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‘Married to Medicine’ Star Dr. Heavenly Kimes Explains Why She Doesn’t Respect Toya Bush-Harris

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Married to Medicine” stars Dr. Heavenly Kimes and Toya Bush-Harris continue to clash on the current season. When it comes to both, a lot of accusations have been made. But Toya is convinced that Heavenly is jealous of her. Last season, they threw shade at each other’s houses. Toya said Heavenly’s house was old. And Heavenly isn’t convinced that Toya can afford hers. Of course, this stems from past issues that Toya and Dr. Eugene Harris have had with unpaid taxes.

Regardless, the couple was able to pay off the debt. However, that hasn’t stopped people on the show from coming for their finances.

On the recent episode, Heavenly wasted no time telling Toya that Quad Webb claimed she heard that a personal loan was needed to pay for Toya and Eugene’s pool.

Heavenly also called Toya the “brokest b*tch” on the show.

As for Toya, she accused Heavenly of trying to be her. And she is convinced that she’s the reason why Heavenly decided to get a three-story closet in her home.

Well, Heavenly recently addressed Toya’s claims. She explained why she doesn’t feel the need to have any respect for Toya.

Click next for the details. 

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Amanda is a TV junkie with a passion for all things reality television. She's from Decatur, GA.



  1. Sheila Glover

    March 29, 2021 at 6:30 pm

    I have to agree with Dr. Heavenly on this one. Toya need to get a job and help take some stress off of her husband. Money was spent on a college education she need to get a job in the field she went to school for.

    • And What?

      March 29, 2021 at 7:41 pm

      Toya has a job. And she makes more on that job than most people in America make at theirs. She isn’t on Married to Medicine for free.

      • Kimberlyy

        March 29, 2021 at 8:51 pm

        I agree Toya, does have job she gets a check from Bravo just like Heavenly, Contessa, Jackie, Simone…………. I also agree with Quad, why does Heavenly, have a 3 story closet?

    • Hotep2You

      April 7, 2021 at 2:02 pm

      While Toya’s income from her paid casted role on M2M does contribute to their combined finances- Toya does indeed appear to be quite lazy in every regard BUT -showboatin’, boasting and bragging. A characteristic that for many…self included is unattractive. Translation-hard to muster any modicum of respect.
      There is imo nothing wrong with a family…husband and wife choosing have one spouse be the stay-at-home parent. There’s also nothing wrong with a husband making the decision to place on a pedestal, pamper and to a degree- spoil her too. I however believe that for the dynamic to be mutually rewarding-BOTH…equally should be more concerned with and actively work towards placing the other’s well being …happiness and joy above their own. I’ve watched the show since it first aired…season after season, and I have not yet seen evidence…not even a hint that the aforementioned exist within the Bush-Harris union. If viewers sense this with the limited view that we have-certainly those closest to the Bush-Harrises …their fellow cast members with a more intimate view- see and feel it to an even greater degree.
      Sure their fans may argue-“Eugene likes it.” I’ll counter that every season they (Eugene to Toya) have had a serious discussion about Toya being excessive, reguarlly over-spending,self absorbed, concerned about/prioritizes the wrong stuff all while she complaing about what he does not do. So overall and in theory their choice to set the dynamic as they have is their own to make-there has been more than a few instances in which it is illustrated that Eugene may not be as happy with who Toya has become…is within their marriage, as their fans…Toya too-would have folks believe. Heavenly is just bold enough to speak publicly on it. Jealousy and envy ain’t it. That’s merely a default argument offered when there isn’t anything more substantive to offer. Lol

      • Vicky

        April 7, 2021 at 2:53 pm

        I think your name says it all. Yes, a lot of other black women are very jealous of Toya. You are all used to seeing a black woman slave away at a job and come home and still do everything else that the household depends on. Guess what? That’s not a requirement. When y’all see a black woman being pampered on TV and living lavishly, it’s a problem. Let’s get this straight, Toya makes more money doing M2M than most people will ever see in their lifetime. She most likely makes more money than Eugene. And on top of that, you’re honestly sitting here and thinking you can speak certainly on the dynamics of a stranger’s marriage because of what you see on an edited and overly produced reality show. That’s problematic and simple-minded. Heavenly doesn’t know anything about Toya’s life or marriage. They aren’t friends. They are coworkers. They don’t even see each other when they aren’t filming the show. And for all the yip yapping y’all do about Toya being materialistic and wanting to live in luxury, why don’t y’all ever talk about how much Eugene loves that same lifestyle? When he’s not working, you can catch him enjoying his man cave, bar, and pool, drinking expensive wine and smoking expensive cigars as well as hopping on private jets with his wife on IG. Water seeks its own level. Stop acting like Eugene isn’t a grown man who makes his own decisions. He’s with Toya because he has the same tastes and interests as her. If you weren’t a hotep, just maybe you wouldn’t spend so much time being so critical of a black woman just because she doesn’t live up to you and Heavenly’s outdated standards. Be clear though. Heavenly is just as vain, materialistic, and flashy as Toya is. She’s just mad that Toya didn’t have to go to dental or medical school to live that lifestyle. Being pretty and finding a man that loves her and wants to spoil her was enough. Heavenly has already said she can’t even get along with her own sister because she’s the “pretty one.” Jealousy is all that woman knows. Also, it’s interesting how y’all don’t mind these female doctors being materialistic and arrogant but it’s Toya y’all can’t take. GOOD. BYE.

  2. Vicky

    March 29, 2021 at 6:50 pm

    Black women really need to get to the bottom of why they get so upset to see a black woman be a pampered housewife. I see this on multiple shows. Whether it’s Monique from RHOP or Toya from M2M. Why aren’t we allowed to have multiple representations on TV? Newsflash, it’s not required for every black woman to go half on the rent, half on the mortgage, work long hours, and still play submissive housewife to feed a man’s ego. And can we stop playing ignorant like Toya doesn’t make six figures filming this show? Like it or not, this is a job. So she is helping Eugene out financially, as well as handling the kids everyday while Heavenly has admitted she doesn’t cook or clean and pays people for that. She’s been called out for this multiple times, even by Contessa and Jackie because she’s being fake. She’s not a submissive and doting housewife either. How many times has she embarrassed Damon on TV? Heavenly also needs to remember how little the doctors respected her when she came on the show. She bent over backward to be accepted by them because she has low self-esteem. Just last night Simone shaded her for only working at her dentist office part-time. She demeaned Anila for blogging but makes money from her YouTube channel, so she’s a blogger too. She’s a walking contradiction. And I’m sick of it. Lastly, no one has to do what her and Damon do. She’s telling Toya to live below her means when she’s just as flashy as Toya is. Anyone who turns around and gets a 3 story closet put in their house just because their enemy has a 2 story one is not in the position to talk about humility and living below one’s means.

    • Linda

      March 29, 2021 at 7:07 pm

      Now that….”was a read.”

    • Kimberley

      March 29, 2021 at 8:53 pm

      Heavenly and Contessa, they just don’t like Toya……

      • Truth

        March 31, 2021 at 11:28 am

        What is there to like exactly?

    • Blackrose

      March 30, 2021 at 9:27 am

      3 story closet. And never looks nice. Smh

  3. Pearl

    March 29, 2021 at 7:06 pm

    Toya annoys me at times but the double standards are getting annoying. Since season one, the doctors have looked their noses down on all the wives. They treat them as if they didn’t have lives before they married doctors, and I think that comes from a place of nastiness and resentment. They never acknowledged that Mariah went to college and had a career in journalism as a producer, as well as businesses, and we all know they didn’t respect the fact that she started the show. With Toya, they pretend like she wasn’t a teacher and Pharmaceutical rep before the show. And umm, reps make a lot of money. A lot of them make way more than doctors, and they don’t have the overhead and expenses that many of them do. And honestly, they really need to stop coming for Toya about how she treats Eugene when we’ve seen them all be anything but submissive and kind hearted, “traditional” wives to their husbands. Do we need to revisit how Contessa treated Scott while he took care of the kids while she went back to school? Simone isn’t a shrinking violet with Cecil. And Heavenly’s “Daddy act” is just that…an act. I won’t even get on Jackie. But Heavenly wears the pants in her marriage. And for the last time, they all get a fat check to do this show. This is a job. It’s so much of a job that you have some of them faking storylines to keep the Bravo money coming in. None of them live below their means with the exception of Simone. For crying out loud, Heavenly is just as materialistic and braggadocious as Toya. Sis has a whole basketball court at her house. Warren Buffet doesn’t have d-mn basketball court at his home and he’s a billionaire. The problem is they think they are the only ones who should be able to stunt. Not the wives. I see right through all of them. Contessa was just on Twitter bragging about how one of her purses is more than Toya’s whole wardrobe. They are no better than Toya.

  4. And What?

    March 29, 2021 at 7:43 pm

    The whole “Toya needs a job” narrative is ridiculous. Do people not realize how much money these women make to film this show? This is a job! Heavenly has said that much herself on YouTube but conveniently acts like Toya doesn’t make any money from the show to fit her narrative.

  5. Bee

    March 29, 2021 at 7:46 pm

    Quad and Heavenly convinced people that Mariah was on drugs last year and now they are convincing people that Toya and Eugene are broke deadbeats one paycheck away from living on the streets. I’ma need fans of this show to start using their common sense.

    • Kimberley

      March 29, 2021 at 9:03 pm

      That’s funny you will said that, when I watched the episode Quad, telling Heavenly, she knows someone who knows all about Toya, finances. Heavenly, couldn’t wait to tell. Quad, upset she didn’t get a contract, she’s not M2M anymore. These are BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN, successful women, and this how they act on television. God bless these women with the knowledge they have, look at them, not good role models for little black girls.

  6. Ms. Jackson

    March 29, 2021 at 8:00 pm

    This isn’t about Eugene. I mean some of them have even disrespected him. So I know they don’t give a d-mn about his happiness or wellness. They can’t move the goal post and play religious if they want to. They are mad as f-ck they had to become doctors and Toya didn’t to have the exact same lifestyle. Mariah wasn’t lying when she said these female doctors have a god complex. They want Toya to do like Quad and kiss their a-ses and she won’t do it. And that’s the real issue. I say that as someone who ain’t even feeling Toya like that anymore after the shady sh-t she did to Mariah. But I’ma call a spade a spade.

  7. Debra

    March 29, 2021 at 9:12 pm

    I think people need to understand that there is more than one way to do things. What works for Heavenly may not work for Toya and vice versa. So until someone has receipts of Toya and Eugene not being able to pay taxes again or filing bankruptcy, leave those people alone. They were real and showed what they were going through back then and it’s sad that’s been weaponized all these seasons. I won’t say Heavenly is jealous but she does have this weird need to compete with other women. Even on WWHL she had to say she makes more money then all the other doctors and Contessa had to check her. The way Toya lives shouldn’t trigger Heavenly or anyone else. It’s not that serious.

  8. Saywhatnow

    March 29, 2021 at 9:33 pm

    It was very telling when Heavenly told her son that life is about “HAVING. She can’t say $hit to no one. She is a piece of work and a hypocrite. Why is she in everyone’s pocket? Toya doesn’t have to do a d-mn thing as long as Eugene is happy. Heavenly is sitting up there demeaning women for having the ability to stay at home and have businesses – regardless of what it is. She makes ignorant assumptions about what Anila is taking home as a blogger and thinks only well known influencers make money. Funky Dineva is not the only one making money on these blog streets. Again, why is she so pressed about other people’s money? Toya and Eugene are living their dreams and no one else’s. No one is looking to Heavenly for marriage advice or looking to replicate what she think she has at home.

  9. Sheila Glover

    March 29, 2021 at 9:49 pm

    Ladies trust I’m NOT a fan of Heavenly. Toya and Eugene said they were behind in taxes and they paid it off. Yes she gets paid by Bravo but she need to stop being a brat right now and be thankful that she is financially stable. Instead of complaining about not going places. That was my point. I’m glad he’s able to pamper her there’s no hate this way. Covid-19 had put everyone on their butt in one way or another. So I pray everyone stay safe and blessed ❤️

  10. Blackrose

    March 30, 2021 at 9:23 am

    I think heavenly is jealous. Maybe Latoya takes her back to het high school days and reminds her of the head cheerleader. Its kind of sad, they both have happy lives why care about what the other is doing. Toya has a job. She isnt on the show for free. Hopefully she is saving some if her money. But unless she is asking them for loans how is it any of their business. They see Toya as the girl they may have wanted to be but couldn’t. See heavenly basically had to trap Damon. And she doesn’t care about respect for husbands because she embarasses him every time she opens her mouth.
    And lets not forget, none of the doctors truly respect the dentist

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