Just another column from an educated black man who doesn’t spare feelings or understand why women think they can control men with what they perceive to be good sex.
By: Mike J.
Women tend to think they can control a man with their vaginas.
While this could be true for a select few, it is imperative that women understand that this kind of power is severely limited. This means you can only do so much and change so little with the bedroom skills you have acquired over the long course of screwing men for emotional control. Eventually, a man is going to do what he wants to do, and no your head game can’t prevent this.
I remember a conversation I had with a female friend who bragged about the ultimate p–y power she had over her man. She was so delusional that she criticized every woman she knew that had been cheated on for their lack of pleasing their men sexually. Yes, she was the typical delusional woman who actually believed that a man’s infidelity could solely be blamed on a woman who’s not handling business. With her logic, a man only cheated because he wasn’t happy at home and a woman wasn’t doing her job to keep her man’s attention.
This was her mentality until she became the very woman she deemed inferior to her man keeping skills.
Men cheat because we want to cheat. I don’t know a single cheating man who passed down a little head on the side because his woman’s head game is better. It was there and that’s all he needed to know at the time infidelity became appealing. I don’t say this to make women paranoid, but every woman needs to know a man is faithful because he wants to be, not because your head game is tight and you’ve got the grip of death between your legs. There are thousands, if not millions of other women with tight vaginas and legendary oral skills. Yet a faithful man is a lot harder to locate.
And it all comes down to character. A man that cheats will cheat despite what you can do in the bedroom. A man that honors his word and respects his relationships won’t cheat because he has a different perspective to relationships, not because his girlfriend can do that lil’ thing with her hips.
You should probably stop seeking to control men with your crotch and start picking men with enough character to have some control over their own.