'Married to Medicine' Star Buffie Purselle Calls out the 'Real Housewives of Potomac' Cast
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‘Married to Medicine’ Star Buffie Purselle Calls out the ‘Real Housewives of Potomac’ Cast

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RHOP is a hot topic due to the altercation.

Real Housewives of Potomac” viewers have had a lot to say about the latest episodes. This isn’t surprising since they have finally seen Monique Samuels and Candiace Dillard’s altercation. And on top of that, they’ve also seen the rest of the cast’s reaction to it. As of now, it seems as if the only two women willing to support Monique are Ashley Darby and Karen Huger.

While Karen still wants to be there for both women, Ashley hasn’t forgotten Candiace throwing a knife at her the previous season. She also didn’t forget that Chris Bassett had to physically sit on top of Candiace to keep her from putting her hands on Ashley.

So although she was appearing to turn a new leaf with Candiace earlier in the season, Ashley said that she’s experienced Candiace provoking her. So she assumed this is what happened between her and Monique. Ashley didn’t see the altercation. She was in the restroom at the time.

Viewers have been calling out the rest of the cast.

Regardless, Candiace has plenty of support from all the others. In fact, Wendy Osefo, Robyn Dixon, and Gizelle Bryant weren’t really trying to hear anything Monique had to say. They kept their feet on her neck all throughout the meeting. And Gizelle thought it was a good time to remind Monique of all her past wrongs on the show, too. However, she neglected to mention the actions of the others. And this isn’t sitting well with some of the viewers.

Just days after some social media influencers called out the RHOP cast for making the situation about all black women, “Married to Medicine” star Buffie Purselle had some things to say, too.

And she was completely unfiltered, too.

Click next for the details. 

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  1. Anonymous

    October 7, 2020 at 11:41 am

    I agree with her overall points. You can’t stop racism with respectability politics. At the end of the day, no one on RHOP is perfect. They have all done bad things. In reality, they should have supported Candiace and Monique and helped them fix their relationship. Instead, they played a huge part in ruining it. To be honest, they have been trying to break that friendship up for a season or so now.

    • cher

      October 7, 2020 at 7:21 pm

      I don’t think you can blame other castmates for the demise of there friendship, that was between Candice and Monique, especially Monique, Buffie you of all people need to rethink, a few things you stated, first of all you sat crying, fussing about a castmate that wronged you openly and embarassed you in front of the ladies, and continued to tell your saab story, and she did’t think nothing of it, she also apologize to you more than once, but i did’t see you in her face, carrying it to another level, WHY? , I’m tell you why, last come, first served, because you can always talk over or walk away from conflict, maybe you don’t need any kids, if you feel fighting is the answer, when you don’t know who to blame , so take it out on the easiest prey, get real, you did’t need to be anywhere near those ladies on M2M with your self righteous opinions, that don’t make sense, but it’s you Buffie, it figures……GLAD YOU GONE!!

      • Donna

        October 7, 2020 at 7:34 pm

        Buffie’s comments are literally the opposite of self righteous. And she definitely was not self righteous on M2M. Jackie is self righteous and y’all love her so much you people turned a blind eye when she called Buffie infertile in front of strangers and blamed black women for the high black maternal death rate. Lastly, you’re being dishonest if you don’t think the other women came between Monique and Candiace’s friendship. And no, that’s not just on Monique. Candiace fell for the bs too. All of them stay falling for Gizelle’s manipulation every season and never call her out. Look how quickly Wendy bowed down to Gizelle and fell in line. It’s sickening.

        • Puddin Tame

          October 8, 2020 at 12:44 am


        • Bridget Edmonds

          October 8, 2020 at 4:49 pm

          Thank you!;I don’t know what program some of these ppl are watching 🤔

        • diane

          October 9, 2020 at 3:05 pm

          Donna.You are so right. Gazelle is the biggest instigator on that show and she should be the last want to be so self righteous.Even her own kids can’t understand why she’s getting back with their father.

      • Vanessa

        October 7, 2020 at 7:44 pm

        Some of you are so dang on dramatic it’s absurd. So now Buffie shouldn’t have any kids because of her views on RHOP? You sound ridiculous. Fighting is not the worst thing to do in the world. You people really need to get a grip. You’re acting like Monique ate somebody’s baby. She pulled hair, and life goes on. Candiace threw a knife, and life went on. Get over yourselves. You people think you’re high and mighty because fighting is the one thing you don’t do.

        • Sarai

          October 11, 2020 at 10:35 pm

          This is what I was saying it’s know big deal things like this happens in life, especially with all of these reality shows. I just think everyone is over reacting it was that serious.

          • Sarai

            October 11, 2020 at 10:39 pm

            I meant to say it wasn’t that serious.

      • Anonymous

        October 7, 2020 at 8:23 pm

        Oh I strongly disagree Cher. Ashley, Gizelle, Charrisse, and Robyn definitely broke that friendship up. Candiace better be careful. Once Monique is fired, they’ll turn on her next. They don’t really like Candiace. And Gizelle never truly forgives anyone. She’ll get Candiace for shading her house. Watch and see.

      • Tehuti Goddess

        October 8, 2020 at 6:15 am

        All of those tricks are JEALOUS of MONIQUE!!! F them H○£$!

        • Andrea

          October 12, 2020 at 5:45 am

          Jealous of Monique for what? Gizelle or Candiace have no reason to be jealous! There is never an acceptable reason to put your hands on anyone unless their words are true and hurt your ego!! Fight battles with your mind & your mouth! Anything else will land you behind bars!

          • Vicky

            October 12, 2020 at 9:17 am

            Gizelle has been jealous of Monique since she told her she has four homes. Anytime Gizelle and Robyn discuss Monique, they talk about her money and what they believe is her “perfect” life. That’s jealousy. Gizelle thought she would be married to a wealthy and affluent pastor, but it didn’t work out. She was renting her homes the first few seasons according to Katie. If you compare her situation to Monique’s, there’s plenty for Gizelle to be jealous of. As far as Candiace is concerned, she’s the only housewife on this show who needed a cash bar at her event. Her own mother said she’s been looking at homes she can’t afford. It’s not really rocket science. And it’s interesting to see you type that Monique should have used her words because she could have been arrested when Candiace didn’t use hers and used a knife instead just last season with Ashley. FYI, throwing a knife at someone is assault too. She’s lucky Ashley didn’t press charges. It doesn’t matter though. The charges against Monique were dismissed anyway because an unbiased judge saw what some of us did, which is Candiace isn’t innocent and she is violent too.

        • Darlene Scott

          October 12, 2020 at 5:35 pm

          Yes they are Giselle always throws the rock and hides her hands she needs to worry about that community pastor of hers

    • Donna

      October 7, 2020 at 7:38 pm

      RHOP could become great if these women actually called Gizelle out for her ways but they never do. She runs all of them except Karen. It’s ridiculous.

      • May Reynolds

        October 8, 2020 at 10:36 am

        I agree. Gizelle is very very jealous of Monique since she found out about her houses. It’s like that should have been her. Homes, husband. She’s at the bottom among those women and she do whatever it takes to move up.

        • S harrisonsh

          October 8, 2020 at 4:33 pm

          Jamal cannot even afford to by her a decent fixer upper. She probably feels that thevlightskinned girls should have what Monique has. Girl bye.

        • Nikki

          October 8, 2020 at 9:31 pm

          I agree with you and watch when Candiace have a disagreement with Gazelle she doesn’t blown up with her are talk sh-t to her. Gazelle got her scared. The bottom line if Candiace was a real friend to Monique she wouldn’t be sitting around with anyone talking about her. Buffie did speak up for herself that’s why they got her off the show because they could tell she wasn’t going to be a puppet. Bravo like they are ratchet because that’s how they make their money on us watching these shows. They have found that drama and bullsh-t gives them a big fat bank account.

        • Andrea

          October 12, 2020 at 5:50 am

          Monique has nothing but kids! She is the recipient of a wealthy baller! What has she done on her own without Chris?

          • Vicky

            October 12, 2020 at 9:22 am

            Incorrect. Monique was a very smart and successful young woman well before Chris. She even got a full scholarship to college, and when she met Chris, she was running the real estate appraisal company she started. Lastly, I think it’s pretty despicable to suggest another black woman is “nothing.” We all have value. I’ll never understand why some black women have so much vitriol for black women who marry wealthy black men. You should be happy to see a black family doing well financially. Aren’t you tired of seeing black struggle on reality shows? I sure am.

      • Bridget Edmonds

        October 8, 2020 at 4:51 pm

        I have to agree, once again, what program are these ppl watching!?!?

      • Andrea

        October 12, 2020 at 5:46 am

        That show wouldn’t last without Gizelle or Karen!

    • Arlene L.

      October 8, 2020 at 7:19 pm

      On point

  2. Cici

    October 7, 2020 at 11:51 am

    Apparently, there were parts edited out of the fight including the owners threatening to call the police for the damage because allegedly, there was a lot more damage than let on. Now Buffie, what “it” does Monique have without her husband? Everything she brags on is from his money. The fact that one party has been bullied for almost a year by the other party, their blogs (never forget the blogger who came at Robin was Hank, and social media followers over a leaked lie….very telling about folks.

    • Lovely

      October 7, 2020 at 12:26 pm

      This is my issue with you Candiace defenders. Y’all are quick to make her a victim but excuse what she has done to others. In fact, y’all defended the fact that she bullied Ashley all last season. Y’all defended the fact that she assaulted Ashley with a knife last season and then lied and said it’s because she was asked to leave and didn’t. So it’s interesting now how y’all want to talk about bullying and lies being put out. Let me ask you this, if the fight was so horrible and the worse parts were edited out, why were the charges against Monique dismissed? The court got the raw footage of the fight by the way.

      • Yikes

        October 7, 2020 at 7:04 pm

        Ashely bullied Karen last season. What is your point?

        • Lovely

          October 7, 2020 at 7:07 pm

          You tell me your point first.

        • Jennifer Yarde

          October 7, 2020 at 7:25 pm

          Yes, Ashley was always in everyone’s business. Discussing people’s finances, relationships, etc. I was never a Candiace fan, but Monique was wrong.

        • Jenna Jen

          October 7, 2020 at 7:30 pm

          Ashley was always in everyone’s business. Discussing people’s finances and relationships. So, I am glad that Candiace was calling her out. I am not Team Candiace. In fact, I never really cared for her, but Monique was dead wrong. She was out of control and refuses to see that she was wrong. That’s my problem.

        • InsertEyeRollHere

          October 8, 2020 at 4:28 am

          The point is rather than have an actual rebuttal all you do is deflect. We’re not talking about Ashley and Karen we’re talking about Candiace

        • Kathleen T Kaiser

          October 8, 2020 at 8:12 pm

          Ashley, did not bully Karen. Ashley showed immaturity, but didn’t harass anyone, you just don’t like her.

      • Nikki

        October 8, 2020 at 9:35 pm

        Thank you Lovely. Well put

      • Yvette

        October 12, 2020 at 5:09 pm


    • Jamaica941

      October 7, 2020 at 12:30 pm

      Seriously, and is Buffie 15 mins of fame over. She does more talking now that she’s OFF the show. Fade back into oblivion like Genise and Jill did.

    • Tracy C

      October 7, 2020 at 12:42 pm

      Y’all gotta stop picking and choosing who to call out for dysfunctional behavior.

      1. Robyn and Gizelle went up to Ashley’s place of business and Robyn got all up in Ashley’s face, fingers/hands touching Ashley’s face making threats. Now if Ashley would have bucked back, that would have been a fight. What did Gizelle do? Nothing. She was fine with it. There was no talk about black women representation and no icing out Robyn from the group.

      2. Robyn also threatened Ashley twice. Again, no talk of her being violent and black women representation. Gizelle said nothing.

      3. Candiace waved a knife in Ashley’s face and threw it at her. Had her husband not have held her back for dear life, she would have put her hands on Ashley. But please remember throwing a knife at someone is actually assault. So where was the icing out of Candiace? Where was the black women representation talk then?

      4. Gizelle and Karen yelled and argued in a hotel lobby in front of strangers. Again, where was the black women representation talk?

      5. Gizelle said on camera that she was getting ready to end filming a scene with Sherman to have sex with him in the park. Was she a good role model for her daughters then? How about her getting back together with her ex-husband who cheated on her and had multiple children?

      6. Katie is no longer on the show, but after she shaded Monique for fighting, she later posted a naked picture of herself to Instagram.

      7. Wendy has four degrees and screamed at Ashley while she had her baby in her arms over something Ashley had no control over. Let me know how that was staying above stereotypes. Oh yeah, she did admit to being in a fight before. So can she really look down on Monique?

      Believe me, I can go on. Buffie is right. All these women are hypocrites. Monique was wrong, but goodness, stop it with the hypocrisy.

      • Yeah I Said It!

        October 7, 2020 at 1:16 pm

        Perfect comment. Thank you.

      • Yolie

        October 7, 2020 at 4:40 pm

        Perfect comment!!!

      • Finesse37

        October 7, 2020 at 5:19 pm

        Girl that was awesome! I liked Buffie on the show but Jackie was an a-s and Heavenly is just too much.

      • Annette Phang

        October 7, 2020 at 6:03 pm

        Spot on oberservations. Yes, hypocrite-in-chief is Gizelle.

      • Jenna Jen

        October 7, 2020 at 7:33 pm

        What was funny was that Gizelle stated that she and Jamaal have an image to uphold. That was hilarious. Mr. cheater, cheater pumpkin eater doesn’t care about his reputation. He fathers multiple children with women he is not married to and sleeps with congregation members. Give me a break, Giselle!

      • Puddin Tame

        October 8, 2020 at 12:52 am

        Tracy C for President 2020

      • Effie

        October 8, 2020 at 5:04 am

        You said it all. Thank you. Monique is beautiful awesome husband beautiful children and great family. She is the “It Girl” and Gizalla and Robyn are Jealous. Buffie is so right.

        • Deeper Than That

          October 9, 2020 at 3:50 pm

          At the end of the day, the ENTIRE cast is guilty of piss poor representations. Bottom line.

          As for Monique or anyone with money not “needing” this platform makes no sense, given how much Monique and others play to the cameras creating the necessary storylines to stay relevant and watch worthy. Rich Buffie should know this already.

          The issue isn’t whether Candace provoked Monique, the issue is, was Monique’s issue with Candace so intense that it was worthy of a drag and subsequent BBW chase a chick down with cameras Rollin?

          Let alone a “friend” whom you and your husband have spent valuable time with. Sadly, in Monique mind, Candace is expendable and collateral show damage. In essence, Monique can’t get ra-ra with Cherish, nor Giselle and Robin, Ashley’s husband has money, so she could forgive a woman saying she had a drinking problem….but Candace, oh she deserves the fake “blackout”.

          I’ve listened to Monique’s press tour and recognize the money spent (and she has it) to be relevant and right with the bloggers. Its becoming more and more staged everyday.

          I like them both. Folk just need to stop and take a breather.

      • MJ

        October 8, 2020 at 11:44 am

        Thank you!! This is so on pointttt

      • S harrison

        October 8, 2020 at 4:37 pm

        Well said

      • Cynthia Rounds

        October 10, 2020 at 7:54 am

        Tracy, you made an excellent point. Monique controlled herself longer than I could have. I’m not saying violence is the answer, but Candidace was constantly trying to provoke a reaction and she finally got one. Giselle, Robyn and Wendy are all hypocrites.

      • Yvette

        October 12, 2020 at 5:30 pm

        Bottom line. Bravo is making money off these shows as women, black and white, go after each others’ dignity. Then Bravo has the audacity to terminate a “performer” who makes money for them and creates additional publicity for Bravo. None of these women is in the wrong. Bravo producers ensure they’re put in positions to be taken advantage of.

      • Tonya

        October 12, 2020 at 6:42 pm

        Totally agree Tracy C!! Could not have written it any better! You broke it down all the way.

    • Rachel Evans

      October 7, 2020 at 12:53 pm

      I’ma need for some of you to understand how marriage works because y’all definitely don’t keep this same energy when white women marry well. Chris’ money is Monique’s money. Two become one in marriage, right? Okay, well that’s what that means. So remember that when you come for black women who married into money. Miss Dorothy’s money is Candiace’s money. So I’ma need all black people to stop shaming Candiace for generational wealth. If you ask me, Candiace and Monique both represent two lifestyles I approve of. Being born into money and marrying into it. Get into it!

    • Erica

      October 7, 2020 at 1:12 pm

      I’m convinced that many of you actually have no idea what actual bullying is.

      • Barbee

        October 7, 2020 at 1:23 pm

        I figured that out a long time ago lol.

    • Charlotte

      October 8, 2020 at 9:57 am

      Cici, I think Buffie better understands the “Real Housewives” concept than you do. Yes, Monique is the “It Girl” on RHOP. She has the most money and the most lavish lifestyle. I don’t know how you watch a show called “Real Housewives” and then still find the energy to put down Monique for actually being a housewife. Like make it make sense sweetheart. If you wanted to watch self made women, then RHOP is not the show for you because none of these women are self-made. None of them would even be on the show if it wasn’t for their husbands. And Chris’ money is Monique’s money. But you knew that already and I think that’s why you’re seething.

    • Kathy

      October 8, 2020 at 7:49 pm

      That disgusting manipulative sidewinder green eye being who is miss Giselle is so jelous of Monique and her many houses and anyone who is doing better than her.
      Candice the ugly little fiend was asking for that dragging from as far back as last season when she provoked Monique threw a knife at ashley and had hands up in their faces
      So I say good on Monique the dragging wasn’t hard enough though BECAUSE candice was still conscious and spouting her bile
      Calling Monique a ghetto rat

    • Nikki

      October 8, 2020 at 9:49 pm

      Cici… if you listen and pay attention Monique has business of her own and even if she didn’t having a husband that loves you and want to take care of you is not a crime. When they took their vow they both know what they were signing up for. Some these mentalities your dawned if you have a good man and your darned if you don’t. Situations happen and you deal with then, the good bad and ugly. We all wish we could have done something differently. Candice got what she got, get up brush yourself off and keep it moving. Remember when you mess with people you don’t know how that’s going to play out. Pull you big girl panties up and make a mental note not to do anything your not ready for the unknown consequences of your actions. Like Buffy about being human.

  3. Diamond

    October 7, 2020 at 12:20 pm

    I think I’m in the minority but I’m not Team Monique or Team Candiace. I’m not into stan culture so I just enjoy things for what they are. And I honestly believe both were wrong in the situation. Candiace shouldn’t have provoked with the “What you gon do, you gon drag me” lines, and Monique should have walked away. But it didn’t pan out that way and that’s life sometimes. Now they’re at a point of no return. And it wasn’t worth it because deep down inside, they really did love each other. It ain’t that deep that the rest of the cast needs to get all pretentious and make this a black woman issue. They have been sounding really anti-black this season and I can’t stand it.

  4. Anonymous

    October 7, 2020 at 12:47 pm

    I’m cracking up at people watching reality shows and complaining about a lack of class. I really don’t care if Candiace got molly whopped, just like I wasn’t outraged when she threw a knife last season. Violence and bad behavior is something you sign up for when you watch reality television. RHOP has never been classy, so stop the bullsh-t.

    • Ldavis

      October 8, 2020 at 1:58 am

      There you have it!!

  5. Desert Rose

    October 7, 2020 at 12:58 pm

    Cecil posted on IG in support of Monique as well. My fave Quad liked the post. I remember how people tried to get Quad kicked out her sorority over stuff she did on Married to Medicine, so I see how she relates to Monique’s situation. Reality shows are just for entertainment. And people need to stop trying to use current causes to complete their agendas on their reality shows. Gizelle and the rest don’t care about empowering black women. They just want Monique off the show and they’re using this fight to do it.

  6. 404

    October 7, 2020 at 1:04 pm

    Buffie is allowed to have her opinion just like everyone on here has a right to have theirs. Anyway, I agree with her. The fake outrage is annoying. The cast is hypocritical, but so are a lot of the viewers. They never had an issue with violence on TV before, but now it’s an issue. And now they have morals even though they stay on here and IG/Twitter dragging people for fun. Miss me with the fakery.

  7. Ms. Jackson

    October 7, 2020 at 1:31 pm

    I’m just sick of the bullsh-t and I see a lot of people are. You ever get mad enough, you may do something you think you’re above doing. Sh-t I see people on the internet everyday having full blown tantrums on the blogs over people they don’t know. And I’m supposed to believe these people wouldn’t fight if someone caught them on the right day? Bullsh-t. A lot of Americans have anger issues. Keep it 100. This ain’t a black woman issue.

    • X

      October 7, 2020 at 5:58 pm

      I agree, that is what they get paid for is to act like fools, if they were nice all the time, never fight or argue no one but would watch the show. Housewives of NJ, BH, NY all do the same thing.

    • MJ

      October 8, 2020 at 11:52 am

      Thank you 404!!! I hated how Wendy involved black women in the situation, as if black women arent allowed to be themselves on TV. Monique was provoked, she has the right to fight. If it was one of the YT women in NY, nobody would have the same energy. Miss me with the selective bs 🙄.

    • Nikki

      October 8, 2020 at 10:18 pm

      Thank you Ms. Jackson well said. It’s so funny people forget what clips are on the floor after editing. I like Monique and I (we) don’t know the whole story. My mom always told me there are three sides to a story, right, wrong and true. It’s going to be a while before true story come out. If a perfect well it would be nice if we all walked away from hurtful situations. When you go out your way to mess with people and try to hurt them you have to be ready to deal with the outcome and you can’t always play that hold card she should have walked away. A person has to be pretty low like Candiace, Robin and Gizelle to sit around and try to start rumors about a child. Thats fowel on so many levels. They talk about Monique what does that say about them.

      • Yvette

        October 12, 2020 at 5:43 pm

        Thank you.

  8. Hershey

    October 7, 2020 at 1:35 pm

    Candiace’s own mother assaulted her last year over something Candiace said to her. So they need to stop the whole “words shouldn’t push you to violence” narrative. Candiace’s mouth is as big of an issue as Monique’s hands. Words do hurt. And Candiace goes too far daily with hers.

    • Angela

      October 9, 2020 at 2:19 am

      Yes she does,and in everybody business but hershe and her costars talking bout people family they need to stop expecting ms.robin and Ms Bryant cause they don’t have husband they marriage broken .now they try get . Candice did provoke mrs.samuals.nana what going to do that what said so mrs.samual grab her.so she asked for it.old smart ass Candice I don’t like her attitude at all.they are jealous of mrs.samuals.

  9. Lauren

    October 7, 2020 at 1:47 pm

    I liked RHOP better when Candiace and Monique were friends.

    • Queen

      October 7, 2020 at 2:24 pm

      Me too. Karen, Candiace, and Monique were the perfect trio.

      • Monica

        October 7, 2020 at 5:15 pm

        You ain’t neva lied! They were THEE trio. At Candiace’s first reunion, Monique read Gizelle as Candiace and Karen smirked proudly. Then Karen and Monique were proud when Candiace dragged Ashley. Then the next season Candiace and Monique both fell for Gizelle and Ashley’s games even though Karen tried to warn them. It was downhill from there. 😔

  10. Anonymous

    October 7, 2020 at 2:40 pm

    Black women don’t have to be perfect. It’s a reality show. Relax.

  11. Sad

    October 7, 2020 at 4:40 pm

    I refuse to drag Candiace or Monique. I loved their friendship and the fact that their husbands even became friends. It’s a sad situation and honestly, the whole show is so dark now. Even the fans are being so negative and mean online now. I miss the fun days of Potomac. This situation is bringing out the worst in everybody.

  12. Anonymous

    October 7, 2020 at 6:04 pm

    RHOP to me is a great reality show. I wish people would just enjoy what all these women bring to show and stop being so dramatic. Let them live. Don’t take what they do on the show so personally. And they need to stop judging each other so harshly as well. They’re literally one of the most entertaining casts we have left on Bravo and people want to bash them? Makes no sense.

  13. Blessed

    October 7, 2020 at 6:13 pm

    Buffie needs to work on Buffington and stay out of Potomac’s business when she her self needs to work on herself and stand up for herself and not break down and be bullied where wax all this standing up for something in Married to medicine atl

    • Chelly

      October 7, 2020 at 6:40 pm

      I’n pretty sure Buffie can multitask like the rest of us. So she can “work on Buffington” and still find time to watch RHOP and share her opinions like you’re doing right now. Buffie definitely stood up for herself on M2M. Besides Mariah, she was the only one who had the courage to call Jackie out on her mess. Everyone else is afraid to do so. Let’s also not forget she didn’t back down from Heavenly either, and through tears, she told Contessa about herself too. Rewatch that season and stop repeating the silly rhetoric from the toxic M2M fan base. A woman being sad about having miscarriages is not a weak woman. Black women have the right to express our pain. And doing so doesn’t make her weak.

      • Ratchet Queen

        October 8, 2020 at 10:27 am

        I just find it odd how many black women were not empathetic towards Buffie given how many black women deal with racism in the healthcare industry. Black women are dying and losing their babies at a higher rate than any other race, so how do you get on the blogs and IG and tell Buffie to get over it? I’m starting to see what Realness was saying on here. There seems to be no true sisterhood with black women anymore. So maybe it is time to start seeing myself as an individual and expect nothing from other black women.

  14. Tea

    October 7, 2020 at 7:15 pm

    I just found it ironic how snooty these women are about “representing Potomac” when they don’t even live there. Only Karen and Monique live there. 🥴

    • Jamaica941

      October 7, 2020 at 7:41 pm

      But Karen and Monique couldn’t afford to do so without a man… 🤷🏾‍♂️

      • Tea

        October 7, 2020 at 8:03 pm

        But the others couldn’t do it with a man. 🥴

        • Nikki

          October 12, 2020 at 11:20 am

          Why are you hating Monique couldn’t do it without a man. Please. You have no clue what she can and can not do Tea. Even if that’s the case where is the problem. Most people don’t walk around thinking and saying I’m happy just to exist. You act like its a crime to have a man that’s taking his vows seriously. Talk about some black women wanting to keep other’s in box. Some people are blessed, be happy for them. You sound like Gazelle. Is that you Gazelle on the down low throwing shade.

    • Gia

      October 7, 2020 at 7:58 pm

      Exactly. They are the only two who fit the actual theme of the show: housewives (married wealthy men) and live in Potomac.

      • Tea

        October 7, 2020 at 8:05 pm

        Right. The show is called housewives of Potomac. Don’t be high and mighty when you don’t even fit the theme of the city for the show you’re on. 🥴

    • Ratchet Queen

      October 7, 2020 at 8:02 pm


      • Tea

        October 7, 2020 at 8:07 pm

        Sis! Where you been boo?!

        • Ratchet Queen

          October 8, 2020 at 10:23 am

          Girl I’ve been lurking. I’m about to start commenting more like I used to. How have you been?

    • Veronica

      October 7, 2020 at 8:13 pm

      It’s actually pathetic honestly. And Potomac is only like 5% black. How are you arrogant about a city you don’t live in?

  15. Sage

    October 7, 2020 at 7:53 pm

    Y’all are going to keep on trying to make this a black women issue and Bravo will definitely get rid of these all black casts. Keep it up.

  16. Trina

    October 7, 2020 at 10:50 pm

    Buffie was spot on.

  17. Mister Me

    October 7, 2020 at 11:20 pm

    I knew I loved me some Buffie Buff…get yourself back on a reality show and give them some reality. You are everything that many women, of all races, aspire to be and I’m here for all of it!! Keep up the real talk Buffie. And for the record, somebody needs to slap the sh-t out of Kimes’ devilish a-s. And, I don’t condone violence, but somebody b-tch slap her, take accountability, apologize, and move on!!!

  18. Shayla

    October 8, 2020 at 9:39 am

    I agree with Buffie. I also think RHOP shows how racist some well to do black people are also. The anti-blackness is enough for me to stop watching this show altogether.

    • Oprah's Wig

      October 8, 2020 at 10:09 am

      It’s not just the well to do black people, it’s the wannabes as well. But this has been going on for a long time. If I typed some of the histories of some of the most beloved black organizations, a lot of people would be in their feelings on here. But to sum it up, some black people really just want to be affluent so they can have someone to look down on. And poor black people are their favorite punching bag. Even if you manage to get out of poverty, you’ll never be good enough for these people. Classist black people are a huge problem. They scream BLM online, but they are very anti-black any other time.

  19. Naomi

    October 8, 2020 at 10:41 pm

    I agree that a teaching moment was missed due to other more palatable (lol) stereotypes were put on display.

    Judgmental, hypocritical over assimilated ideas on full blast and reputation protecting stereotypes.

    Characters is more important than reputation. Authenticity matters.

    There was some light to dispell the darkness, grace, forgiveness and listening to someone have the courage to be naked and afraid before you.

    To display conflict resolution with truth, responsibility and resolution is a good way to defy stereotypes without bending and creating new ones.

    We can disagree without dehumanizing and standing self righteousness almost Phariseesical approach to conflict resolution. Employing a bunch of fence laws to feel pious and above others,as so well as go home and industry your daughters to do the same.

    Why are some afraid to honor someone even in their mess so to bring them out of it.

    Courage and Character matter.

  20. Sp8dagr8

    October 9, 2020 at 12:01 am

    Gizelle should be removed. She is the epitome of classless with her bad fashion, bad weave, demeaning spirit, hypocritical envious ways and messy behavior. There is nothing to idolize about a woman who boast that her children eating Cheetos for dinner equates to hard work. Moreover, a woman who has introduced her children to multiple men like a street walker and joked about sex in a park. A woman who thinks her image is everything when she made a shirt to poke fun at someone else’s pain. A woman whose child called her out for ignoring how she felt. A woman who tried to persuade viewers that her father was out of his mind because she disagreed with his comments. Everytime Gizelle speaks she spews negativity and judgmental behavior. If she is not the center of attention, then she is not attentive. She needs to accept and acknowledge the issues plaguing her imperfect life. From day one she had an issue with Monique and Candiace because they are everything she wants to be.

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