By: Amanda Anderson-Niles
It’s nothing like seeing your life play out on reality television and watching people dissect every piece of it. And when it comes to Real Housewives of Atlanta, Porsha Stewart’s marriage is often criticized, even by her own cast mates. The season five newbie is pretty much the only true housewife left on the show, however, that’s not what makes her so non-relatable to the other housewives. The other ladies on the show don’t feel like they can relate to Porsha because they feel her husband is too controlling. Even NeNe Leakes recently said in her Bravo blog that she genuinely feels like Kordell treats Porsha more like a child than a spouse. Kandi Burruss displayed the same sentiments, but later apologized because she felt she was crossing the line for speaking on someone’s marriage. However, Kordell feels the criticism is unfounded because he feels he should be the leader of their household, nor does he feel like he controls her. He even said on his Twitter account that Porsha refusing to go to the “adult dancer club” with the other housewives displayed “leadership.” Regardless, Porsha isn’t so convinced these days.
In the upcoming episode of Real Houewives of Atlanta, Porsha admits that she is now confused about things.
She says:
“I feel a little confused about what we want and where we’re going. He is in control of what his vision is for our family, but he does not control my actions or what I want. It’s a marriage. We’re a team.”
Porsha also admits the criticism is starting to get under her skin:
“It’s really been sticking with me.”
Check out the sneak peek below:
Porsha needs to understand that as a newlywed, she’s going to have to get some thick skin and learn how to not let people’s views on her marriage change how she feels. That’s why it’s best to keep your business to yourself. Hard to do that when you’re on a reality show though.
Oh here we go…She better not let any of those women get to her. Hell, the only ones that can say anything are NeNe and Cynthia…but even their marriages aren’t all that. Couples have to do what’s works best for THEM. There’s no one set way of doing things…
So true.
Really Porsha?
He is a little controlling but that doesn’t mean her marriage is a bad one. IMO..
Meh, she shouldn’t think too much about it. People will always have their opinions…doesn’t make it fact tho!
Uh oh…
Knew it would come to this…she’s young. She has to learn eventually that you can’t let other people’s opinions about your relationship interfere with your relationship. Now if she isn’t happy with where things are going, she needs to tell Kordell that. But she shouldn’t let her reality TV friends dictate her feelings so much.
Agreed.
Agree…..
I just find all of this funny. I mean look at who has something to say tho…Kenya is talking but she can’t keep a man and had to pay one to act like he liked her to get on the show. Kandi has had how many men? Right. Then you have NeNe, who’s own man stepped out on her and she had to divorce him to get him to act right. I say all of that not to put down anyone, but when you point a finger, there’s several pointing back at you. No relationship is perfect. People need to mind their business.
*Standing Ovation*
Exactly!