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BFV Recap: Traci Goes off at Trina’s Wedding + Breaks Down Over Her Niece’s Passing

Braxton Family Values Season 7 Episode 3 Recap

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On tonight’s “Braxton Family Values,” it’s the conclusion of Trina and Von’s wedding in St. Louis.

As the wedding turns into a smooth experience for Trina and Von, Traci’s anger boils over. This escalates into an alleged confrontation between Trina and Tamar.

After the wedding, the family then has to experience various stay-at-home orders in the cities they live in and Traci goes to therapy, revealing a source for her extremely short fuse; the loss of her niece who she was very close to.

Here’s the recap for, “Third Times a Charm.”

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A.J. is a publisher and writer for Urban Belle Mag. A.J. has a passion for HBCUs, learning technology, and reality tv.



  1. Blackrose

    November 20, 2020 at 12:03 am

    Traci really needs help. Her behavior is atrocious. And its disgusting she is blaming her behavior on the death of her niece.

    • deb dyson

      November 20, 2020 at 8:58 am

      Agree, she’s been getting on my nerves for quite some time, you can love someone from a distance and in her case that’s what she needs to do until she is stronger. They all have a strange sisterhood bond.

      • Get Busy

        November 21, 2020 at 11:46 am

        There is no true sisterhood between them in my opinion.

    • LaQuetta Ward

      November 21, 2020 at 3:40 pm

      To all of you people who keep saying that Traci’s horrible behavior is due to grief are the reason why her and Tamar think it’s okay to be like that. I lost THE most important person in my life my mother and never treated my family like she is doing plus she was acting like this WAY BEFORE their niece died. No this is a bitter person who is upset over something that happened over 20 years ago what was her sisters supposed to do loss their deal waiting on her to have her son. Also she talks family loyalty but her a-s wasn’t loyal when she kept on filming when the others went on strike hoping to get pay raises she only sees what others do wrong and not her own mistakes.

      • Veronica

        November 21, 2020 at 3:44 pm

        Girl bye. So Traci wasn’t loyal for not joining the strike but her sisters were loyal to sign that contract without her? And what’s Tamar’s excuse for being horrible all these years? She’s off the show now so why is she still mad and dragging her own family on social media? You Tamar fans are so hypocritical and annoying.

      • Tamaca Harris

        November 21, 2020 at 8:17 pm

        👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I agree 100%. I’ve lost so many people including my mother, and brother. Traci has been acting like this since the show started. There’s a much deeper issue.

        • Diamond

          November 21, 2020 at 8:28 pm

          And this means what exactly? Traci is supposed to grieve the same way you did? It’s easy to sit on the internet and judge people who have the courage to show their true flaws and battles while you play perfect on the internet. Tamar tried to kill herself and here y’all are still judging and tearing down another black woman. Now if Traci tries to hurt herself next, you’re the same people who will jump on the internet with your fake thoughts and prayers. Disgusting.

      • Diamond

        November 21, 2020 at 8:23 pm

        And who made you GOD?! Everyone doesn’t grieve the same. Y’all are real comfortable talking down to people because they are courageous enough to show the ugly sides of themselves while you get to pretend you’re perfect on the internet. Get over yourself. I’m so tired of y’all dogging out other black women. Then you think you have the right to tell someone to get over something you didn’t personally experience. The nerve!

  2. Anonymous

    November 20, 2020 at 4:25 am

    I’ve come to a conclusion tonight. Tamar and Traci are exactly alike. This is why they don’t get along honestly.

    • Demetria Wilburn

      November 20, 2020 at 4:13 pm

      Traci is more caring than Tamar, she will try to work things out. Tamar is selfish and spoil rotten, she is never wrong, she has to be in the lime light. The whole family has issues they need to work on. Traci will admit she is wrong.
      I wish them both the best with their counseling.

  3. Michelle

    November 20, 2020 at 5:11 am

    Traci has been a ball of confusion way before her niece passed away, but if that’s the angle the fellas can use to persuade her to seek help, so be it. God bless her therapist because she has her hands FULL. Traci is a hott mess!

  4. LaQuetta Ward

    November 20, 2020 at 6:27 am

    I can see why Tamar left the show Traci is basically a backstabbing emotional wreck of a person but that’s why you should watch what you say or you’ll end up putting your foot in your mouth like she did last night. One minute she has the only family she needs in her husband and son and the next oh my I love my sisters GTFOH and Girl Bye.

    • Pat

      November 20, 2020 at 6:56 am

      Tamar is just as big of a mess as Traci is. She left the show and she’s still in mess. The whole family is messed up but some of you ain’t got the wisdom to see that. Too busy being stans. This show needs to be finished after this season.

    • Demetria Wilburn

      November 20, 2020 at 4:09 pm

      You cannot put everything on Traci. Tamar is a spoil selfish brat, who wants the spot light. The family has always spoiled Tamar, they never put her in her place when she was wrong. Tamar has always shown she did not care for Traci. For example what was wrong in sharing her birthday with Traci since they were born in the same month?
      The only people who have truly been there for Traci is her father, husband, brother and her decease niece. Traci lost part of her and she has not accepted
      D it and her sisters acted like they did not care at all. Everything was about Trima getting married and during her grief she was there for Trina. Olivia should have kept her mouth close, she knew anything could set the fuse to the powder keg.
      I am glad Traci is getting help. I hope the family work things out.

      • Karrina

        November 21, 2020 at 4:40 am

        The trip to Napa was Tamar’s birthday trip NOT Traci. Just like Trina had her own event. Traci attacked everyone gets upset calls her sister B-tches and you blame Tamar. Tamar tried to make up to Traci by inviting her on her trip. All Traci had to do was speak with Tamar if she felt she was being mistreated. Instead she does what she always does run away to soak and blame everyone else. I do agree she definitely needs professional help!! She hates the family so much she should stay off the show. I think a lot of the drama is in her head.

    • Get Busy

      November 21, 2020 at 11:48 am

      You must be a Tamar stan. Y’all live in a completely different universe from everyone else.

  5. Natalie

    November 20, 2020 at 6:58 am

    I feel for Traci. I get that the sisters were concerned but to bamboozle her was too much. Especially feeling the way Traci has felt for years.
    Maybe they didn’t know because she hid her feelings well all of the time. She felt like an outsider. She covered her pain with smiles and laughter. It’s like holding onto a secret that you want to tell so bad but no one is there to listen.
    Now it has come to a head. I think the loss of her niece triggered the loss of her best bestest friend. No one knew what they spoke of but them. Her niece was her sounding board…no fears…no judgements.
    I sincerely hope Traci comes out on the other side of this. Her counselor seems awesome. 🙏🏾

    • Missy j

      November 20, 2020 at 12:55 pm

      I agree praying for you traci

    • Demetria Wilburn

      November 20, 2020 at 4:16 pm

      I agree with you 100%. Traci did not have her sisters as she should have had, she only had her niece along with her father and brother. There is nothing like a sister bond which she had in her niece.
      Traci is a survivor and she will survive and her husband us by her side.

    • Anonymous

      November 20, 2020 at 8:23 pm

      Well Toni and Tamar is dumb as a box of rocks Toni didn’t even know that George Washington was the first president and didn’t know who chopped down a cherry tree Tamar didn’t know that Lincoln was the 16th president good thing they can sing Towanda is only one that act like she got any kind of education but I do have something good to say I love their mother she’s beautiful and intelligent oh I do like the girls all but Tamar she’s much too selfish and spoiled and always got to be seen

  6. B

    November 20, 2020 at 7:02 am

    I appreciate that the producers played back a few scenes of Traci being disrespected, trashed, and gaslit by her so called sisters. They always act like they don’t know why she’s so hurt but they’ve been treating her like the outcast for years. Oliviah probably wasn’t lying given Toni, Towanda, and Tamar’s track records. I just wish she would’ve waited to tell Traci some other time. The wedding wasn’t the right place because Trina is the only one who understands and truly acts like she cares about Traci.

    • Missy j

      November 20, 2020 at 1:01 pm

      Hallelujah you’re so right. Trina do have the heart.

    • Layla

      November 21, 2020 at 4:47 am

      Are you serious. What scene did you watch. Everyone was enjoying the wedding and laughing at their father vocals. They showed the entire clip. Tamar definitely wasn’t trying to beef with Traci. Just like Tracey assumed everyone would say she was drinking. She’s the only person that said it. You think it was called for her to call her sisters B-TCHES? AS Usual Traci removes herself from the family and cries hurt when they respect her wishes to leave. Come on now. Please refresh my memory on the scenes Traci was disrespected??

    • Vickie

      November 21, 2020 at 9:03 am

      Gm🙏❤ I really enjoy them together when they came together they were funny & entertaining. Olivia was lying they didn’t say anything about Tracy they were goofing on their dad. Traci came on the show mad and seem to have a good time being with her sisters until Olivia lied. I Pray the sisters get it together🙏

  7. Nessa

    November 20, 2020 at 7:04 am

    As many meltdowns and tantrums Tamar has had over the years, Traci is allowed to have a few. Next!

  8. What A Shame

    November 20, 2020 at 7:22 am

    Yeah I don’t really understand how some people can watch this show and then say, “Yeah, this is someone I should bash on the internet and in blog comments.” These people are all hurting and dealing with mental health issues on top of past traumas. Instead of praying for them, you’re bashing them every season. Tamar just attempted to take her life and Traci lost someone she was really close to, and y’all are really on here bashing both? Humanity is definitely at its lowest now. God help us and God help this family.

    • Blackrose

      November 20, 2020 at 7:53 am

      Stop. What profit a man to gain the world and suffer the loss of their soul. They sign up for this. Knowing it is toxic.

      • What A Shame

        November 20, 2020 at 7:56 am

        Yeah, you don’t really want to quote Bible scriptures when you’re defending people bashing other people on the internet. No, they did not sign up to be bashed by their own people.

      • Vanessa Johnson

        November 20, 2020 at 8:39 am

        Great. Now do the scripture about not judging people. Or are the Braxtons the only ones who need to be obedient to God and adhere to scripture?

    • Shannon

      November 20, 2020 at 8:17 am

      I completely agree. What’s sad is it’s mainly black women doing the bashing. Where’s the empathy for all of these black women and this black family? Someone on here said this fan base is toxic. That person told the absolute truth.

      • Oprah's Wig

        November 20, 2020 at 8:56 am

        The fans are very toxic. They will get on Twitter and IG and egg them on to drag each other. And the crazy thing is most of these messy fans would never get on social media and drag their own family. But these fans love to see this family in shambles. It’s entertaining to them.

    • Vanessa Johnson

      November 20, 2020 at 8:40 am

      Well said. The people bashing them ain’t nothing but hypocrites. I pray this family is blessed with happiness and healing. I feel for them.

  9. Diva

    November 20, 2020 at 8:47 am

    Just came here to say Trina is the most level headed one out of the sisters. Her boo also wants no parts of the mess, so that’s another plus. Their brother is also very level headed and emotionally intelligent. Now let me leave because these BFV posts always turn into mess and fandom wars.

    • Mz305

      November 20, 2020 at 2:16 pm

      That’s exactly why I don’t say anything. I just read and keep strolling.All family has their issues and we all goes through our ups and downs but I don’t believe that we should involve social media.I’m just saying…SENDING PRAYERS🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  10. Ms. Jackson

    November 20, 2020 at 8:51 am

    Sh-t let’s keep it 100. They probably were laughing at Traci. If you’ve been watching this show from day one, then you already know that these sisters are very critical of one another. They judge each other’s husbands/men/marriages, weight, vocals, kids, etc. They have been toxic for so long that them laughing at Traci for her singing ain’t hard to believe. But Traci needs to stick to therapy and master the art of not giving a f-ck. Once she stops seeking the approval of her sisters, she’ll have a peaceful life. They ain’t the end all be all. You can love your family but not give them access to your emotional well being.

  11. Bee

    November 20, 2020 at 9:07 am

    Traci needs to cherish the good relationships she has. If she’s good with Trina, time to focus on that and let the broken relationships with Tamar and Towanda go. You don’t have to be close or friends because you’re sisters. Sometimes you just don’t like your sisters, and sometimes they just don’t like you. Focus on your mental health and let people go that need to be let go. Traci should take a page out of Tamar’s book and leave this show so she won’t keep being forced to film with people she doesn’t get along with.

  12. My 2 Cents

    November 20, 2020 at 9:39 am

    I get how Traci feels but she’s wrong. This wasn’t the time and place for that reaction. I’m glad she’s getting therapy now because she has to learn how to process her anger in a healthier way.

  13. And What?

    November 20, 2020 at 1:33 pm

    Some of you know nothing about grief. Traci is for sure acting like someone who is grieving. She was closer to her niece than any of her sisters. The loss is devastating for her and I’m sure her brother as well. One thing about Traci is she’s always been honest about her feelings. It’s just that people don’t care and dismiss them. She will need intense therapy to accept that a lot of people including her own family don’t care about her feelings.

    • Demetria Wilburn

      November 20, 2020 at 4:28 pm

      I agree with you. This was a time when she truly need her sisters and her mother. No was there for her. Even though she was hurting she showed up for Trina. Grieving takes alot out of you , you do not need negativity you need positive and caring people around you who will listen not criticize you and you need comfort. Traci only had her husband, brother ,father, son and her niece who really cared for her. Her niece was the sister who she talk to and recieve true love and friendship from. Now since her niece/ sister is gone who do she have beside the men in her life ? I know she has a daughter in law and grand child but that is different, niece was there before them.
      I wish Traci the best!!!!!!

    • Bee

      November 21, 2020 at 2:19 pm

      Yea I agree. Traci creates drama and takes everything personal, likes to hold grudges and be negative as h-ll and expects everyone to go back in time and change what? Idk. She’s annoying with all the whining it’s like she’s paranoid

  14. LaQuetta Ward

    November 21, 2020 at 4:19 pm

    Veronica who told me Girl Bye this was back in the 90’s before Me Too and every other women’s rights evolution they had to take what was given when it was given because it was only given since Toni was a big star and felt the need to include her sisters it was Traci’s own fault that she got left behind. Also not a big Tamar fan her behavior is just as bad as Traci’s but I am tired of Traci playing the d-mn victim and not taking accountability for her own behavior point blank period.

    • Veronica

      November 21, 2020 at 4:32 pm

      Again, GIRL BYE. You will not talk about loyalty when they signed that contract without her. Trina told y’all years ago that she was pregnant too when they signed that contract and Traci being given that ultimatum when she wasn’t given one was unfair. If you can’t understand that, you really can’t talk about loyalty. Just like her sisters put themselves first and signed that contract without Traci, Traci put herself first and didn’t participate in the strike. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. And I doubt you aren’t a Tamar fan. Y’all have the same tired rhetoric. You’re calling out Traci for playing the victim but everyone outside of Tamar stans knows Tamar has been playing the victim for years and takes no accountability ever, not even in that Tamron Hall interview she just did! I’m sure you were silent all these years Tamar and Towanda dragged Traci’s husband, and when Toni told Traci she was too big and needed to lose weight on a show millions watch. You were probably silent when they didn’t make a big deal out of Traci’s birthday but went all out for Tamar’s. Y’all get on my nerves always dragging Traci but ignoring the dysfunction from the others.

  15. Diamond

    November 21, 2020 at 8:31 pm

    It is absolutely shameful how you people get on this blog and bash other black women who are obviously hurting and dealing with trauma. And you do it so you can continue to pretend to be perfect on the internet. Y’all learned nothing from Tamar trying to kill herself. Have empathy for others! My goodness!

  16. D Prince

    November 26, 2020 at 5:19 pm

    Ok, Here it is people. When you “choose” to put yourself in the public eye, especially with a reality show, expect to get criticized. I don’t particularly care for reality shows, and the ine wasn’t as bad as others, but between Cancer and COVID, I am running out of things to watch.
    There are issues in every family, especially amongst sisters. However, this goes deeper. There are medically emotional issues with Tamar and Tracie. I also believe that being in front of a camera makes people more dramatic. The show itself was a bad idea. Reality TV is known for destroying families, marriages and friendships. As well as having the ability to cause people to be someone other than who they are. I do mean both physically and characteristically. Now remember these girls are PKs, Preacher’s Kids. To me it’s like cutting meat, when you cut against the grain the slices are jagged, aesthetically unpleasing to the eye and not as enjoyable to eat. The sisters chose to live against the grain of who they actually are for a different kind of fame. So, now they have become like that meat, rough, unpleasing to each other and no longer enjoyable to each other. Just pray for that entire family…Mama, Daddy, Sisters and Brother. Perhaps it’s time to just come back “Home”. Ya’ll know what I mean.

    • Tamaca Harris

      November 26, 2020 at 8:25 pm


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