Pastor John Gray Admits to Cheating on Wife + Responds to Critics


ICYMI: Pastor John Gray Confesses to Cheating on His Wife + Responds to Criticism

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Pastor John Gray Cheated

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By: A.J. Niles

Pastor John Gray has had many controversial moments over the past year or so.

Firstly, a sermon telling women to level up, moving on from problematic relationships went viral when Ciara shared the sermon online.

Next, John purchased his wife Aventer a $200,000 luxury car. This Christmas gift really rose eyebrows after a controversial sermon of his has gone viral. During the sermon, he admitted to cheating on his wife.

Click next for the details.

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  1. Anonymous

    January 8, 2019 at 2:16 pm

    So this is why he bought her that car.

  2. Megan

    January 8, 2019 at 2:24 pm

    Why can’t people see that this man is a fraud?

  3. My 2 Cents

    January 8, 2019 at 2:39 pm

    Can you really be someone’s pastor when you’re out here cheating on your wife?

  4. Queen

    January 8, 2019 at 2:48 pm

    This man and his wife are an example of people who become pastors and first ladies for the money and fame. But there will still be people who support them and refuse to see the red flags. Oh well.

  5. Yeah I Said It!

    January 8, 2019 at 2:50 pm

    You mean to tell me the whole time he was trying to tell women how to become “wife material” so they could level up, he was out here hoeing like there was no tomorrow? Not surprising at all. That’s usually how it goes and why I don’t take most of these “pastors” seriously. LOL.

    • Get Busy

      January 8, 2019 at 2:58 pm

      These pastors will spend hours and hours preaching about how a wife should submit and what she needs to do to keep her husband but they never spend time telling these men how to be husbands. This man doesn’t even know how to be a husband himself but he always has something to say about what women need to be doing.

  6. D. Val

    January 8, 2019 at 6:51 pm

    People push love but rarely ever respect; and without the latter, love isn’t enough. You can’t tell me, preacher or not, how to be my best self for myself or anyone else, when your own personal decisions are immoral. The idea that we should separate anybody from their role as a pastor, artist, etc. has always been absurd to me. Being “human” doesn’t excuse poor decisions and these people are better off keeping their personal issues to themselves.

  7. Casey Grimes-Finley

    January 9, 2019 at 4:17 am

    He /they are only humans for all we know she cheated on him,too.Nobody’s relationshiops,especially marriage are perfect.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois

  8. Anita H

    January 9, 2019 at 7:44 pm

    He never passed muster with me even when he was with Joel Olsteen. I think that he came out because he felt like the Mistress was going to rat him out …… so he put it out there first. Who knows, maybe she has a “blue dress” of proof. Anyways, you do see that he waited until he was installed as the pastor before bringing forth this revelation. If he were on the up and up, he would have revealed this during the vetting process before the decision was finalized to make him the pastor of the church. Then, the extravagant car……’s ridiculous.

  9. Adele Johnson

    January 9, 2019 at 11:37 pm

    As a pastor for 30 years, I thank God for 51 years of fidelity in my marriage, but it’s only because of God’s grace! I commend the Grays for receiving God’s grace and staying in the race in spite of moral failure. We who are spiritual must restore Pastor Gray in the spirit of meekness considering we can also be tempted.
    God forgave David after he slept with Bathsheba. Do not despise God’s grace. We all need it!

  10. Embarrassed Blackwoman

    January 10, 2019 at 1:30 am


  11. Embarrassed Blackwoman

    January 10, 2019 at 1:31 am

    Sickening…unfortunately it is not the Devil who is a lie..

  12. M. Evans

    January 11, 2019 at 2:45 am

    So sad!! I do hope his transgressions can be forgotten by his congregation. Many non churh goers and a few celebrities were following and listening to him. Whoever you are, trust and follow the non failing God. Pray for all pastors.

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