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After Porsha Williams Sides with Monique Samuels, Candiace Dillard Calls Her Out

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The fallout from the altercation continues.

Real Housewives of Potomac” stars Candiace Dillard and Monique Samuels continue to be hot topics in the media. This is due to the altercation that took place last year. It was such a controversial moment that it affected the whole cast. And it’s pretty divided. Gizelle Bryant, Robyn Dixon, and Wendy Osefo are Team Candiace. In fact, they have refused to film with Monique.

Karen Huger and Ashley Darby support Monique. While Karen said she is remaining neutral, her decision to not ice out Monique has made her a target in the group. She’s been accused of being messy. And Candiace thinks that Karen actually did choose a side. Monique’s side is where her support lies, according to Candiace. So it seems as if the friendship between Karen and Candiace has deteriorated.

Ashley’s support of Monique has resulted in her writing a character statement. The character statement, as well as raw footage of the altercation, are said to be some of the things that led to charges being dismissed.

So even though Candiace and Ashley were working on a friendship, that ship has now sailed.

Porsha Williams was critical of Candiace Dillard pressing charges.

Interestingly enough, it’s not just fans of the show and “Real Housewives of Potomac” stars who have opinions on the altercation.

Months ago, Porsha Williams addressed it. And the “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star sided with Monique.

On her show, “Bravo’s Chatroom,” she talked about it with Gizelle. Gizelle happens to be one of her cohosts.

And Porsha said, “Come on Candiace, you know better than that. You actually had a knife at Ashley. Now, what if Ashley would have gone and called the police and tried to press charges on you? Like come on, let’s be real. That was your friend, you had an argument. It did not end well, however, don’t go to the next level. I think that’s too much.”

Porsha also went on to question why Candiace seemed so stressed about the situation. She questioned why Candiace was traumatized from having her hair pulled.

Candiace Dillard responds.

Apparently, Candiace wasn’t here for Porsha’s comments. And she had some things to say about Porsha in a recent interview with the “Behind the Velvet Rope” podcast.

Candiace said that she is aware that other Housewives have had controversial moments.

She told David Yontef, “100%. Yeah…There’s a line. And I think…we’ve seen a lot of Housewives push the envelope and like push the line.”

Candiace added, “I’ve always used Lisa Rinna as an example when she cracks that glass on the table. That, and of course, you know, I think Porsha and Kenya kind of took it too far…”

A jab at Porsha follows, “So you’ve seen people push the line…but never really cross it outside of Porsha –who…is proven herself to be the sidekick of all.”

She then takes a shot at Porsha and Monique’s friendship, “I guess Monique would be Porsha’s sidekick.” Candiace continued, “And just the two wild people defending each other, which is very cute. But you, you know the line when you have sense, and as I like to say scruples, and when you don’t…it shows. It shows how you were raised and who you really are.”

Check out the full interview here.

Amanda is a TV junkie with a passion for all things reality television. She's from Decatur, GA.



  1. Yeah I Said It!

    December 16, 2020 at 11:34 am

    I see Candiace is taking her commitment and obsession with being the Kenya Moore of RHOP very seriously. Mind you, she still wants everyone to believe she comes from generational wealth and she’s some sort of black excellence. LOL.

  2. Peachy

    December 16, 2020 at 11:39 am

    It’s interesting to me that Candiace never thinks she crosses the line. This is the same person who threw a knife at Ashley and had to be sat on by her own husband so she wouldn’t put her hands on Ashley minutes later. Truth be told, Candiace would have been in Monique’s shoes if it wasn’t for Chris restraining her with all of his strength. The audacity of her acting like she’s some of example of restraint and class. I hope Porsha ignores her.

    • Scorpio13

      December 16, 2020 at 5:38 pm


    • Trina

      December 17, 2020 at 11:00 pm

      Why did she wait until now to say something about Porsha’s comments from months ago?

    • Louise

      December 19, 2020 at 8:09 am

      Agree and she keeps saying about how people wee raised tat i itself it putting down so their parents who wouldn’t then attack her. Her own mother hit her with a bag but she made it sound like she bashed her with a bag ?

  3. Ms. Jackson

    December 16, 2020 at 11:46 am

    So Candiace is talking sh-t about another person who fights. Okay. Well this is how you know she faked being traumatized by the dragging Monique gave her. Candiace didn’t learn sh-t and this probably won’t be the last altercation she gets in.

  4. Saywhatnow

    December 16, 2020 at 11:47 am

    It says everything that Candya$$’s compass is Lisa Rinna. That woman has zero morals and has attacked everyone on RHOBH. She is beyond hypocritical and the reason behind that glass break was someone went after her husband. Families are supposed to be off limits but she went far beyond that this season.

  5. Queen

    December 16, 2020 at 11:48 am

    It’s amazing how unlikable Candiace has become in such a short amount of time.

    • Meg

      December 16, 2020 at 11:54 am

      I agree. I can’t believe she went from being the cool and fab chick who stood up for herself when necessary, to a hater/social media troll who plays victim. Yuck.

    • Just Saying

      December 16, 2020 at 6:13 pm

      She was never likable.

      • Ms. Charlie

        December 17, 2020 at 11:05 pm

        Now this I wholeheartedly agree with!!

  6. Meg

    December 16, 2020 at 11:55 am

    Speaking of sidekicks, Candiace has become another one of Gizelle’s sidekicks and puppets. Not smart.

  7. Natalie

    December 16, 2020 at 12:01 pm

    Candiace is a weaksauce clown. Monique just set her a-s straight now it’s time to move on.
    Candiace needs to continue licking her wounds alone or maybe her Mother will help her. She’s helped with everything else.

  8. Trice

    December 16, 2020 at 12:02 pm

    Wrong road! Wrong road! This is why Kandi is so smart. She realized Porsha was the fan favorite and ended the beef. Now she’s a fan favorite too and the highest paid. Candiace isn’t being strategic. So not only is she at odds with the fan favorites of RHOP, but now a fan favorite on RHOA. Her likability continues to decline. She thinks Kenya is who she needs to be but Kenya isn’t the best blueprint to follow.

    • Scorpio13

      December 16, 2020 at 5:42 pm

      Yes Trice!!

    • mj

      December 18, 2020 at 12:58 am

      perfect explanation!

  9. Thomas

    December 16, 2020 at 12:06 pm

    Words are powerful! Not only can they provoke anger and rage, words also creates feelings of love and gratitude. Candace is very good at using words to provoke anger! What I don’t understand is why she can’t see that.

    • Mo

      December 16, 2020 at 12:31 pm

      Assault can also result in being arrested or worse someone ending up dead.

      Many women are sitting in jail wishing they had kept their hands to themselves!

      • Patricia Evans

        December 16, 2020 at 12:44 pm

        According to the law, Candiace assaulted Ashley last year so seems like Candiace ain’t no better than Monique. A judge agreed and charges were dismissed. Time for everyone to move on. Reality shows aren’t after school specials. These people get paid to fight and treat each other horribly. We don’t watch for role models. And y’all still watch so why act holier than thou now?

        • sheryl

          December 16, 2020 at 1:57 pm

          Well said I totally agree with you.

          • SouthBeach305

            December 16, 2020 at 5:55 pm

            @100, stoP half defining the law. Candiace asked Ashley to leave. Which she left, then came back in that is trespassing. My goodness I can see most Monique fans didn’t finish schooling either

          • 100

            December 16, 2020 at 6:05 pm

            Southbeach 305, and you’re a liar and hypocrite just like Candiace. Like I said, you clearly don’t know what trespassing means. You also don’t pay attention to the show. Candiace threw that knife at Ashley before Ashley left and returned. Either way you slice it, you have no legal jurisdiction to assault someone because you told them to leave if your life is not in danger. That’s assault. People get arrested everyday for assaulting trespassers because like you they don’t know the law. Candiace’s lack of knowledge of the law is exactly why charges against Monique were dismissed.

          • SouthBeach305

            December 16, 2020 at 10:18 pm

            @Tequila Girl, she threw the knife after Ashley returned into the house. Nonetheless, Candiace name is indeed on the title, you can google and verify with public records. I’m sure you wouldn’t know anything about that because you have never purchased any property.

          • And What?

            December 17, 2020 at 7:29 am

            Candiace threw the knife at Ashley BEFORE she returned. It’s clear you didn’t actually watch the episode SouthBeach305.

        • SouthBeach305

          December 16, 2020 at 5:39 pm

          According to the law Candiace was defending her home with her name on the title. Unlike the penthouse that belongs to Michael indebted firm and Chris Samuels house….

          • 100

            December 16, 2020 at 5:49 pm

            Nope. That’s not what trespassing means. In Maryland, trespassing is legally defined as the entering of another’s land without the owner’s permission. Candiace invited Ashley to her home, as Andy Cohen pointed out last year. That is not trespassing. Also since we’re talking about trespassing, it’s against the law to assault a trespasser if your life is not placed in immediate danger. Candiace broke the law. She’s lucky Ashley didn’t pull a Candiace and press charges.

          • Tequila Girl

            December 16, 2020 at 6:05 pm

            So let me get this straight, whatever Candiace says is the truth?! South, that really is a stretch. Btw, that house is her Mama’s house. If she was on the deed she wouldn’t be looking for her first home. I see you have drunken the Candiace Kool-Aid. Girl bye!

          • Tequila Girl

            December 16, 2020 at 6:12 pm

            Do you watch episodes with blinders on?! WTH! Go back and watch the episode again. She wasn’t “trespassing” and Candiace at that point did not ask her to leave until AFTER she through the knife. You sound real ignorant. But since you are such a Candiace fan that says a lot about you. You are probably a little chihuahua who is also reckless with their mouth.

          • Tequila Girl

            December 16, 2020 at 6:18 pm

            South you are a walking talking contradiction. Nothing that you have spewed has been correct. Get your facts straight.

          • SouthBeach305

            December 16, 2020 at 10:15 pm

            @100 go look up Maryland laws, it’s called The Castle Doctrine

          • Renee

            December 17, 2020 at 3:23 am

            Bull. She was not defending her home. She was angry because Ashley said she was in her mother’s house. Ashley was seated wasn’t acting aggressively wasn’t coming towards her so how could she be defending her home?

          • 100

            December 17, 2020 at 6:47 am

            @ SouthBeach305, you’re really bad at this. Why did you leave out the part of the Castle Doctrine which states that the degree of self defense must not be excessive? Does that not fit your narrative? Candiace’s life was not in danger, which means that was not self defense, that was assault. In Maryland, you can’t assault a trespasser if your life is not in danger. In fact, Candiace’s unlawful actions with Ashley is one reason why charges against Monique were dismissed. If you’re going to bring up the Castle Doctrine, read it in its entirety. Truth be told, Candiace actually assaulted Ashley before she was told to leave. Why did you leave that part out? I’m seeing a pattern with you.

      • X

        December 16, 2020 at 4:47 pm

        That is exactly right, these women were supposed to only fight with words and not throwing knives and dragging people, they should also have limits on who they shoot there mouth’s off about and the worst thing to do is to involve innocent children, these women are going way over the line, this is the type of chaos that will get someone killed.

    • Pretty Girl

      December 16, 2020 at 1:04 pm

      Oh she knows. She’s the same one who got hit in the head with her momma’s purse. Candiace knows what her words can do. She’s just playing victim because she thinks it will get Monique fired. Rewatch that scene of her going off on Ashley with a knife and pay attention to that clip of the altercation with Monique. I doubt this is Candiace’s first fight. She’s lying.

      • Saywhatnow

        December 16, 2020 at 2:47 pm

        Agreed. How did she make it through Howard without getting popped? Ain’t no way that mouth didn’t get dealt with in college.

  10. Patricia Evans

    December 16, 2020 at 12:48 pm

    I’m tired of her dragging this fight out. If she’s so above messy reality television, she should leave the show. Her fake morals are hilarious. Candiace could have been arrested for throwing that knife. That was assault.

  11. Troll

    December 16, 2020 at 12:59 pm

    I truly wish she would shut the h-ll up about this fight. She signed up for a reality show in a franchise that is known for mess and violence. And it’s not like she wasn’t trying to fight Ashley last year. Like someone already said she would have been doing damage control and begging Gizelle to let her back in the group last year if her husband didn’t hold her back the way he did. She was nearly Monique herself last season. Candiace is violent. She’s everything she said Monique is. This is why most of the viewers aren’t on her side. We remember everything she’s done since she’s been on the show. Candiace and that little clique she’s running with are all hypocrites. It’s irritating to watch them pretend to be so above Monique. Get out of here. Drag her Porsha.

    • SouthBeach305

      December 16, 2020 at 5:41 pm

      This her first interview about the fight, Monique gave 10

      • Troll

        December 16, 2020 at 6:01 pm

        This is not Candiace’s first interview about the fight. You’re loud and wrong.

      • Tequila Girl

        December 16, 2020 at 6:25 pm

        South, what are you smoking?! Whatever it is it makes you confused and delusional.

      • Tequila Girl

        December 17, 2020 at 2:16 pm

        Southbeach GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT!!! Nothing that you are spewing is factual and accurate. You’re orchestrating a narrative to fit your (Candiace) belief that is 100% not correct or true. Like I said before, you being a Candiace fan says a lot about you.

  12. Camila

    December 16, 2020 at 1:14 pm

    This girl just doesn’t know when to stop! You can’t give her the slightest bit of criticism or tell her about her nasty actions without her going off on you. She gon learn one day that everyone won’t tolerate her mouth.

  13. Jdw

    December 16, 2020 at 1:15 pm

    Candice. Grow up!!! I think you are more embarrassed than anything that you got your a-s handed to you on film. Your mouth wrote a check that your a-s could not cash

  14. Lana

    December 16, 2020 at 1:32 pm

    Since she’s talking about how people were raised, did Dorothy raise Candiace to tell people to kill themselves and throw knives?

    • Scorpio13

      December 16, 2020 at 5:48 pm

      Also Candiace wished a terminally ill man “to hurry up and die”. She is a vile little chihuahua. One day she is going to jump off on the wrong person and Chris will not be there to protest her. She better hire herself a security guard.

  15. Anonymous

    December 16, 2020 at 1:45 pm

    Oh my goodness she just got her hair pulled and a couple of open handed taps! Move on Candiace! You were not injured. Find a new storyline!

  16. Shut Up

    December 16, 2020 at 1:57 pm

    Girl be quiet. Find a new storyline.

  17. Anonymous

    December 16, 2020 at 2:13 pm

    Candiace is a wannabe Kenya Moore. All the way down to that lame fan she had at the reunion to the victim playing and hypocrisy. But I guess I shouldn’t be surprised since her own husband said she’s the Kenya Moore of RHOP. She should have aimed higher in life.

  18. Diva

    December 16, 2020 at 3:47 pm

    Candiace really needs to let this go and move on with her life.

  19. Ms TeTe

    December 16, 2020 at 4:54 pm

    I just wondering if Candiace would ever grow TF up?! ??‍♀️ I’m praying that she gets pregnant soon cuz I believe that’s the only thing that will make her check her mouth from that point on. Stfu! ?

    • Ms TeTe

      December 16, 2020 at 5:10 pm

      Good grief! ???‍♀️?

  20. Anonymous

    December 16, 2020 at 5:16 pm


    I really wish Candiace would evolve and chill out some. She has so much potential. But she won’t get out her own way. All she has to do is stop feeling the need to respond to everything. Stop the ignorant and hateful tweets. Understand everyone isn’t out to her here. Show a different side to herself on this platform and win people over slowly. She’s doing too much. Porsha is not her enemy just because she is friends with Monique. This team crap needs to end.

    • SouthBeach305

      December 16, 2020 at 6:09 pm

      Candiace is the one that needs to evolve but the mom is out here fighting people ??? Make it make sense. Candiace has an MBA and worked for Obama administration, where has Monique worked? What schooling has she done? The hypocrisy in your comment is funny, the she needs to be the one to level up when a 40 year old MOTHER is out here fighting. How ratchet

      • Just Saying

        December 16, 2020 at 6:21 pm

        Oh now, this is rich coming from a Candiace supporter. Let’s be clear, Candiace was selling weave bundles before she got a spot on RHOP. Her experience as an Obama intern was highly embellished, which is why she wasn’t able to secure a greater role in politics after the internship ended. Reality television was her last shot. She does not have an MBA and just started the MBA program she’s in. And with all that, “education” she received, she only managed to be on the same show Monique is on throwing butter knives and acting like a buffoon for a paycheck. She and her supporters hide behind elitism to deflect from how ratchet she truly is. Of course, you see nothing wrong with a 30 something-year-old woman and wife trying to fight, throwing butter knives, threatening to run her own husband over with a car, and throwing temper tantrums on television. And how ratchet is it that her own mother hit her in the face with her purse in a public setting. She clearly picked up her violent nature from Dorothy. Yes, Candiace does need to evolve. From the looks of all the ignorant mess she writes on the internet, she’s as basic as they come. Yet, you delusional people think she’s better than Monique. They are both dysfunctional messes.

        • Tequila Girl

          December 16, 2020 at 6:42 pm

          Preach, Just saying!! I am so tired of Southbeach and her ignorant walking contradiction a$$. She is exhausting.

        • SouthBeach305

          December 16, 2020 at 10:43 pm

          You mean like how Monique was living in her car before she met Chris lol? At least Candiace has hustle Monique was trying to be a rapper smh. Good thing big boy came and saved her, we saw that he showed us how she gets DOWN!

          • Just Saying

            December 17, 2020 at 7:17 am

            Was this comment the best you could do? I’m not a Monique worshipper. Insult her all you want. Candiace doesn’t have “hustle.” If she did, she’d be a respected force in politics like the people I know who worked with Obama. Instead, she’s on a trashy reality show embarrassing herself for peanuts from Bravo and lying about her upbringing. That’s not impressive.

          • Tequila Girl

            December 17, 2020 at 2:24 pm

            Southbeach, you know why too much about Monique. So it makes me think you are either Candiace or you are her ex friend Gigi. I highly doubt what you are spewing is factual since you cannot watch an episode and get the sequence of events correctly. Candiace’s only hustle is being a barking chihuahua.

        • deb dyson

          December 18, 2020 at 11:21 am

          Tell it like it is. Thank you for saving me from saying it. Well done!

      • Tequila Girl

        December 16, 2020 at 6:38 pm

        Yes Candiace has not evolved, she is stagnant. She has wished death on numerous bloggers. She hits way below the belt. But in your warped mind you will say they deserve that. Candiace hasn’t matured past the age of 20. You do realize the name of the show is “REAL HOUSEWIVES OF POTOMAC”. Most of the housewives have been housewives. So what if Monique didn’t work for the Obama administration, most of us haven’t. Girl you keep reaching but you haven’t grasped anything and that’s including reality.

        • SouthBeach305

          December 16, 2020 at 10:32 pm

          Your hating on a black girl that has two black doctors as parents!!! Laughable girl, women should want to receive family mother before having to lie down with a man for $$.

          • Just Saying

            December 17, 2020 at 7:02 am

            Dorothy is not a doctor. She’s a licensed social worker. Candiace lied about her upbringing to make it seem as if she comes from wealth when she actually doesn’t. There is no “family money” which is why Candiace’s father couldn’t spare $25,000 to help pay for the wedding. And it’s also why Candiace was having cash bar events on national television. You’ve been bamboozled. Time to use your common sense.

          • And What?

            December 17, 2020 at 7:33 am

            It’s “you’re.” Not “your.” One would expect you to know the difference since you were on here earlier accusing people of not finishing school.

          • Tequila Girl

            December 17, 2020 at 2:38 pm

            Southbeach you are a piece of work and not in a good way. I do not know how you have gone through life this long with your ignorance. If you want to say I am a hater and put your (not) beloved Candiace on a pedestal so be it. Your (not) “beloved” Candiace is a opportunist and has been making racist comments about her own race. I guess in your eye’s that is okay and acceptable, since you want to bring race in it. Also what about her making homophobic and trans comments to followers. Since you are such a fan of hers I am sure that your beliefs are exactly the same and you probably cheer her on.

      • Anonymous

        December 16, 2020 at 6:40 pm

        Whoa ?

        I honestly can’t help but laugh at some of you. You’re really on here acting like Candiace is the second coming of Michelle Obama. She’s on a reality show sis, and she acts a fool on and off of it. That resume doesn’t matter since she’s on a reality show being messy for a living. She’s a fighter as well if you recall her situation with Ashley. She does need to evolve because she’s the only cast member writing homophobic tweets, making transphobic and anti-black statements, and wishing death on bloggers and viewers. Candiace makes Monique look like a nun honestly. She’s horrible.

        • Scorpio13

          December 16, 2020 at 6:46 pm

          Ikr?! I wouldn’t be surprised if Southbeach is really Candiace trolling. They both sound like barking chihuahuas.

      • Renee

        December 17, 2020 at 3:31 am

        Candiace does not have her MBA she’s in school now

  21. Trina

    December 16, 2020 at 7:51 pm

    Lawd,poor traumized Candice just keeps coming for people. How and why? Didn’t she say she was just to upset to move forward.
    During her altercation with Monique she grabbed a knife and Wendy took it from her.

  22. Amanda Anderson-Niles

    December 17, 2020 at 6:20 am

    Personal attacks are not allowed in comments. Calling another reader ghetto, a hood rat, a heffa, and saying another reader is from the slums is unacceptable. Please don’t take it there. Stick to the topic of RHOP. Repeat offenders will be banned from commenting.

    • Peachy

      December 17, 2020 at 10:43 am

      Amanda sis please post that Jamal video!!! I already know the comments are going to be a mess!!!

      • Miss Morgan

        December 17, 2020 at 12:14 pm

        I know I’m waiting because I have a lot to say.

  23. Rachel

    December 17, 2020 at 7:43 am

    Ugh can’t stand Candiace. She speaks like a white supremacist and so do her fans.

    • Miss Morgan

      December 17, 2020 at 12:16 pm

      Exactly but they’ll have Black Lives Matter in their Twitter and IG bios. Frauds. Candiace too.

    • Tequila Girl

      December 17, 2020 at 2:48 pm

      @ Rachel, exactly. Candiace has said some racist crap about black people and so has Chris. She wished a black blogger who was terminally ill to “hurry up and die”. It makes me think Candiace has a lot of self hatred. Candiace reminds me of that blind racist character from the Dave Chappell Show.

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