On the season premiere of GUHHATL, Debra and Toya had a sit-down to talk about getting their kids Brandon and Reginae in a room to squash their beef once and for all.
While many seemed happy that this beef was being squashed, quite a few others felt some type of way about Deb telling Toya about her childbirth experiences.
To Deb, she loved giving childbirth, and she compared it to a really big “O.”
During the episode, Deb told Toya the following:
That’s one thing I loved about being pregnant. I loved nothing more than giving birth.
It’s painful in the beginning. [But] Sweetie, it’s technically the best org*sm you could ever get.
It’s so warm when it comes out. That last push is…
I love nothing more than giving birth. This glow…
Apparently, quite a few people disagreed with Deb and let her know on her social media accounts. So much so, that Deb responded via her Instagram page to address the criticism. She also says that most women are criticizing her feelings can’t relate because they never achieved an O.
It never ceases to amaze me how so many people have so many d*** opinions.
You can’t tell me how my body should feel. I know every emotion I feel when I gave birth to my children. My first one was very rough, because it was unexpected… I didn’t know what to expect out of it.
The next go around, I was ready for it. But, I had natural childbirth with all my children. Never, ever, ever had a epidural, [nor] c-section.
Some of y’all are commenting and I know you never even reached an O, because… Well I am going to be nice and say 75% of don’t ever reach that. So if you don’t know what it is, you don’t know what to look for.
Check out the response below.
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Umm what kind of org-sms has she had?
lmao exactly
I mean maybe that’s what she remembers but I have never heard childbirth described that way before.
Clearly she’s the one who has never had an org-sm before. Trust me, if childbirth really felt like one, women would be giving birth a lot more and they wouldn’t fear it so much.