The final therapy session went left.
Mendeecees Harris and Yandy Smith made a lot of revelations on “VH1 Couples Retreat.” In fact, the “Love And Hip Hop New York” couple is still trying to get on the same page since Mendeecees returned home from prison. On the finale, they had a pretty intense final therapy session with AJ Johnson.
It started off very light, and Mendeecees expressed that he gets annoyed when Yandy takes too long to say her goodbyes to people while he’s holding the door open for her.
In a green screen interview, Yandy said, “Oh my God. The d*mn door. Like this always happens if I’m getting too much attention and he’s ready to go, he gets annoyed.” For Mendeeees, he feels it’s more so about Yandy not being considerate enough of his time, “Just be a little considerate like I’m here to support you so when we saying our goodbyes, let’s not turn a ten-minute goodbye into an hour goodbye.
AJ said that it just seems like it’s been tough for Mendeecees to process Yandy’s professional growth since he’s been in prison. And at times, he may resent her for it because he didn’t get a chance to be as involved as he wanted to be. Mendeecees took offense to this. He also feels like Yandy and AJ were double-teaming him.
Mendeecees Harris walked off.
Yandy expressed that she thinks the issue is much deeper, “You know, there’s something I feel like in Mendeecees where if he builds me up too much, he’ll think I’m too big-headed. And then I’ll just feel like I don’t want to be with him or I’ll just leave.” In response to this, Mendeecees said, “Absolutely not.” He continued, “I think you’re absolutely wrong and that is not actual facts.”
At this point, Yandy said that at times she doesn’t think Mendeecees is enthusiastic enough when he congratulates her on her accomplishments, “I could get an award from the top black organizations…I can…”
Mendeecees said he does congratulate her, so he doesn’t agree with her view. Yandy goes on to say that Mendeecees offers a very weak congratulations to her during major moments in her life. At this point, Mendeecees really gets upset and said this isn’t the case, “Alright, I’m ready for this scene to be over. This sh*t getting dumb.”
He then leaves, however, Yandy is able to convince him to return 15 minutes later. AJ told them that she believes that Yandy and Mendeecees both really want the same thing, and that is consideration from one another.
When the couple does a green screen interview together, Mendeecees asked Yandy, “Do you think we good?” And Yandy responded with, “I mean, I don’t think we’re good. I wasn’t expecting this but I mean we gotta have these conversations. They’re gonna happen.”
