It’s normal for couples to have disagreements.
But what matters most is how couples deal with them.
In Chad and Michelle’s case, their disagreements can lead to both saying some hurtful things.
On the couple’s reality show, they decided to reach out to their therapist after having a disagreement.
Michelle revealed that she upset Chad when she told him he couldn’t understand how she communicates because he’s not black.
She recalls the moment in a green screen interview:
Well Chad because you are not black, you would not understand why I communicate the way I do maybe because you didn’t grow up around a lot of black people.
So that was very, very offensive to Chad.
Chad felt like Michelle took a dig. He doesn’t feel race should be brought up. However, Michelle revealed that Chad took a dig himself recently:
And this is not to justify, but yesterday when we had the disagreement, he said, ‘Did you take you take your meds today?’
Just to refresh your memory, Michelle revealed that she suffers from depression. Their therapist has urged them to learn how to communicate without being hurtful.
Check out the clip below.