Gabrielle Union Explains How Some Women End Up Playing Themselves

Gabrielle gets very open in her new book, so it’s no surprise she’s doing the same in her interviews while promoting it.

In a recent interview with “Sway in the Morning,” she opened up about why she feels a lot of women are playing themselves when it comes to what goes down in the bedroom.

She discussed a part of her book in which she recalled a moment in which the young lady she mentored told her she “did a favor” for her man and Gabby checked her for not asking for the same treatment.

Gabby said:

I said, ‘Well that’s a very unequal relationship. That sounds very one-sided.’ And a lot of women do enjoy providing f*llatio. For sure, there needs to be some c*nnilingus. Same time or not, directly after or before. And then I said, ‘Well ask him to eat your a*s.’

That’s how we have to teach these kids. You have to really get them young and say, look if you’re gonna just be offering bl*w jobs willy-nilly, there should be some pleasure that you should experience in return. It’s only fair.

Whenever you are having consensual, s*xual relationships, there should be equal pleasure. And we’re not just the vessels for someone else’s pleasure.

Check out the video below:

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8 comments

  1. This is common sense but society tells women that our pleasure doesn’t matter, so most of us have that mindset.

  2. I didn’t watch or listen to the interview, so y’all tell me if I’m taking this out of context…. but is she really referencing teaching this to “kids” tho?? Getting them young???

    “That’s how we have to teach these kids. You have to really get them young and say, look if you’re gonna just be offering bl*w jobs willy-nilly, there should be some pleasure that you should experience in return. It’s only fair.”

  3. The sad thing is a lot of women think s-x isn’t for their enjoyment. I mean it’s a lot of grown women out here who have never even had an o-gasm before.

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