By: Amanda Anderson-Niles
Last week we reported that Robin Thicke and Paula Patton were ending their longtime marriage, but sources close to Robin insisted that he was refusing to call it quits.
In fact, the singer reportedly has cut back his partying ways in an attempt to show Paula that he can be serious and committed to her despite all his messiness in the past.
But Paula’s camp claimed earlier she was determined to see the divorce through but now it’s being reported that she may have had a change in heart.
Sources connected with the couple tell us … Paula is unimpressed with Robin telling both TMZ and thousands of concertgoers he’s trying to win her back.
Here’s the good news for Robin. Although she TOLD him she wanted a divorce, she hasn’t hired a divorce lawyer yet and she’s open to reconciliation.
BUT … before she takes him back, Robin has to prove his loyalty to her … by his actions. She’s keeping tabs on him at his concerts, watching who he hangs with, which parties he attends — especially the after parties — and what photos surface.
In the meantime, Paula posted a very telling message to her Instagram account regarding her troubled marriage:
Don’t do it Paula. He may change for a little while, but a leopard never changes its spots.
Smh. They have been together since they were 14. So she really believes he will change now? Really? I guess.
He will get his act together for a short while and go right back to being a dog. I’ve seen it happen one too many times. People are who they are. If you don’t like it, move on to someone better. It’s not our job to change people.
if she gives him a second chance, she’s going to regret it.
I really don’t know how to feel about this. I have never been married or been with someone as long as Paula and Robin have been together. So this makes sense that it is probably hard for Paula to walk away.
He should have wanted to be a better man a long time ago.
They have been together for a very long time so I can understand this. But the real issue is just maybe Robin never was nor will be the husband type. Not everyone is cut out for marriage but they won’t admit it because they don’t want to hurt anyone. But Paula is signing herself up for more heartache if she takes him back. He obviously loves having different women and that’s just who he is. She’d be better off walking away and meeting a man who believes in commitment like she does.
I knew she would get cold feet. If she really wanted a divorce she would have already had a divorce lawyer on deck. She only pulled this stunt to scare Robin into getting his act together. But as soon as things go back to being good, he will once again cheat on her. It is what it is.
I wish them both the best. Marriage is tough I’m sure.
Great…..ROBIN GET UR SH-T TOGETHER!
I hope Robin will really change. Marriage is not some joke and you can’t just go out here and cheat on your spouse with no shame. I think he just got really arrogant after Blurred Lines blew up and decided he needed to act like a rockstar. But now he has to put his family first and grow up. Fame will ruin you if you let it.
I just want Paula to do what she feels is best for her. Just because you’ve been with someone forever doesn’t mean you have to stay with them when they treat you bad. She doesn’t owe him that.
She needs to check herself into rehab. Yes Robin is a whore, but she always acts high when she’s in public. She ain’t fooling me.
I think Paula needs to keep it moving at this point. Robin has embarrassed her way too many times.
I hope she’s making the right decision, he doesn’t look like he’s going to really change at this point