By: Amanda Anderson-Niles
Eve and Stevie J. ended on a rather scandalous note. It shouldn’t surprise you that Eve left Stevie J. when she figured out that he was a notorious cheater and industry womanizer, and even though Eve and Stevie J. were engaged to be married, she left the man she refers to as her first love because she didn’t want to be a weak woman for any man. After the breakup, Eve recorded her feelings of anger and disappointment in Stevie J. and his cheating ways through rap lyrics and she eventually had to deal with the embarrassment of the former couple’s sex tape being leaked on the internet. But since the entire world has been introduced to Stevie J., Eve has been silent on the producer’s past that includes a rocky relationship Eve credits for making her stronger woman. Eve finally breaks her silence on Stevie J. and his shameful behavior on Love And Hip Hop Atlanta.
During a recent appearance she made at the panel of The Uniquely You Summit, Eve basically said Stevie J. may have had her heart when she was 19 years old, but he doesn’t have a shot in hell with her now.
“Stevie J was my first love.”
“…You know what…that was a learning experience. You meet people all the time. We just happened to fall in love.”
“But thankfully I knew better. I know better. I am happily in love now. And the girl now? He couldn’t even see this. I would be like, ‘I’m sorry, we don’t speak the same language.'”
I only wish Mimi could develop the same attitude. They might be broken up for now, but something tells me that Mimi has no intentions to keep it that way. But I find comfort in knowing that an Eve and Stevie J. reconciliation won’t be happening. Anyway, peep the video:
It’s good to know that Eve has more sense than most females. He was her first love and she still had the courage to walk away despite that, and that is very commendable. Some women just find it hard to believe they can find love after love but it’s totally possible. Had Eve stayed, she’d be where Mimi is and that’s miserable with many regrets. It’s just not worth it.
Real talk I’m glad she talked about that at that summit. Little girls need to learn early on to not be MImi’s and Joseline’s. There will always be another man if the one you have isn’t doing you right. Too many times women view these kinds of men like their only shot at a relationship. And that’s the problem.
Joseline was basically a victim of sexual harassment and was trying to get paid. Mimi was prey to Stevie’s back and forth Dr. Jeky-hell and Mr. Hyde bi-polar madness. He obviously has hatred for the mommy who abandoned him and is taking it out on every women who tries to love him. Stevie should keep going to that shrink for help or he may even turn gay since he hates women so much?
That moment when a woman realizes she deserves better and can do better…PRICELESS.
She’s in love with who? That rich white man she’s been hanging with? See what happens when black women consider their options!
Was Stevie messing around with Mimi while he was dating Eve?! The timing is too close. SMH!
Well Mimi said she wasn’t messing around with Stevie while he was dating Eve. If she admitted to being a Ja Rule groupie, I’m inclined to believe her.
Eve dates rich white dudes now. Stevie J. is broke. No they don’t speak the same language. Lol
Im still trying to see what they even see in him. He’s gross. Glad Eve left him though.
Eve and Stev(ie)? I did not know they were ever together. Eve is self made and waaaay more famous. What Stevie is doing to silly women is evil & I’d venture a guess he is going to self destruct or Karma is going to bite him in his worn out peee wee.Eve and Mimi will live to see it. His being an a– hole will not pay forever.