Writer Believes A Big Butt Brings Forth Aggressiveness From Black Men

Does the backside of women draw out aggression and rough sex from black men? A writer claims so. 

By: A.J. Niles

Black women have a long-standing reputation for having voluptuous backsides that black men love and adore. This pursuit of affection from black men, and others has led women, of all races and nationalities to risk their lives and pursue dangerous augmentations. But is this affection from black men in reality just physical assault on black women?  One writer believes so.

A woman using the pen-name Metaphysical Goddess penned an essay entitled, “The Power of a Black Woman’s [Butt].” Metaphysical believes this aggressive behavior is a result of the way black women show off their bodies. By wearing clothes that do not leave much to the imagination and engaging in certain behaviors in clubs or parties, they actually encourage men to release their anger and frustrations during sex.

Here are some excerpts from Metaphysical’s essay,

You just want to stick a fork in [a black woman’s backside], so a man’s [penis] becomes the fork. A man will want to find a way to destroy it somehow, make it react somehow. Just like the Bubble wrap you find in the box of an electronics item. You have the URGE of wanting to pop each and every bubble, you will attempt to squeeze each one. You like the sound of the bubble wrap popping and “Lord help the bubble wrap because you will pop each bubble”.

The way that Black woman allow their [backsides] to be displayed and portrayed desensitizes men and they begin to forget the feelings and emotions of a woman. A man will forget that there’s feelings and senses in the [backside] and vagina that can cause pain and discomfort. At the same time many Black women attempt to translate this pain and rough sex into thinking that a man is so turned on by them and like them to the point they can’t help but aggressively handle them sexually. Unfortunately, they fail to realize that any [backside] brings out this aggression. But still, many women choose to rationalize their abuse, they would rather think their desirability brings out this side of men.

As a result of this aggressiveness from black men, many black women do not realize the damage being done to their bodies, according to Metaphysical. She later explains how women can develop painful cysts in their genital area, which can arise from the aggressive pounding.

Although the writer is aggressive in her tone, she does have a point. It does seem that both black men and black women are being programmed to look for and engage in aggressive, casual sex. From the music we listen to, to the television shows we watch; we are all bombarded with images of sex and these images do seem to bring forth a certain reaction of aggressiveness.

What are your thoughts?