'Marriage Boot Camp' Star Dr. Ish Addresses Tahiry Jose Throwing Apples at Vado


‘Marriage Boot Camp’ Star Dr. Ish Addresses Tahiry Jose Throwing Apples at Vado

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Tahiry and Vado’s issues became violent.

Vado has a lot of “Marriage Boot Camp” fans talking about the recent episode.

Tahiry Jose was so furious with Vado after the shock therapy exercise. She was already upset after learning he’s been in contact with his baby momma. And they have a close relationship. Since Vado didn’t reveal this sooner, she feels he had an emotional affair. So she threw two apples at Vado’s face after he shocked her during the exercise.

Vado would snap later and snatch up Tahiry after she told the group that Vado’s actions made her act in an aggressive way.

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Dr. Ish has something to say.

Dr. Ish and the rest of the cast felt like Vado took things too far. However, some people on social media are just as stunned by Tahiry’s actions. When a Twitter user said it had to hurt Vado to be hit in the face with two apples, Dr. Ish responded.

And he wanted to make it clear that he feels what Vado did is worse.

He wrote, “One thing is a fruit. The other thing is a tactical choke hold that we’re trying to get banned because it kills an inordinate number of black people when used by police. On what planet are those displays of force equal?”


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  1. Bee

    July 31, 2020 at 11:08 am

    It’s very alarming that he’s downplaying what Tahiry did.

    • Debra Sims

      July 31, 2020 at 11:27 am

      He’s supposed to be so educated but doesn’t seem to understand what Tahiry did is also classified as assault and she could have been arrested just like Vado. So they should have both been called out and kicked out the house. Instead, they are painting Tahiry as some domestic violence victim like she didn’t commit domestic violence first. I’m disgusted.

      • Denise Kinard

        July 31, 2020 at 3:37 pm

        I def agree with you her actions can not be justified whether fruit or hands she was wrong too.

        • Trina Samns

          August 2, 2020 at 6:18 am

          tactical choke hold no it wasn’t at all so stop using this black people ting using this as a reason. He didn’t use a choke hold on her. She was wrong assault is assault apple or hands both should have went home this is where I exit this show she isn’t a victim or domestic violence so stop painting her like one. She been that man face since it started some people throw rocks and hide their hand and I don’t believe in either putting hands on but if you keep pushing someone they will snap.

          • Trina

            August 2, 2020 at 6:25 am

            she isn’t a victim she is known to disrespect men and this one snapped poi t. it’s just as wrong for a women to throw or hit. But if you put your hands on mine in his face and spit,throw and or hit you might get what you thought he shouldnt. I encourage my son’s to walk away but teach these women to keep themselves an their hands in check also both should have went home.

          • Pooh

            August 2, 2020 at 9:51 am

            Yes, 4 every ACTION is a REACTION!

          • Selma

            August 3, 2020 at 10:25 am

            I cant believe he referenced what Vado did as the same thing we are battling against with police brutality. Dr.Ish is out of line for that! Address the issue with BOTH parties but lets not add fuel to the flame. I don’t know anyone that would be smiling about apples being thrown in there face and then she basically tried to say he pushed her to do it. #growupTahiry #Vadogobacktoyourchildsmom

          • Heman

            August 3, 2020 at 9:52 pm

            It’s just like in drugs if you smoke weed and you can’t control your urges they say it’s the gateway drug to other things that worse.. in a domestic relationship there’s other forms of abuse.. verbal abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse and sexual abuse . If we continue not to acknowledge the first it’s a gateway to the next Two….💯

        • Yolanda

          August 2, 2020 at 7:21 pm

          There is no excuse for domestic violence. Women cry victim when they themselves can be as violet. Yes the majority of men are physically stronger than a woman however some women need to learn to keep their hands and other items that maybe used as a weapon to themselves. At tactical choke hold that was not.

      • Pooh

        August 2, 2020 at 9:49 am

        I agree… NOBODY is going to tell me those apples to the face didn’t hurt… PERIODT!

      • LT

        August 2, 2020 at 2:11 pm

        If they can’t keep from physically hurting one another they shouldn’t be together. Plain and simple.

    • Lavender

      July 31, 2020 at 2:17 pm

      I can’t believe this is his response. Appalling! Hit the right person in the head with a hard apple and you can end up a murderer. It’s assault and he is downplaying it. I certainly would be thinking twice if I was looking to use his services.

    • Azure

      July 31, 2020 at 3:17 pm

      Exactly I watched it he grabbed her clothes not saying he was right but the only thing that made it less aggressive was she’sa woman. If one of the men had thrown apples in his face and he then grabbed his shirt everybody would have been like dang dude threw apples in his face and he just grabbed his shirt. Because she was less of a physical threat doesn’t mean her actions were any less violent. I think it’s gross how these shoes let the women assault the men but then when the man reacts they intercede where was the interceding when he was getting hit in the face with apples?

    • Bruce E Darden

      August 5, 2020 at 11:41 am

      I agree. 2 wrongs don’t make it right but she pushed the envelope just like on L&HH. I have seen people nose broke, eyes blackened from the force of fruit being thrown to the face. I do not agree or stand with domestic violence in any way but why do people always give her a pass when she is ALWAYS the aggressor

  2. Jamaica941

    July 31, 2020 at 11:17 am

    I agree, it’s two different types of force but Tahiry should be reprimanded also. This is the second time (that we know) that Tahiry has violated a mans personal space and the end result was a man putting hands on her. The first time she spit on a gay dude and he beat her a$$ like she stole something and put her in the hospital. You would think after that traumatic ordeal that she would keep her hands to herself.

    • Yoshi

      July 31, 2020 at 11:33 am

      Well said. And I like Tahiry but I can’t excuse her actions either.

    • Lynn

      July 31, 2020 at 7:19 pm

      Bullsh-t! She did not spit on a gay guy. She was going to be in the fashion designer Torres fashion show oh, and the guy that was working in the show said some offensive things to her because he obviously was not a fan of hers. She threw a drink at him, and he assaulted her after that.

      • Skylar

        July 31, 2020 at 7:59 pm

        You do know throwing a drink at someone is assault, right? Just like spitting on someone. It is against the law to throw objects at people. So Tahiry assaulted a man at a fashion show and he assaulted her back.

      • Pumpkin Jones

        July 31, 2020 at 8:11 pm

        I remember that and if I’m not mistaken, Tahiry lied and said she didn’t know why he put his hands on her and the attack just came out of nowhere. There appears to be a pattern with her. She assaults men then plays victim if they put their hands on her. Men shouldn’t hit women but women shouldn’t attack men either. Tahiry has been at this for years. She needs to keep her hands and objects to herself. If someone angers you, just walk away. Same for Vado.

      • Gloria Dunn

        August 2, 2020 at 2:51 pm


  3. Latisha

    July 31, 2020 at 11:24 am

    I see they’re really not going to hold Tahiry accountable for her violent behavior. This show is trash.

  4. Jus Sayin

    July 31, 2020 at 1:16 pm

    His knee wasn’t on her neck so his whole argument is moot. And if she felt big and bad enough to yell and throw objects than she needs to be just as big and bad and accept that he too can and will react just as violently

  5. Nat

    July 31, 2020 at 1:32 pm

    She committed assault also. Both should be arrested for domestic violence. They don’t need to be together!

  6. Destiny Thomas

    July 31, 2020 at 1:46 pm

    This is a disgusting response. Why is he not calling Tahiry out about her violence? She’s thrown things at him like three or four times. Why is no one on the show saying anything about that? Tahiry has been abusing him since they got to the house.

    • PeriodtPooh

      August 2, 2020 at 9:56 am

      EXACTLY 💯

  7. Anita Trent

    July 31, 2020 at 2:07 pm

    Im a women who raised a strong young man…but i also told him these new new women out here thinks they can harm and hurt a man a nothing be done to them..i told my son she hit u or harm u and u got the right to hit and harm her…thia is the new normal now..women acting like men

  8. Guest

    July 31, 2020 at 2:09 pm

    I agree with him. What Tahiry did was inappropriate and wrong but, Vado is a strong man and him grabbing her neck was a lot worse than having apples thrown at him.

  9. Anonymous Chick

    July 31, 2020 at 2:16 pm

    This always happens in the black community. When black women are violent towards black men, it’s never taken seriously. People turned a blind eye to the fact that Tahiry kept assaulting him and has assaulted him since day one. Not one peep was said about it nor will anything be said on the show. Instead, they will make her out to be a DV victim like Tina Turner. Meanwhile, Amber from Teen Mom OG was dragged for filth by everybody for putting her hands on her exes and even boycotted. She did not get a pass. I can’t wait until black people as a whole can agree violence is wrong no matter who does it.

  10. Wow

    July 31, 2020 at 2:50 pm

    So I watched that clip of him going off and right before he did, Tahiry literally blames him for her throwing apples. Like she didn’t even take responsibility for what she did nor apologize. Tahiry is very toxic. But she’ll get sympathy because she’s a woman.

    • PeriodtPooh

      August 2, 2020 at 10:05 am

      She shldve been called out immediately (after the apple incident) and ask to leave the house if they call themselves trying to set rules & boundaries. If they wld’ve asked her to leave maybe, just maybe he wldnt have snatched her up. Let’s not forget she’s been putting that man down since they arrived, which is verbal abuse.

  11. Pumpkin Jones

    July 31, 2020 at 8:12 pm

    Not surprised that he’s not taking Tahiry’s violent nature seriously. It goes to show you that this show is only for entertainment and not about truly helping people work out their issues.

  12. Anonymous

    July 31, 2020 at 9:00 pm

    Yeah, I really want all women to stop thinking it’s okay to be violent because a man did something that hurt your feelings or pissed you off. I’m tired of seeing black women in mugshots because they felt the best way to get even with a man is setting his car on fire or going upside his head. There’s a better way of dealing with those types of situations. You have to work on your emotional intelligence. If Tahiry had so many issues with Vado, just end the relationship. Don’t verbally abuse him and throw things at him. Tahiry is too old to still not know how to process her pain and anger. She can’t say she’s a victim when she’s been abusing him since they got there. As for Vado, he should have just walked away too. That five seconds of anger isn’t worth all the backlash he’s getting now. You live and you learn.

  13. Tiffani Young

    July 31, 2020 at 9:22 pm

    No Tahiry should not have thrown anything but Vado should not have put his ‘paws’ on her either

  14. Sherry

    August 1, 2020 at 11:18 am

    Vado could have been killed had one of those apples hit the right place. Why is this doctor not taking this seriously?

  15. Anonymous

    August 1, 2020 at 1:33 pm

    Tahiary needs to be banned off of television. Because she’s a domestic violence aggressor she does not need to be on anything remove her from everything all networks there needs to be a petition to remove Tahiary from everything. She’s a liar and she wants attention and she’s a narcissist tHold Tahiary responsible as well she committed a domestic violence against Vado she needs to be off the show and she needs to be arrested for throwing apples that is an assault on him and hitting him in the The face she should’ve been removed from the show as well she should not have had the opportunity to play out on the rest of the show that is not fair Dr Ish fair you need to be fair on all ends And hold her accountable as well for her actions she needs to learn how to treat people the way she wants to be treated and not go to physical violence to prove anything being hard like that has nothing to do with anything she needs to be a woman and now she’s going to play victim and be Arlo news cast and television shows and Instagram and tweet as if she’s a domestic violence survivor and And that case VAdo needs to go on air and on TV and show that he had domestic violence against him as well! I don’t care about her finding out about his baby mama she knew what she was getting into when she was with him that still does not negate the fact that you put your hands and throw apples on someone you don’t do that yes he shouldn’t of attacked her back but she was the first aggressor so both need to be held accountable especially to hear it and you’re only holding one person accountable and that’s not fair. She’s a narcissist and do not let those crocodile tears change your point of you of her not being in the wrong as well

    • PeriodtPooh

      August 2, 2020 at 10:08 am

      Yes, I agree, remove her from TV PERIOD!

  16. Anonymous

    August 1, 2020 at 2:49 pm

    I agree that tahiry should not have thrown apples, and vado shouldn’t have grabbed her, he is saying that she kept pushing his buttons, but he was pushing hers as well, and why would he stay throughout 5 episodes if he felt that way, he said he wanted to sleep with Harlem tahiry, well I guess that’s what he got and couldn’t handle it, be careful what you ask for

  17. Anonymous

    August 1, 2020 at 4:33 pm

    Why would she stay if she felt like she did about him. Saying he was broke and new he was talking to his baby mother. And yes Harlem Tahiary came out does not mean she had to assault him with apples. You just can’t hit people and don’t expect nothing not to happen, man or woman. Keep your hands to yourself…REMOVE TAHIARY FROM ALL OUTLETS SHE IS AN AGGRESSIVE PERSON!! HOLD HER ACCOUNTABLE TOO. People go to jail all day every day for being an accessory to a crime Which means they did not do the crime but they witnessed it but they’re still going to jail and the person who did it is going to jail which means like to hear she was the aggressor she needs to be punished , Vado and we all know he’s being punished Why not her she started it she was in it it takes to she needs to be punished as well

    • Anonymous

      August 1, 2020 at 5:04 pm

      I didn’t say it gave her the right to throw anything at anybody, yea she did say he was the brokest man she has ever dated, not that he is broke, there is a difference, and he started the name calling from day one, I don’t and will never feel that she should be taken off of any outlets, everybody just need to keep their hands to theirselves

  18. Holly

    August 1, 2020 at 6:27 pm

    I don’t feel Vato needs to be taken off as well he needs to be on the show just like her what’s the difference between the two of their actions really what is it nothing they both were wrong so why is she getting praise for what she’s done and he’s getting all this bad flak why it does not add up to being right they are both wrong so punish them both in the same way leave him on the show is being seen as one-sided and all the outlets are saying how she got choked out by Vado Which is giving him a bad rap and making her seem as if she’s innocent that’s why she needs to be taken out at all outlets of all shows she’s not innocent and she should be taken off if that’s the case put the bottle back on the show as well let him be seen as a victim to He is the only one is getting dragged and looking silly at her in the streets because of what she’s done regardless if he talked about her from day one or she talked about him all day too it does not matter she was an aggressor at the end of the day if you go to court both sides are going to be punished so why not her as well And by the way he did not choke her he pulled her clothes which is not acceptable at all and Apple throwing in his face isn’t either

    • Pumpkin

      August 1, 2020 at 7:36 pm

      I will not agree under any circumstances that T-shirt behavior was equal to his. In the absence of producers he could have killed her, it’s possible to hit someone with apples and hurt them but it’s just not likely. However choking someone to death is far more likely. I believe men should held at a higher standard than women. Vado is dangerous should be removed and charged there I said it… Bye

  19. Da Bish💯

    August 1, 2020 at 6:56 pm

    I totally agree. I teach my son 2 neva touch a woman aggressively n if she does so 2 him walk away n if she still tryin 2 swing call the police on her.

    • Pumpkin

      August 1, 2020 at 7:41 pm

      Yes that’s exactly what I teach my son! It is his burden as a man to have more self control over his emotions than a hysterical emotional woman. Just as it’s a woman burden to carry children for 9 months. You must live within the constraints of what nature deems. I will not give him advice that can place him in jail and hitting women under any circumstances will do just yhat

  20. Anonymous facts

    August 1, 2020 at 10:54 pm

    By any means do you hold men more accountable than you do women at the end of the day we are all humans there is a limit to everyone just because you’re saying that a man should walk away yes he should and so should a female It is not A women Versus men because that’s not what it is humans versus human and everyone has emotions and limitations so if you’re going to say if it’s a man she walk away our men and even Animal me and I’ll talk to hunt and kill so if you keep provoking them they’re going to come after you yes you can teach as much as you want to teach but sometimes things don’t always work out like that and you cannot provoke people everyone has limitation is human versus human and to hear he needs to be accountable for that we already Novato is but what about the hearing you just can’t go around putting your hands on people in Apple versus choking he did not choke her and a Apple yes can harm you They could hear him directly in his eye and cause damage you can’t say one stone is better than the other stone they were both visible you can’t determine a chop versus throw an apple that’s not fair I hate is a hit

  21. Will

    August 3, 2020 at 8:34 am

    I definitely agree….She could’ve took his eye out with that Apple FRFR

  22. Belinda L

    August 3, 2020 at 11:29 am

    I think T-shirt provoked Vado trying to make it seem like she’s totally the victim. One thing for sure they’re not good together and I’d chasing clout is what she’s after she need to not do that and get a real job and her own money. Her purpose was to make him feel bad and not to mention look bad. I was out done when she hit him with those apples from which I know hurt him. But he took that. So what she did to him hadn’t been addressed until people started to bring it up so what goes for one SHOULD go for all. If he’s off the show then let’s say GOODBYE to her..

  23. Onmylevel6

    August 5, 2020 at 1:58 am

    Sorry Dr Ish, that was not “Grapes” it was Apples 😕😕😕

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