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RHOA Recap: Porsha & Kandi Clash with Kenya Over Her Actions During the Trip

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Marlo wants peace.

Back at the rental house in South Carolina, Kenya and Marlo continue to call each other out about their fractured friendship. In a green screen interview, Porsha says that she feels sorry for Marlo because Kenya doesn’t want a friendship or care about her. As for Kenya, she thinks Marlo has come for her so much that she isn’t sure she’s ready to move on. Cynthia says she just wants Kenya and Marlo to at least learn how to be cordial. So Marlo says that she will stop being petty and taking shots at Kenya.

Kandi gets annoyed by Kenya.

After Marlo and Kenya’s conversation, the women decide to play a game of Never Have I Ever after Porsha makes the suggestion. However, Kenya makes her way upstairs to her room and she refuses to come back down and participate. She tells Kandi that she has to keep an eye on Brooklyn.

When Kandi tells the others about what Kenya just said, they express that they feel as if Kenya isn’t being fair. They are mothers too and didn’t bring their small children on the trip because they weren’t given the option to do so. So now Porsha isn’t interested in playing Never Have I Ever. In a green screen interview, Porsha says Kenya should have told everyone she was bringing Brooklyn and told them they could bring their children as well.

Kandi breaks down in tears and says that Blaze takes it really hard when she’s not home. So for Kenya to not let her know that Blaze could have come on the trip is just more double standards that Kandi is getting sick and tired of.

It’s time to party.

While Cynthia is away on the phone with Mike, Kandi calls the other ladies to come together and prepare for Cynthia’s surprise bachelorette party. The others will change into costumes they are given and a male dancer is on the way.

After the meeting, Kandi and Kenya go off to the side to hash out their issues. Kandi tells Kenya that she’s been rude during the trip, and she’s not being a good host. Kenya breaks down in tears and says she doesn’t really have a “village” to help her with Brooklyn. Plus, Marc has been making things very stressful for her. Kandi then tells her that she needs to stop letting Marc run things all the way from New York. With all this going on, Kandi says she’s going to give Kenya a pass “for now” in her green screen interview.

Later on, Kenya apologizes to the group for not being clear about bringing her daughter and ordering her own food separate from everyone else. As Kenya laughs about enjoying a crab cake Po’ boy, Porsha says Kenya reminds her of a Disney villain in a green screen interview.

Things get emotional.

The women exercise while Drew and Porsha look on. During a conversation, Drew says people are acting fake because they were just mad at Kenya the previous night and now people are acting like nothing ever happened. Porsha says that she’s never been successful at having a friendship with Kenya so she’s moving on.

Everyone goes back inside the house to find out if the officers responsible for Breonna Taylor’s death are charged.

Only one officer is charged and he’s charged with wanton endangerment in the first degree. This upsets all the women and Porsha breaks down in tears. In a green screen interview, Porsha says she is discouraged by the legal system.

The women confront Kenya.

Everyone goes out and Drew brings up what happened the previous night when Kenya went upstairs and didn’t come back down to play the game with everyone else. Kenya says she feels attacked and Tanya says that they just want her to be more sincere.

Kandi says it’s annoying that Kenya is “downplaying” her actions. In a green screen interview, Kandi says it seems like Kenya doesn’t care what anyone else is going through.

Kenya gets angry when she notices Porsha is on the phone and not participating in the conversation. So she says she won’t finish and she’ll wait for Porsha to get off her phone. Porsha then claps back and says that Kenya can continue to tell her “sob story” that everyone else will just eat up anyway.

At this point, Kenya tells Porsha to not judge her as a mother. And she didn’t have to give them an option to bring their kids on the trip. This upsets Kandi.

But Kenya realizes her words were hurtful and she apologizes to everyone. On the way back to the rental house, Don Juan texts Kandi and says that the male dancer, Bolo, is there for Cynthia’s surprise bachelorette party.

What are your thoughts on the episode?


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  1. Gls

    February 14, 2021 at 11:34 pm

    Kenya, Kenya, Kenya

    Is she really that entertaining and popular on the show?
    Her disrespect and disregard for others, especially the girls she calls her “friends”, is getting very annoying on the show.
    Same old Kenya, different new girls each season.

    At the reunions, I wish Andy would really give it to her.

  2. Sweetness

    February 15, 2021 at 8:40 am

    Look, I get it , Everyone hates Kenya. But facts are facts, she doesn’t have a “Mama Joyce” or a “Lauren” or ANYONE outside of hired help to leave her daughter with. She also has SERIOUS abandonment issues dealing with her mother. In this particular situation cut her a break d-mn. You can get mad if she didn’t open the invite to others but even then…she is truly the only single mother on the show. Cut her a break.

    • Turonda Holloway

      February 15, 2021 at 3:01 pm

      Hello sweetness
      That is the problem, everyone has already cut Kenya a break time and time again. Enough is enough, she need to grow the hell up. She is not the only one who is a single parent, if she can afford to get a private jet then just like khandi said, bring two nannies. Her behavior is ridiculous and she need to grow up. Brooklyn has a father, call his behind to the carpet and make him responsible. Enough is enough with her meanness and yes I have said it before, her issues are with how her mother abandoned her severely but that is no excuse to be so hateful towards everyone else.

    • Gls

      February 15, 2021 at 6:55 pm

      She is not then only famous person to have a horrible childhood or be a single mother without a village. That’s no excuse. She has been using that excuse since she’s been on the show. What’s that been 5-7 years or so? If it wasn’t for her blatant disregard and disrespect for the other girls for YEARS, then yes, maybe she can get a break.

      She maybe a single mother, but she’s not struggling. She has plenty of money from all her businesses, the show, and probably even her ex husband. If she can throw money around on private jets, then she can hire more than one nanny. She knew the trip was coming up. She planned it. She could have made prior arrangements regarding her daughter – as in bringing in another nanny.

      She also has family she is close too regardless of her abandonment issues. Her aunt and a cousin or two have been featured on the show plenty of times before. One of them could have been a prior arrangement in regards to her daughter.

    • GgB

      February 17, 2021 at 4:29 am

      Get over it go to therapy, she’s a grown woman. I had the same problem with my real mother, but that did not define my life, I got over it. It actually made me a stronger women. Kenya is rude and she thinks she is entitled

  3. Sweetness

    February 15, 2021 at 9:43 pm

    I hear a lot of her behavior between the ladies being grouped into the Brooklyn situation and the two are not the same. Like I said I understand having an issue with some of her selfish behavior, especially towards the ladies because of their history but I do agree that her bringing Brooklyn is really that big of an issue. She hasn’t used her mom as an excuse for 6 or 7 years in regards to parenting because Brooklyn is only 2. And suggesting that she call Mark and demand something from him when she couldn’t even demand respect from him is a reach. Also as controlling as he portrayed himself who’s to say that he would legally allow her to leave Brooklyn with her family or two nannies for that matter. That’s why I say go after her for her behavior but NOT her bringing Brooklyn. We don’t know anything about that situation so we can’t assume she can do anything other than what she did.

    • Gls

      February 16, 2021 at 1:55 am

      The point is not that she brought her daughter. Although it could be. SHE planned the trip. She knew all the dates and such. As stated earlier she could have made arrangements for more help. I’m sure plenty of her other friends/family would have loved a free trip to South Carolina. On a private jet.

      It’s the disrespect and disregard about how she did it. And her actions. She uses her family/abandonment issues all the time. It might not be out right. Just like when ALL the girls were trying to tell her how they felt, she totally disregarded their feelings and said she is being judged and attacked. Only when Kandi started to cry, did she change her tune. And the latter was mentioned in one of the confessionals.

      No on was attacking or judging her. The girls were calm and talking normal. Saying “I felt”. It’s funny how Kenya married a controlling man considering how she’s been treating the other girls before and after Marc.

      It can’t be two separate issues because of how she went about bring her daughter. They other girls did not have a problem the baby was there. Again it was all the secrecy, disrespect, and not asking/allowing them the option to bring their babies. And she threw it in their faces, when she took pictures and posted them on social media.

      I bet if Kandi and Porsha brought their babies, since they are all close in age, the babies could have been cared for all together. I’m sure Kandi, would have gladly “shared” her nannies for lack of a better word. Regardless instead on one person to care for Brooklyn, there would have been three or four along with the other babies. I have a hard time believing they would keep those babies separated for the duration of the trip. Especially since their “friends”. Even though Porsha and Kenya have a rocky relationship, they would have come together for those baby girls.

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