'Basketball Wives' Star Tami Roman is Accused of Being a Hypocrite + She Responds


‘Basketball Wives’ Star Tami Roman is Accused of Being a Hypocrite + She Responds

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By: Amanda Anderson-Niles

Tami Roman is leaving “Basketball Wives.” Months ago, she confirmed the current season is her last. The reality star wants to focus on acting. Plus, she has other projects in the works.

But that doesn’t mean she isn’t still involved in drama. In fact, she recently went off on Jennifer Williams. Jennifer made some messy accusations about Tami on the show. And Tami clapped back with a rap.

Tami feels her payback was justified. But one of her followers feels like Tami is a hypocrite. And they called Tami out on Instagram. Tami responded, too.

Click next for the details. 

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  1. Queen

    August 19, 2019 at 11:48 am

    I mean Tami is a hypocrite though. She pretends to be so above all the mess on the show but she actually caused most of it. But at the same time, these Jen defenders are annoying. She’s not innocent and should be called out.

    • Annette

      August 19, 2019 at 3:26 pm

      This is the second incident that Jennifer played innocent about now it’s a situation with Malaysia now they come in for Jackie Christie Jennifer is Not Innocent but they got her back

      • Tracey

        August 19, 2019 at 5:57 pm

        Tammy has been a jealous mess since she came to the show. She’ll never change. Make up new clothes & hair does not make you a better person. On another note she really needs to be grateful to Shaunie, because if it wasn’t for her, Tammy still may be on food stamps.

        • Robin

          August 19, 2019 at 8:16 pm

          My issue with the rap is, what did MJ do to be thrown under bus? Coming for Jen is one thing but to out that man’s business on blast like that is a shame. Hopefully Michael Jordan doesn’t sue her a-s for slander and defamation

          • Vonn

            August 19, 2019 at 8:32 pm

            Thank you! I was just thinking the same thing. Why bring MJ in the mess!

          • Thee

            August 19, 2019 at 10:42 pm

            MJ got divorced for a reason. Simply put Juanita got tired of his unfaithful a-s. BTW she got the biggest alimony and child support settlement ever. So MJ infidelity was a major factor in this settlement amount. So please don’t blame Tami for his indiscretions.

          • Anonymous

            August 19, 2019 at 10:50 pm

            Thee, y’all will always find a way to strip Tami of any personal responsibility? Why is that?

          • Charlotte Prater

            August 20, 2019 at 1:39 am

            Can’t get sued for slander if it’s the truth

          • Hater

            August 20, 2019 at 9:52 am

            Charlotte you don’t know what the truth is. And I doubt Tami knows either. For her to bash Evelyn and Jen for being mean girls, Tami sure does have a lot of mean girl traits herself.

          • Carolyn Chambers

            August 20, 2019 at 3:37 pm

            Tammy is Tammy I love her Tammy is doing TMmy I love her she says exactly what she means Tammyan Shaunie is the realest everyone else is thristy Tammy iove you girl on Saints an Sinners girl you that Boss B-tch keep doing you

        • LaSandra Brown

          August 19, 2019 at 11:27 pm

          Wrong!!!! Tami has been in the tv reality genre…before and while those celeb hoes were busy bagging in the “sack”….GET IT RIGHT!!! jealous of what??? Sis got ” full fledge, honestly earned; upright….CAREER…on her work, not on her back, or legs spread on maternity table….PIN THAT!!!!

          • Specialkind41

            August 20, 2019 at 7:57 am

            She gain recognition by being on Basketball Wives!!! Did anyone know she was in a singing group back in the 80s nope!!! If it wasn’t for Shaunie will we know her? Nope!! So she need to be grateful from where she was before the show!!! Just saying Tami didn’t have sh-t!!!

          • Gwen

            August 20, 2019 at 10:27 am

            You’re acting like Tami Roman was a household name before Basketball Wives. Also, you do know that Tami would have never been on the show had she not been married to a NBA player, right? So I’m not sure how you can drag anyone for getting anything on their back like she got on the show on her own merit. All of them got on the show because of who they were married to or sleeping with, including Tami. And Shaunie created the show. So yeah, give Shaunie her props. She created the show your fave used to get where she is now. You’re loud and wrong even with the caps lock button and exclamation points. And Tami is a very jealous person. She was jealous Evelyn and Jennifer made up. She was jealous of Duffy’s DJ career. She was jealous of Shaunie and Evelyn’s friendship. She’s one of the most jealous women on the show and always has been.

          • Renita

            September 13, 2019 at 8:52 am

            She said she was grateful

        • Phylise Webb

          August 19, 2019 at 11:44 pm

          You messy as h-ll

        • Cynthia Harris

          August 20, 2019 at 9:07 am

          Lets be clear..Tami Roman will be fine if she didnt have Shaunie.. I dont know why some people or FANS ..try to make big celebrities feel like they GOD.. IF IT WASN’T FOR GODS GRACE NONE OF US WOULD BE HERE.SO please stop it..

          • Not Today

            August 20, 2019 at 9:21 am

            Girl bye. Y’all are the ones out here making Tami out to be God. You can’t even admit that Shaunie created a platform Tami used to become successful because you need Tami to be this self sufficient, perfect being y’all can continue to worship and argue over. Facts are facts though. Tami was on food stamps and struggling when she made her first appearance on this show. She wouldn’t be where she is today without this show and guess who created the show? Shaunie. Get over it.

          • Savetta Wright

            August 21, 2019 at 7:31 am

            Right, and what they don’t know. She didn’t get her stardom from #BBWLA. She was in a singing group and also she was on the real world! Ppls don’t remember that huh? Her first fight on that show was with the guy David when he pulled the blanket off her half dressed. So tami Roman name Been around some ppls just knows her from #BBWLA. Trusted I watched the real world every night it came on!!#facts

          • Janice Alexander

            August 22, 2019 at 11:20 am

            So true before Basketball Wives ever came out Tammy had a spot on the Parkers

          • Dime

            September 6, 2019 at 1:03 pm

            Thank you shunni asked them to be on the show and asked Tammi to come back this season people kills me judging other people like if it wasn’t for her she would not be this or that

        • Joette

          August 20, 2019 at 3:59 pm

          Tami was already a reality star before basketball wives, correction shaunie should be thankful for tami or she wouldn’t have a show cause shaunie is st8 boring and tami fulfilled her job on the show and now she is ready to move on and if the show was ready for her to go they wouldn’t be trying to negotiate a new contract.

          • Anonymous

            August 20, 2019 at 4:24 pm

            Lies. Being on a reality show does not make you a reality star. Tami was on The Real World but she wasn’t known like that. To be honest, it was the later seasons of The Real World that made the show popular. So Tami wasn’t a star when she came on Basketball Wives. That’s why she was on for stamps the first season of Basketball Wives. Let’s be clear. Also, Basketball Wives has never been boring. The OG cast made the show what it is today. Jen, Shaunie, Evelyn, Tami, Suzie, and Royce are the reasons why the show is still on the air now. And there would be no Basketball Wives without Shaunie, so stop deluding yourself. This is what makes you Tami fans so annoying. Yall give her way too much credit while not giving any credit to others. And if y’all love her so much, why did her wedding special flop sis?

          • Savetta Wright

            August 21, 2019 at 7:33 am

            THANK YOU @JOETTE
            Yessssssss tami been on TV!! This show #BBWLA didn’t make her, she made the show.

          • Samuel Merriweather

            September 10, 2019 at 5:49 pm

            I agree Tammi makes the show everyone else is boring except Jackie she’s crazy but I like her

        • CT

          August 20, 2019 at 7:10 pm

          And where do you live to be making judgments about food stamps? Not in any mansion so any day you could have to use them. And if you ever have or know someone who has, smack yourself for looking down on people. In fact, just smack yourself for your comment.

          • Anonymous

            August 20, 2019 at 7:23 pm

            Maybe you need to smack yourself for having weak comprehension skills and not understanding context. Tracey didn’t judge people for using food stamps. Nor did she look down on anyone. What she did do is accurately point out that Tami wouldn’t be where she is today if it wasn’t for Basketball Wives, the show Shaunie created. Tami was on food stamps when she came on the show. She said out her own mouth she was struggling hard back then. It’s not anything to be ashamed of. And it’s not a diss to repeat it. So it doesn’t make sense how her supporters are trying to recreate the narrative like she came on the show a success. That’s false. And it’s okay to acknowledge that. Stop reading more into it than that. Some of y’all are too sensitive and need to work on your emotional intelligence.

        • Sunshine Davis

          August 30, 2019 at 8:55 am

          Not true Tammy real and don’t give a it about none of that messy she not look at the big picture. Evelyn a cry baby Jennifer lie lie lie but they got her back. Shaunie did not make Tammy she was already IN GODS PLANS.AYEEE Tammy walk away they ALLLLL STILL GOING TO ME MESSY.

        • Tae

          August 31, 2019 at 5:40 pm

          what do food stamps have to do with any of this NOTHING

          • Anonymous

            August 31, 2019 at 6:13 pm

            Why are y’all so ashamed by the fact that Tami was on food stamps? 🤔

        • Hazel

          September 6, 2019 at 1:00 pm

          Girl that’s a lie go back and watch the show they started with Tammi first talking about how she dressed her hair her clothes her body shape Jen & Eve mostly jealous of who and what they pretended they did know what food stamps was shunni is fool of it also she throw her stones and hide

        • Joanjo

          September 14, 2019 at 3:39 am

          Tammy and Evelyn are both fighting for Shaunie attention little you big me they all need to grow up and Tammy is to old to start rapping. Looking crazy as freak.

        • stacey lee

          September 17, 2019 at 1:34 pm

          So everyone think it’s ok for Jen and Evelyn to say sh-t about her Jen just told someone who told the whole world that Tami tried to return pants that had p***y juice in them and that her card declined and Evelyn has been saying mess about Tami for the longest, and because tami’s comebacks hit harder now she’s this and that come on people don’t hate and be mad at her cause she verbally hits harder then the rest. You keep poking the bear eventually she’s gonna bite your a-s n that’s what Tami did don’t come for her if she didn’t send for you PERIOD POOH.

      • Kee

        August 19, 2019 at 8:34 pm

        Your right sister

        • Charlotte Prater

          August 20, 2019 at 1:41 am

          Can’t get sued for slander or defamation of character if it’s the truth

          • Meg

            August 20, 2019 at 11:26 am

            You don’t know the truth.

      • Karrie Lynn Chestang

        August 19, 2019 at 9:48 pm

        Jennifer deserves EVERYTHING she’s getting.

      • Falon

        August 20, 2019 at 4:50 am

        Yes girl jennifer need to stop

      • Savetta Wright

        August 21, 2019 at 7:23 am


      • Tee Morris

        August 22, 2019 at 9:31 pm

        It wasn’t Evelyn that threw Jackie under the bus it was Jennifer, Jennifer is a messy person and she know she did that to Malaysia

      • Natalie BrownSpencer

        August 30, 2019 at 11:48 pm

        INDEED the problem Tami haven’t bothered nobody that haven’t came for her and if Evelyn can talk things out with fake Jen why cant she sit down and have a conversation with Tami she fake as h-ll and Malaysia needs to stop acting like she going to run hands on everybody she didnt do that with OG they all messy as h-ll bored with nothing to do Shonie she messy to for her to be part owner of the show she petty as h-ll cause if she was a real friend of Tami she wouldn’t Entertain Evelyn being Petty talking about Tami They need to be a Real Queens Encouraging each other Never Sit So High And look down on others God dont like UGLY

    • Lee

      August 19, 2019 at 3:27 pm

      How did she become Og’s defender? One mess validating another mess..Tami acts like she bad. Lol!!! Although freshly married seems unhappy still and trying to stay relevant no matter what. The passing on of these so called rumors is low class at best. Your booked and busy right so why are you being bothered with BBW since its so beneath you if your so successful now..girl bye.

      • Lawanda

        August 19, 2019 at 5:33 pm

        I feel that it is beneath her. From the beginning they have been on Tami. She has grown but dont we all have in us to not forget who what and where we come from. Dont we all back slide from time to time. So why so hard on her

        • Lj

          August 19, 2019 at 10:08 pm

          Yes but look how evil she was to the younger girls who was on the show at first, especially the lil country half white girl from North Carolina, her and scary Azz half Asian Chiqk who was definitely scared of Elve & Tammi, but now it’s back on her and messy Azz Jackie…😂😂😂

        • Thee

          August 19, 2019 at 10:48 pm

          Agreed, the same people who is calling her a hypocrite is ironically, the people who would do the same thing if someone came for them. Gtfoh fight fire with fire…

          • Rob

            August 20, 2019 at 9:08 am

            No Tammy is berry messy period it’s ok to talk about others but when someone is taking about her she can’t take it

      • Gloria Glover

        August 19, 2019 at 9:55 pm

        Exactly What I’ve Been Saying All Along.Tammi Is a Jealous Hypocrite She’s Jealous Of Evelyn Shawni And Now Jennifer Since Everyone’s Good And She Can’t Handle It.Tammi Is Messy She Put Herself In Her Own Mess Karma Is A B-tch (U)

        • Anyoumous

          August 20, 2019 at 5:18 am

          And what makes you so different, look how messy you are.The pot can’t call the kettle black

          • Stop

            August 20, 2019 at 6:16 am

            So Gloria is messy because she called Tami messy? Please stop reaching. You Tami stans are so annoying. The meltdowns on here are shameful. Y’all are upset that not everyone likes her. Do better.

        • Candi

          August 21, 2019 at 1:03 am

          Tami Roman was on real world and tv shows before basketball wives was even thought of please check your facts and if anything they are coming for her because she is the realest one and they feel threatened by her friendships with Jackie and Shaunie….yall are fast to judge like yall are celebrities or God take several sites and get a life only God can can judge and thank goodness he’s nothing like us he doesn’t hide behind behind social media and fake names…he is forgiving as and merciful

          • Savetta Wright

            August 21, 2019 at 7:36 am


          • Anonymous

            August 21, 2019 at 7:52 am

            You’re very delusional and uninformed. If Tami was such a big star before Basketball Wives, why was she on food stamps after she did the Real World and these TV shows you speak of? And Tami is the one who feels threatened by people’s friendships. Did you miss her crying after Evelyn came back because she was worried Shaunie would be closer to Evelyn?

          • Anonymous

            August 21, 2019 at 7:53 am

            You’re just as delusional as Candi is Savetta.

      • Denise Darcel Chandler

        August 19, 2019 at 11:21 pm


    • Shay

      August 19, 2019 at 10:34 pm

      Your leaving the show so why don’t you just let all this foolishness go? Bully’s are usually kids you are a grown women,come on there is so much more to life than this. Keep pressing towards your goals you got better things to do.

    • Hazeleyes

      August 20, 2019 at 9:56 am

      How in the h-ll when she has stayed to herself the entire season and Jennifer a-s pretend she so d-mn hurt I would have did the same thing you probably would have to if someone came for stop upholding wrong

      • Queen

        August 20, 2019 at 10:05 am

        I said both Jennifer and Tami were wrong. Why do you take issue with that? Do I really need to say Tami is blameless for you to be okay with my comment? That’s very….weird and unsettling. And you may not like to admit it, but yes, Tami started most of the drama taking place on the show right now last season. She was bothered that Evelyn and Jennifer were friends again, so she decided to tell everyone the things Jennifer said about Evelyn while they weren’t friends. People who have grown don’t do things like that. Even now, Tami is still in mess and being just as nasty as the people she loathes on the show. You don’t want to admit any of this because you’re a Tami fan. But I don’t watch this show to be a fanatic of any of these women. So I have no problem calling any of them out. If that offends you, so be it.

    • Gwen

      August 20, 2019 at 11:11 am

      Reality is Tammi doesn’t interact with the BW often for this very reason. Jennifer went through this breakdown of “this doesn’t feel like a sisterhood” and, before she could finish was right back at her normal routine of badmouthing. He that wants a friend should first show himself to be friendly. Every one won’t tolerate the way she plays; some folk fight back.

      • Meesha

        August 20, 2019 at 11:20 am

        You mean just like Tami turned around and dragged Jennifer and MJ after saying she’s above BBWLA negativity? Tami is not a victim. Don’t forget it was Tami who caused Jennifer and Evelyn’s conflict. And she only did it because she was mad they were friends again. She’s just as nasty as the rest of them. You only don’t see it because you like her for whatever reason.

    • Stephanie W Lewis

      August 20, 2019 at 3:30 pm

      I don’t understand why everyone is going for Tami. She have been minding her own business and staying out of these women bull. Jennifer ask for what she go and who care if MJ is a NBA star they all feel like they can cheat on their wives. Am so tired of basketball wives bull. And everyone need to chill and let Tami f-ck Jenifer up.

    • Charese

      September 12, 2019 at 7:18 pm

      Tammi look dumb as h-ll, she’s having a midlife crisis,Evelyn doesn’t have a story line and is very immature,Malaysia doesn’t have a storyline,Jenn said that Evelyn slept with Shaq but Evelyn keep steering the Convo in a different direction, Remember Evelyn slept with Tammies Ex that’s what she does,sleep with your hand me downs!!! Shaunie is a punk, how in the h-ll are you upset about what Jen said about Evelyn’s daughter ..Petty!!! Jennifer is in a class allto herself none of those old tired worn out HoeS can touch her!!! I believe that there is a lot of jealousy from women who were NEVER MARRIED to basketball players!!!!!

  2. Anonymous

    August 19, 2019 at 11:57 am

    That person told not one lie.

  3. anonymous

    August 19, 2019 at 12:01 pm

    How is Jenn uplifting women by sleeping with someone’s husband?

    • Tammy

      August 19, 2019 at 3:26 pm

      Shunnie and Evelyn and Kristen are the real Hypocrite.

    • Sylvia A. Crenshaw

      August 19, 2019 at 3:46 pm

      Exactly. How about instead of coming for Tami, come for Jennifer for sleeping with someone’s husband

    • Sandra

      August 19, 2019 at 4:51 pm

      If U keep up with the show it’s seems like they all like to start stuff they allrepeat what the other sad what women thier ages act like that sometimes I get so mad about all the dramar I just turn it off they are all too old to be acting like high school. girls

      • Jalunda

        August 19, 2019 at 11:28 pm

        If you ask me they all gotta a d-mn problem real grown a-s women don’t act like that in life. I watch the show sometimes but when them b-tches go to acting stupid. Change the channel they make us black women look crazy😕

      • Nicole Spencer

        August 20, 2019 at 12:35 pm


    • Lisa

      August 19, 2019 at 10:25 pm

      How do you know if that’s a fact?

  4. Chelly

    August 19, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    How did they manage to make Jen the victim?

    • Yeah I Said It!

      August 19, 2019 at 1:35 pm

      That’s what I’m trying to figure out. LOL. Jen is one of the messiest people on the show. And has been since day one.

    • Andrea R Clinton

      August 20, 2019 at 4:52 am

      Evelyn misses her friend. That’s why she ran out & told Malaysia I believe her. @nd she diverted attention away from Jen by saying Jackie running around telling people when she asked to speak to the guy for proof. And like the you girl said, these girls take the story & change it around, leave stuff out & add to it. And you know it’s all to be relavent on the show.

  5. Valerie

    August 19, 2019 at 1:23 pm

    Tami and her fake growth.

    • Tammy

      August 19, 2019 at 3:31 pm

      Shunnie and Evelyn and Kristen are the real hypocrites , Tammie is as real as they come and so is OG , and I’m so Glad Jackie ain’t letting nobody push Her around .

      • Anonymous

        August 19, 2019 at 5:20 pm

        How are Tami and OG real? Tami lies, causes drama then refuses to film with the people she caused drama for. That’s real? And OG lies, picks fights with people for attention and even after she pretends to make up with people, she comes for them again for a storyline. That’s real? What makes this show annoying to watch is how the viewers have decided to start stanning people. This is a reality show where these women get paid to go at each other. How do you stan any of these people?

        • Jenny

          August 19, 2019 at 6:10 pm

          What is stanning🤔

          • Anonymous

            August 19, 2019 at 8:49 pm

            Want to know the same thing….lmao

        • Hershey

          August 19, 2019 at 8:05 pm

          What show you watching???

          • Anonymous

            August 19, 2019 at 8:13 pm

            The same one you’re watching and I don’t have to have the same observations as you. Understood?

      • Savetta Wright

        August 21, 2019 at 7:38 am


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        August 21, 2019 at 7:39 am


    • G

      August 19, 2019 at 5:04 pm

      She has grown, she could have beat her down.

      • Anonymous

        August 19, 2019 at 5:08 pm

        How? By pulling hair, mushing and scratching? Tami can’t actually fight. She talks a big game but has never thrown a punch. I can tell some of you are easily manipulated into buying whatever image someone sells you. Drop Tami off in the hood and see how long she lasts without Basketball Wives security. Evelyn too.

        • Thee

          August 19, 2019 at 10:56 pm

          @Anonymous Actually Tammi has thrown a punch on multiple occasions. Have you ever seen her fight? Even Shaunie says she got hands…

          • Anonymous

            August 19, 2019 at 11:08 pm

            Actually, I have seen her fight which is why I say she can’t fight. And no, she has never thrown a punch. Shaunie saying she has hands means nothing to me. She has overhyped Tami like most of you do on here everyday.

    • Thee

      August 19, 2019 at 10:52 pm

      @Valerie Same thing for Evelyn…as Tami would say “She is the same old b-tch she was before” NO GROWTH, JUST LIES…

  6. Anita

    August 19, 2019 at 1:32 pm

    Oh leave Tami alone , Tami is the realest I’m glad she’s gone from basketball wives she has so much positive things going on , Tami do your thing I watch you every Sunday on “ Saints and Sinners “

    • Annette

      August 19, 2019 at 3:29 pm

      This is the second incident that Jennifer played innocent about now it’s a situation with Malaysia now they come in for Jackie Christie Jennifer is Not Innocent

      • Tina

        August 19, 2019 at 8:18 pm


      • Thee

        August 19, 2019 at 10:58 pm

        Jennifer will lie to your face with a straight and sincere expression. Lol she need her a-s beat….lol

    • Lenelle

      August 19, 2019 at 4:34 pm

      I agree Anita. I have taken notice of the growth in Tami. Some people fail to realize if you are STILL doing the samething you were doing 10 + years ago, and its not “POSITIVE” you have not grown or learned ANYTHING. Tami wants to & will be succesful, but she wants to take a different path, and I commend Tami for that, plus she is being a RESPONSIBLE wife & parent for wanting to set a better example for her family. Much success Tami on your new Journey, ALWAYS remember to take God with you & you will NEVER go wrong.

      Now we do have to watch how much power we give other people. If you are having a disagreement with someone, PLEASE keep that disagreement between the two of you. Its never cool to bring outsiders into a disagreement that has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with them. I just needed to put that out there

      • Landy

        August 19, 2019 at 4:48 pm

        DEFINITELY AGREE WITH NOT BRINGING OTHERS INTO A DISAGREEMENT. You go to people one on one when you have an issue. Had Jennifer been in the music industry, I would have POSSIBLY had a different opinion because that would have put them on level playing field. You address people head on, with exception of if there is already bad blood and you are trying to prevent an already escalated situation from getting more explosive. In that case you either have a neutral party there to meditate but both of you do and say what you choose and leave it there.

      • Tina

        August 19, 2019 at 8:21 pm

        Tammy has not grown one bit she’s a snake she sliver in causes trouble & sliver away. Watch your back.

      • Thee

        August 19, 2019 at 11:01 pm

        In a perfect world third parties should not be included but this is reality tv. You are expecting too much…lol

      • Angeleyes

        August 20, 2019 at 9:58 am


    • Kim

      August 19, 2019 at 4:41 pm

      And her character on saints and sinners shows she is best at being nasty….low budget a-s show.

      • Lawanda

        August 19, 2019 at 5:41 pm

        That’s okay that its low budget. The thing is she is working and getting jobs and receiving checks. So been that its low budget what does that mean. It has been Big Stars that have done low budget films and TV shows. What is your point

    • Sweet tea

      August 19, 2019 at 6:41 pm

      Tami used to be a bully on the show, and if you’re done then mind your business Og don’t need you to defend her. But I agree with some who feel like they’re all trouble makers they throw the rock and hide their hand. I was so happy that Jackie wasn’t in no mess then BAM the old Jackie came out

  7. Obvi

    August 19, 2019 at 2:12 pm

    I agree with Tami and the person she was talking to. Both made good points. I do feel Tami is fake. She says she has changed and she is minding her business, but she still takes time out her day to drag people about the mess that’s happening on Basketball Wives. If she’s trying to be a serious actress and she’s done with the show, why does she care what Jenn or anyone else has to say about her? Real growth is not caring or paying attention to the negativity. Tami still has a lot of growing to do. She’s praising Halle but not understanding Halle would never do what Tami just did to Jenn. Don’t just talk about it be about it.

    And Jenn’s fans need to understand that Jenn is very messy. And what she said about Tami wasn’t cool. So you can’t be mad at Tami and act like Jenn wasn’t wrong too. I’m noticing that Jenn’s supporters never really pay attention to what she does to other people. They ignore her nasty ways and try to shame people when they clap back in reaction to the nasty things Jenn did to them. They need to cut it out.

    • Thee

      August 19, 2019 at 11:04 pm

      Tami has grown very much, if she hadn’t she would have popped somebody already. I am proud of her…

      • Anonymous

        August 19, 2019 at 11:13 pm

        If not popping someone is growth to you, cool. But not everyone has the same low standards you have sis.

  8. 404

    August 19, 2019 at 2:18 pm

    Tami isn’t above the drama though. If she was, she wouldn’t be responding to anything. Not only did she make the time, but she wrote an entire rap for Jen. She clearly hasn’t changed too much.

    • J Hunter

      August 19, 2019 at 3:03 pm

      You don’t know what you are talking about. Before you comment on someone else’s comments about someone take a look at yourself

      • 404

        August 19, 2019 at 3:08 pm

        Do you think your hurt feelings are going to change my observation?

      • Anonymous

        August 19, 2019 at 3:14 pm

        Tami? Girl you did write a rap over a reality tv beef. That was corny sis. And booked and busy people shouldn’t move like that.

        • Tammy H.

          August 20, 2019 at 1:04 am

          They all have adult kids make the show more positive please 🙄

    • Lee Raymond

      August 19, 2019 at 3:20 pm

      No one is perfect. And growth doesn’t mean becoming a victim or not using your voice. She has grown because while refraining from physically assaulting Jen she is finding a different outlet to express her emotions and at the same time building the brand for her new found alter ego Tatiana Trill.

      • 404

        August 19, 2019 at 3:40 pm

        How is Tami a victim when she caused all this mess with Jennifer and Evelyn in the first place? And responding to the things people say about you isn’t growth, it’s weakness. There are people way more successful than Tami who don’t act like this. Things get said about them and they don’t respond. The best revenge will always be success. And let’s not forget she also invited Jen to fight her on this same IG post. What growth? Y’all can fall for Tami’s marketing campaigns if y’all want to. I’m good.

        • Jordan

          August 19, 2019 at 5:01 pm

          And, what about this married man’s family. Does she care that it may affect them. If indeed it did happen. She’s naming names, the same way she talked about Shaunie’s ex. If she’s so happy with her marriage that she tried to keep secret and her many jobs, why deal with this mess.

          • Lawanda

            August 19, 2019 at 5:52 pm

            Tami was dealing with it do to her contract. Its ok that she gets mess going before she Exit left by her choice and enjoy the other opportunities that has been presented to her. The day that she came to BBW Jen and Evelyn has been mean girls with the BS always. Shunice realy havent been a friend to Tami ever and been that she wrote a rap and she said that she is growing dont we all take back steps at time. Give her a break.

          • Shannon

            August 19, 2019 at 5:55 pm

            Lawanda please stop. Tami is not a victim and never was. She was in that same mean girl crew when she stole that woman’s purse. And Tami cried last season when that same mean girl crew wouldn’t let her back in. I wish y’all would just accept that some of just see through the BS and accept that. Y’all can’t handle that not everyone buys the BS Tami puts out. You love her and she can do no wrong? Cool. But everyone else doesn’t have to feel the same way.

  9. Heather B.

    August 19, 2019 at 3:09 pm

    People who have really grown and evolved don’t write diss raps.

    • anonymous

      August 19, 2019 at 9:29 pm

      Lol then no rapper ever has shown growth LMAO.

      • Heather B.

        August 19, 2019 at 9:35 pm

        Tami is not a rapper sweetheart. Notice how I even said “people” not rappers, which Tami is not.

        • anon anon

          August 19, 2019 at 9:45 pm

          Don’t waste your time. They are like a cult…for a reality star nonetheless. It’s like the twilight zone.

        • Sheila

          August 19, 2019 at 9:57 pm


      • anon anon

        August 19, 2019 at 9:44 pm

        Wait, you’re taking Tami’s rapping seriously? Now it makes sense why y’all believed she changed. Yall are easily some of the most gullible people I’ve ever seen on the internet.

      • Sheila

        August 19, 2019 at 9:56 pm

        You do know that diss raps have ended in violence/deaths, right? So no, writing diss raps isn’t a sign of growth for rappers either. That’s why most of the successful ones of today don’t do it like J Cole for example. But no need to worry. Tami is NOT a rapper.

        • Thee

          August 19, 2019 at 11:10 pm

          No, it is actually a publicity stunt in this day and age. So you do the math…

          • Sheila

            August 19, 2019 at 11:16 pm

            If your whole gimmick is about how much you’ve changed and you aren’t who you used to be on Basketball Wives, just maybe you shouldn’t do a publicity stunt that doesn’t reflect the new image you want people to buy into. Maybe Tami and her team should work on their math.

  10. Annette

    August 19, 2019 at 3:31 pm

    When it comes to something about Tammy Evelyn and got her hands all in it

  11. Arkansas Beau

    August 19, 2019 at 3:32 pm

    All I know is that Tami CANNOT rap! Feby was right: She’s too old for a British alter ego (Why?????) and she’s just too old to just be entering the rap game. Girl, sit down already!

  12. Landy

    August 19, 2019 at 3:46 pm

    Changing is a process it’s not something you say you are about to do, go to sleep , wake up and it’s done. That’s NOT how change works and anyone who says it does is a BOLD FACE LIE. A HORRIBLE temper is almost as difficult to get over as a drug and I speak from experience. I have a VERY short temper and honestly didn’t know there was anything wrong with it until I applied for a promotion and my boyfriend at the time told me I needed fix my attitude b4 stepping into the role. I had no clue what he meant until I sat at a panel interview with 3 or 4 vice presidents for a position I was WELL QUALIFIED FOR but ended up having to reapply the next round. When I went to each one for feedback, there was only one holdout on my decision and it was the only woman on the panel and she said she saw too much aggression in me and would set me up with mentors to help me. And to this day at the age of 34, I have evolved but I still have a TON of work to do. H-ll for a person with a bs attitude improvement might be a simple as the old me would have knocked the mess out of you onsite w/out saying a word but since I’m working on myself I’m just going to cuss you out. It might be too much for some people to understand but at the end of the day everyone is (or should be) working on improvements in some aspect of their life. As for minding your own business, if she wasn’t discussing that woman then she was minding her own business. Just because she replied doesn’t mean she wasn’t. That means she saw the show and did what she wanted. Now I’m only human, but me working on my attitude doesn’t mean people can say whatever tf they want about me and think it’s going to be all laughs and giggles. As for Jennifer, if you already have beef with a person, where I’m from it’s just best if neither of you speak on the other because the smallest thing is going to be explosive simply based on your history….

    BUT BEFORE ANYONE COMES WITH THE WHOLE FAN BS… I’m no one’s fan, the women don’t pay my bills (and as far as i’m concerned the public is paying their bills when supporting their shows and brands) so they owe ther public more than the public owes them. My opinion is simply based on MY own personal experiences.Idk how old these women are, but let’s say 50, if you had 48 years of being a person who pops off that’s 48 years vs 2 of trying to change. But hey, who am I…

  13. Ratchet Queen

    August 19, 2019 at 3:58 pm

    Minding her business? LMBO yeah ok.

  14. Anonymous

    August 19, 2019 at 4:38 pm

    It’s amazing how many passes Tami gets from people. These are the same people who will turn around and say Evelyn has not changed. Truth is neither of them have changed. Tami just has a better publicist and booking agent.

    • Twirl

      August 19, 2019 at 6:04 pm


  15. Lee

    August 19, 2019 at 4:43 pm

    Some of y’all are slow.

  16. Loonchiesmom

    August 19, 2019 at 4:47 pm

    U people are crazy! U r the same ones who watch the show & is so there for the drama, who now has shiz to say about reality show drama. Tami didn’t say she was a saint! She has every right to defend herself. If she didn’t you’d be the same o es criticizing her for not saying anything about Jenn talkin shiz about her. Tami has been the same person since she entered the BBW franchise & u all loved her & was here for her antics, now all of a sudden she’s this and she’s that. U people live to build people up to tear them down. Also Jenn ain’t innocent at all! For what reason did she need to mention Tami at all? She knew what she was doing. So now Tami the bad guy. She’s only the bad guy bcuz she bodied Jenn w/ that rap. If she hadn’t no one would be talking about her. So it’s you people who are the real fakes & hypocrits. D-mn how is someon’s Life who has nothing to do w/ yours so damn upsetting to you. U don’t know her personally, she’s not ur friend, nor does Tami put any coins in ur pocket. So why is what she does so d-mn personal to you. I mean it’s crazy how personal you people take these reality show actors lives.

    • CiCi

      August 19, 2019 at 4:57 pm

      You described yourself in your last 4 sentences. Anyway, it’s simple. Don’t say you’ve changed and you’re above the drama on the show then turn around and react the way Tami did. It’s hypocritical.

      • Kelly

        August 20, 2019 at 1:09 am


    • AtlShawty404

      August 19, 2019 at 5:06 pm

      I totally agree and someone dissed a show Tami’s on but it’s another source of income. Love Tami

    • Biggrldiva48

      August 21, 2019 at 7:57 am


  17. Vi

    August 19, 2019 at 5:52 pm

    Why does anybody watch these fake, created drama shows anyway. Pick up a book, spend time with your kids, hell, clean up, something. I just happened to come across this and all I can do is shake my head. How are you collectively going to talk about these people on this show, complain about them, etc. but yet….you’re still watching. Say what you will, but y’all are sending all these women straight to the bank. And they’re laughing alllll the way there !! Maya Angelou is rolling over in her grave along with all the other strong, classy, and empowered women before her at these shenanigans. If this show is suppose to empower and uplift women, it failed miserably.I just wasted 5 minutes of my life on this crap that I will never get back. SMH!!

    • redpop

      August 20, 2019 at 10:04 am

      you commenting because you too have seen the show and if you not you have a BIG opinion about something you know nothing about, its TV so its entertainment like reading your comment and othersm aslo U too can read a book, clean,garden,shop whatever makes you relax other than being on Urban Belle commenting which mean U like drama and mess as well but this is productive either.

  18. Barbara Bush

    August 19, 2019 at 6:05 pm

    It would be hilarious if Jen or Mr Jordan himself sued her for defamation.

    • Tina

      August 19, 2019 at 8:23 pm


  19. Robin

    August 19, 2019 at 8:20 pm

    My issue with the rap is, what did MJ do to be thrown under bus? Coming for Jen is one thing but to out that man’s business on blast like that is a shame. Hopefully Michael Jordan doesn’t sue her a-s for slander and defamation

  20. Josefa Morales

    August 19, 2019 at 10:03 pm

    I just think it was completely immature and childish! How fake can you be with claims of growing up. In the whole d-mn show the only mature and professional person I see is Shaunie, and that’s my personal opinion. If you made a mistake it’s once, but if you keep doing the same CD rap it’s no longer a mistake it’s a bad habits. When you make a mistake you learn n grow from it. Be real don’t be fake about it and own up to your mistakes!

    • Sherrrell Hudson

      August 20, 2019 at 1:53 am

      I don’t watch none of the reality’s shows I feel the same as some if u who n the hell past 35 do these things my last MESSINESS ended at 22 every since then its been about remove replace rebuild and being positive everybody stay blessed and it a its bcuz we all watch it

  21. Kelly

    August 20, 2019 at 12:57 am

    Tami has always been hypocritical in all that she states she stands for. If you are going talk the talk then walk the walk! She seems like a depressed person who only gets joy out of tearing others down for the same shit she does. Since when did it become her job to be OG’s savior or anyone else on the show who is having a hard time? Tami is coming for the other girls for the same shit she has done or is still doing. If Any of the older crew members said they are going to start rapping Tami would have clowned on them. I think Tami needs to get off the show early and find something else she can invest her money in besides rapping. Lord!

  22. Tammy H.

    August 20, 2019 at 1:05 am

    They all have adult kids make the show more positive please 🙄

  23. Lynn

    August 20, 2019 at 1:07 am

    I aplaud Tami for stepping back up. You can o.ly be good for so long and people will still pick and nudge at you.
    Jenn, had no receipts and never do. Which one of you are going to stand there and hear someone say, you took some clothes back with vaginal stuuf in the crotch of them. Now, thats low.
    Why didnt they go to Tami and tell her ..isnt that what theyre were blaming Jackie of not going to Malaysia. Double standard.
    Now, is Jenn still supposed grieving. Oh cry me a river..please. Messy Jennn. Oh..now Evelyn, is a wine throwing gossiping messy saint now.

  24. Falon

    August 20, 2019 at 4:50 am

    Yes girl jennifer need to stop and tami i live you girl stay fierce.

  25. meemaw

    August 20, 2019 at 9:43 am

    lets keep it real, Shaunie FAKE and Tami(got hands but they don’t move)yes everybody hypes Tami up b/c she talks a good game(TALK a good game)she not gone do anything and she got these ladies scared of b/c her mouth moves,now Evelyn she good ppl her hands move (thy all talk mess) but at least we have seen her in action,Jackie irritating b/c her mouth move TOO much she fake too thts why her and Tami friends, thy need to get some real basketball wives on here thy can keep Evelyn and for business purposes I guess we would have to deal w/Shaunie but if thy can rename another then she can go too.

    • Big Mama

      August 20, 2019 at 12:48 pm

      Let’s not forget how Tami was treated in the first season i think thats what set her off for Shawnee to be her best friend I do believe that it was wrong to put her ex-husband’s mistress on the show and not tell her and it came out like that yes you was a little rough around the edges but they didn’t give her a chance either

      • Anonymous

        August 21, 2019 at 8:01 am

        Oh please. So what’s the excuse for Tami stealing that woman’s purse and bullying other women when she got accepted into Shaunie and Evelyn’s mean girl crew? Stop trying to make Tami out to be some victim. It’s ridiculous.

  26. Nickey

    August 20, 2019 at 3:52 pm

    Tami is a f-cking hypocritical hot a-s mess she starts alot of sh-t just like the rest and claims she’s staying out the drama and has grown so much. Growth is ignoring the bullsh-t andremoving yourself from situations involving drama that’s going to cause you to get out of character

  27. She already done had hers.

    August 20, 2019 at 9:46 pm

    Tammy is a sad use to be. She’s never been relevant. Her come up kept her off food stamps and welfare, now she’s above it. Her 15 minutes of fame was over when she cried rape on the real world. Let it go old messy broad.

  28. Anonymous

    August 21, 2019 at 3:20 am

    Don’t understand why Tammi was on food stamps if Kenneth was making that kind of money🤔

    • Anon

      August 21, 2019 at 7:56 am

      She said he abandoned her and their daughters.

  29. Savetta Wright

    August 21, 2019 at 7:48 am

    Ok what the heck foods stamps got to do with this situation? Look everyone act like they were born with a silver spoon in their mouth. Yea food stamps what the hit for families back then alot of stars were on them. Soooooooooooo what? Her family got fed it don’t even matter. They been hating tami from day 1 which is corney. Jennifer been messy since she got back smh. She got slapped on this show by the chic, her ex husband threw a liquor drink in her face, Malaysia throw a table at her,allegedly she slept with someone husband, she talked about Evelyn daughter and nowwww she soooooooooooo messy it’s ridiculous. But, she’s gonna get what’s coming too her though watch. Let tami live!!! Because the #devil😈👿 wears Prada!!!!!

    • Anonymous

      August 21, 2019 at 8:08 am

      Let me help you out sis. So you and the rest of the Tami worshippers were on here saying she was some huge star before Basketball Wives and didn’t need the show, right? Okay. Well that’s clearly not true because your god Tami was on food stamps when she came on Basketball Wives. She came out her own mouth and said she was broke and struggling financially because Kenny left her. Yet, y’all are on here saying the opposite from your own fave. It’s simple. Don’t type lies and you won’t be clocked with facts. Stop lying on here. Tami needed Basketball Wives. That’s why she said she is grateful for the platform because it gave her exposure and other opportunities. Like she literally said this on Instagram several weeks ago. Stop lying on here to worship someone who doesn’t even agree with the narrative you’re trying to push on here. It’s pathetic.

  30. Biggrldiva48

    August 21, 2019 at 8:11 am


    • Ugh

      August 21, 2019 at 8:32 am

      So she did all that for IG views and likes? Yep, she’s so real.

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