Michael Ealy Says His Wife Isn’t His ‘Type’

By: Amanda Anderson-Niles

Michael Ealy stars in the upcoming movie “About Last Night” with comedian Kevin Hart, so the actor is doing press rounds to the promote the film which hits theaters on February 14.

The actor and sex symbol covers the latest issue of Rolling Out Magazine and he opened up about the film and his marriage.

Ealy secretly married his girlfriend of four years Khatira Rafiqzada in October 2012.

Here are the highlights of the interview.

On the upcoming film, he says:

“About Last Night is a romantic comedy, where unlike most, we really deal with the complexities of relationships. We delve deeply into both the good and the bad, and not just gloss over the romanticized parts as is often done.”

 

He also spoke a little on his marriage and said he married in secret because he’s very private:

“Well, you know me, and you know that I am an extremely private person. But what I can say is that I’m not a young cat anymore. I’ve gone through my share of relationships, which ironically enough, I think have contributed to the work that I’ve done in some of these relationship films. I can relate to Danny in this new film, because I was him. So when I watched the film I was so happy that I had matured beyond that point in my life. Don’t get me wrong; marriage opens up an entirely different can of worms as it pertains to your evolution as a man. I’ve found that for me, the timing of it was right … that’s all that I can really say. And that’s a personal decision that was not made in haste, because we were together for four years. But when you find someone — and that’s something that is very hard to do … but when you find someone that you actually want to spend the rest of your life with, you have to go for it. I was just very lucky that the stars lined up for me.”

 

Despite feeling like the choice to marry wasn’t made in haste, he also stated that his wife isn’t even his type:

“While, I don’t consider myself a person that should write a book, or give advice on relationships, what I will share is my personal perspective. What helped me along the way was I had two personal friends of mine whose fiancés died. And I went through a personal struggle where my father got really sick, and I spent a week with him … and it just dawned on me that we don’t have as much time as we think. And when you’re done playing games, and you find someone who has qualities that are much more practical as opposed to romanticized ideals, then you’ve got to hold on to them. People think that you’re supposed to marry your type … well, I didn’t marry my type. It’s much more practical, and based in a day-to-day existence. So when you have that, and you’re happy, and you love her, don’t waste time. Because time — and I’ve learned that at this point in my life — time is my most precious commodity. Nothing is more precious than time. Because when it runs out … that’s it.”