In her new Bravo blog, Cynthia claims it’s possible to not be physically attracted to your spouse while still having a spark in the bedroom.
She writes:
When Peter and I first met, I was attracted to everything about him. However, his confidence really stood out. He was handsome, successful, funny, smart, and s*xy. He owned all of it. I have always been more attracted to my husband’s mind than his body. When my sister Malorie asked me if I was still attracted to Peter with his clothes off, she was referring to him physically, not s*xually. My honest answer was no. For me, physical attraction and s*xual attraction are two different subjects, and one has nothing to do with the other. At the time of Malorie’s visit, the video had just come out, we were dealing with the stress of other martial issues, and Peter had packed on some unwanted pounds. Is it possible to be s*xually attracted to someone and not be physically attracted to them? Physical attraction is important in any marriage or relationship, but it is only one of many factors that will keep a healthy relationship together. I think men hold women to a much higher standard when it comes to physical attraction. Most women love from more of an emotional and spiritual connection that usually goes beyond the physical. This is an issue that a lot of women can relate to but are not comfortable talking about out loud.
They are sad period.
It doesn’t matter. Their marriage is a joke regardless. Cynthia should have never married Peter.
Her family tried to tell her too.
Sigh…
I don’t find him attractive at all.. I guess his attitude makes it worse. But white women who love black men would Find him attractive physically especially his complexion
I don’t blame her. Peter is not hot.
Sh-t I don’t think anybody is attractive to Peter when his clothes are off.
*attracted*
She’s losing attraction to him because she’s starting to resent him.
I get what she’s saying. You may love someone but that doesn’t mean you will always be attracted to them physically. And men don’t feel like they have to take care of themselves as much as women do but they’re wrong.
She’s too fine for Peter.
Lmao ummm they marriage is headed to the rocks then. Cause I have been s-xually attracted to a dude….he was mad ugly…..but I was horny as hell. And he was saying some shyt and paying me attn so he got the goods after a while lmao….but after I had s-x wit his Towe up a$$ I was like “ewwwww never again”…..u knw ur perspective changes after that nut like a dude in a club goin after a big butt ugly girl lol
I just don’t see them staying married.
Dang their marriage is really in trouble. God bless em.
A small part of me feel like all of this was staged just for them to be a “hot topic” on Season 8. I could be wrong but I feel like it was all in Peter’s plan (and possibly Cynthia)to have that girl film him with that chick the way she did and then have the footage leaked to the media.
Then they are more pathetic than Kenya and on the same level as Kirk and Rasheeda