A young black educated brother feels that black women prefer men that are unavailable and seek married men over the available brothers. As usual, we keep our subjects anonymous around these parts…
“I am a single black man with a lot to offer a black woman. I have my degree, a good paying job, I’m respectful, and I treat women with the highest respect. I know that women say it’s hard to find a good black man, but they never consider how hard it is for a good black man to find a good black woman. A lot of women are slutting it out like some of the men do, deceitful, and don’t seem to want a good black man. As much as they keep saying they can’t find one, you’d think they notice one when they meet him. False!
But what I have noticed is that a lot of black women tend to prefer men that are already taken. And it’s the married black men get all the women, so maybe I should go get a wedding band.”