As we continue to see groupies grace the red carpet with some of the most esteemed athletes, and most successful of Hip Hop artists, we’re forced to believe that maybe this is representation of the type of female these type of men prefer over real women. While I’ve explained why these types of men love groupies and rather put real women on the back burner, I did run into a professional athlete who finds my theory unfair. While I can’t give out his name, this young man is a rookie in the National Football League, and he’s about sick and tired of the bad rep that comes with being a professional athlete. During a great conversation, he felt the need to put it all on the table, and put women like yours truly in check for stereotyping.
Here’s what he had to say about professional athletes and groupies, white women, and why some professional athletes prefer real women over gold diggers.
“I am a black man and I also happen to be a professional athlete now. I’m happy to get a chance to do what I love and get paid well for it, but I don’t like the label that comes with the job. It’s like as soon as I got drafted, black women started labeling me a some groupie chasing d–k head. I don’t understand the logic. Yeah, there are some athletes who get it in with groupies, but there are also some out there that don’t. Groupies don’t have a chance with these guys and they go home to their wives and girlfriends because they rather have something real. All men ain’t dogs, and all athletes ain’t hoes.
Why do the good guys always have to suffer for the bad guys?
And black women don’t understand that the whole stereotyping thing really pushes men away. And what is all this about black athletes only want white women? Everyone has different values, different backgrounds, and not all of us see white women as trophies. I want a black woman. In fact, I plan to marry a black woman with a good head on her shoulders; that’s just how I was raised.
Black women push some of us away because of our jobs, but get mad when someone gets with a woman of a different race. It doesn’t make any sense. You can’t judge me based off what some other guy did.
I’m just trying to say that all men are not dogs. And all successful black men don’t run out and get white women. There’s a lot of us left that love sisters. Stop stereotyping us and judge me by my character, and not by what the last guy did or what you see on the blogs.”
Interesting.
Okay, I used to date a pro athlete. He played for the Miami Dolphins. But this guy has a point. The guy I was dating was pretty normal. He was really sweet and he wasn't into groupies. Was he probably just a gem that I lucked up on..idk. But he wasn't into the limelight. So I guess it could depend on the guy, but I still think most athletes are scandalous.
I think more athletes prefer groupies than don't. Maybe there's a small number who want something real, but it's just hard to believe.
Rooks have no idea…
^Ditto.
But couldn't it be possible that maybe just a few men don't want to be bothered with nasty females? It's kind of hard to put every single man or pro athlete in one box. I'm not saying that most don't get it in, but how can anyone say this guy couldn't be a special case? Just a thought.
He brought up the fact how black women stereo type athletes as "groupie chasing d–k heads" or all into white women..BUT there stereo-typical veiws of women are just the same. Enough years in the league they become jaded and blinded and can't separate the real from the fake. such a sad cycle
All black women are not the same. Listen closely, I am a BLACK WOMAN. If you want to get the truth out, ask me. Athletes are satanic because they insist on hurting black womens’ feelings by worshiping white skin and white women. They would do anything for straight hair, white skin, and non-brown eyes and take a bullet for a white woman, but they would push a black woman infront of a bullet and laugh and say “the death of your womb is my goal!!! No love for you! Lil wayne’s versus replaced my bible!”.
White men in general do not like natural black women AT ALL and think we are inferior to their white “angelic” women and they love their natural white women but several black athletes hate natural black women yet love natural white womeneven more than white men do and feel so happy when they get in bed with a “no lips, no rhythm, & no buttucks having” white woman.
WHY? (THINK OUTSIDE OF THE BOX THIS TIME.)
Anyway, unlike you, i understand that all people are not the same. Black women are beautiful TOO and are of EQUAL BEAUTY. ALL WOMEN WERE CREATED EQUAL AND NOT JUST ALL MEN SO GIVE ME MY PROPS AND MY BIRTH RIGHT YOU EVIL DEMONDS I REBUKE YOUR CURSES. i AM BEAUTIFUL AND WORTHY OF MARRIAGE BY A SUCCESSFUL MAN.
God is my witness, you stupid athletes can’t break my spirit and keep worshiping white women while bashing black female features. I am BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK, SAY, OR WHO YOU MARRY. GO TO HELL. *i spit at you, you demonds!*
Truth of the matter is sportsmen, athletes, entertainers (celebrities) sign contracts basically signing their lives over to the corporations they will make money FOR… They are TOLD who to associate with, who not to associate with, who to be intimate with, who not to be intimate with, if they resist/ rebel, a series of setup encounters with certain females will be put in place to push them towards those white/ non-Black females.
We have to start wising up/waking up as a people and realizing that patterns in behavior are NEVER just “coincidences”. There is ALWAYS something there that has set that pattern in place and continuous motion.
You only have to happen to make a glance at these couples to notice that the Black males appear unhappy and hold a deep sadness in their eyes whilst their white partner is grinning like a Cheshire cat. Can you imagine the stress of having submitted your whole life over to white supremacy and loosing yourself & the life you had envisioned for yourself. Many of these men attempt suicide on a multiple of occasions, we just don’t hear about it.
YOUNG FOLLOWERS
Then of course you have youngsters who look up to these people as role models (which they shouldn’t). They see these celebs in the way that they’re presented to us…living rich lavish lifestyles and associate every piece of this package with an idea of what success must be, when in reality these characters aren’t living the lives they want to. Though the youngens have not signed their lives over to those corporations, through their ‘idol worship’ they imitate what they see.