Shamari And Ronnie Devoe: Shamari Denies Ronnie is Controlling


Shamari Denies That Ronnie is Controlling + NeNe Adds Her Two Cents

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Shamari And Ronnie Devoe

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During the After Show for the latest episode of RHOA, a producer asked Shamari why Ronnie needed to approve her outfit for Kandi’s “Welcome to the Dungeon” show.

And here’s what she had to say:

I just want to make sure that I’m respectful of my marriage and my husband. And I don’t want him to feel like I’m showing too much cleavage and to him to feel uncomfortable.

When Porsha says that the other women may feel like that’s a sign that Ronnie is controlling, Shamari disagreed:

Some of those girls that’s never been married can’t really say what’s unappropriate and what’s appropriate until you’ve been into a relationship and you know it’s about meeting each other halfway.

He doesn’t want the men to be lusting over me.

NeNe Leakes and Marlo Hampton also discussed Shamari and Ronnie’s marriage. In particular, NeNe said it was selfish that Shamari wasn’t allowed to sleep with other men when they had an open marriage:

When she spoke about she was able to sleep with women but not men…and that’s when my hair stood up on the back of my neck. Cause I feel like if it’s an open relationship, let me see what these d*cks look like.

I don’t want to just look at Hello Kitty. It was uneven.

But it was uneven because he got to have Hello Kitty from his wife and from any other woman outside. And you know what everybody told me when I told them? They were like, ‘Man, you know, kudos to Ronnie.’

You know, Ronnie is able to get with his wife and have permission to sleep with other women. And she only has permission to sleep with women not with men.

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  1. Deja

    March 16, 2019 at 12:30 pm

    Porsha’s face said it all.


      April 15, 2019 at 9:00 am


  2. Queen

    March 16, 2019 at 12:41 pm

    I understand being married and respecting your husband’s feelings but Ronnie does have some controlling ways. He honestly acts more like a parent to Shamari at times and the open marriage thing was very one sided.

  3. Veronica

    March 16, 2019 at 1:08 pm

    Porsha can see red flags but she’s not going to say anything. And I agree with NeNe. That open marriage was not in her favor.

  4. Anonymous

    March 16, 2019 at 5:03 pm

    Oh he’s def controlling. I peeped that a while ago.

  5. Casey Grimes-Finley

    March 16, 2019 at 7:55 pm

    Shamari acts like an immature teenager,thus Ronnie has taken on the parent/adult in the relationship,so she acts out through her alcoholism.The dynamic is a dysfunctional relationship.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois

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