty much expected. The couple became a target of criticism when Porsha suggested she needed to ask permission to have company over the house while Kordell wasn’t home and things only escalated when she told her cast mates that she couldn’t go to the “Gentlemen Club” with them in Vegas because her husband wouldn’t approve. This made many begin to speculate that Kordell is too controlling of Porsha and NeNe even suggested she felt Kordell treated Porsha more like a child than a spouse. The divorce was still somewhat a shocker to Porsha because she claims she wanted to file for divorce first, but Kordell asked her to stay and work on the marriage.
While Kordell has been pretty silent on while he filed the paperwork, allegedly his friends have already started talking about the split. A source tells All About The Real Housewives that Kordell wanted out when it appeared the other housewives were starting to get inside Porsha’s head:
“Before Kordell and Porsha got married, Kordell told Porsha that he wanted a wife who will be a stay at home mother while he works and pays the bills. Porsha was completely down with it and kept pushing the marriage. When RHOA signed Porsha, Kordell only agreed for the couple to be on it to support his wife but he didn’t like the idea and got annoyed with Porsha who all of a sudden wanted a ‘career.’”
Interestingly enough, the source also suggests that the real deal breaker was Porsha’s difficulty in getting pregnant:
“Porsha tried her best to make it like things were perfect. She constantly took photos of the two but Kordell was not happy. He hated how he was portrayed on the show and hated that his personal life was now out there. The breaking point was that Porsha couldn’t get pregnant. They tried and it wasn’t happening. Kordell would have stayed with Porsha despite her not being able to get pregnant but the show caused so many fights that it wasn’t even worth it and the marriage couldn’t be fixed on his end.”
Kordell’s friends aren’t the only ones talking. The other day, Wendy Williams had some advice for Porsha. The talk show host says she knew the spilt would come, but thinks Porsha could do better anyway:
“I love you Porsha and I am so team you. Your life is going to be better now that he’s dumped you. If you can understand and make lemonade out of lemons, this man was too controlling and you, my friend, are too vulnerable and naive for a 31-year-old woman. You behave like you’re 21-years-old and that is not practical at 31. Not in 2013.
“Here’s my advice to you. First of all, you don’t need marriage anytime soon. What you need to do is get two years of spousal support, because you have no children with him. She was married, for two years, to Kordell and he’s the one, by what we see (on the show), who told you to be a stay at home wife, with no career or anything. You get your two years of spousal support income, leave the ring, the big house and all that furniture. That’s how you hurt a man, by not wanting any of the crap.
“Take your spousal support and you’re going to live within your means. Get a one bedroom apartment in some high-rise in Atlanta. And more importantly, call Andy Cohen at Bravo and sign up for two more years of housewives. You’re going to execute like Porsha In The City. We want to see you date, we want to see you grow up and we want to see you go to either a therapist or a life coach.”