Erica Mena’s words leave the others feeling uneasy.
Yandy, Mendeecees, Rasheeda, and Kirk catch up after the major blowup between Spice and Erica Mena. Everyone is offended by Mena referring to Spice as a monkey after her son was brought up. Yandy wants to speak with her to see where her head is at. Kirk just feels like it’s a colorism situation. And since he’s a dark-skinned man, comments like this are super hurtful to him. Now he and the others wonder if Mena has racist feelings about all Black people.
To be on the safe side, Rasheeda will only invite Spice to her birthday party to prevent things from getting messier.
Mena talks about the situation to her nanny. She recognizes she said something to Spice she really should not have. But in her opinion, she blacked out. She was just hurt but she understands that doesn’t make what she said excusable. So she has to hold herself accountable.
When it comes to Spice saying her son doesn’t like her, Mena believes Spice got that from Safaree. She goes on to allege that Safaree has said this to her during past arguments.
The drama will continue in the Bahamas.
On the evening of Rasheeda’s party, Spice gives a rundown to Sierra. Sierra says Mena only told her that she was upset because Spice came for her parenting. She had no idea that Spice was called a monkey. Spice says it’s hurtful to be called this by someone she thought was a friend. This was worse than the table being pushed in her stomach and Mena saying Spice should have died.
Kirk surprises everyone when he says the birthday celebration will continue in the Bahamas at their vacation house. He invites everyone on the trip. Rasheeda FaceTimes Bambi to make sure she can coexist with Scrappy. And Bambi says there won’t be an issue when it comes to that.
Spice has some words for Sierra and Bambi.
As everyone arrives at the vacation house, Bambi tells Sierra that Mena also did not tell her that she called Spice a monkey. Sierra says she’s going to talk to Mena to get the facts. And Bambi hopes Mena did not use racial slurs during her argument with Spice.
On the first night in the Bahamas, Spice asks Sierra and Bambi if they have spoken to Mena. They say they have spoken to her. But she didn’t tell them she called Spice a monkey. So this is a conversation they haven’t had with Mena yet.
Spice isn’t buying any of this. Bambi questions why Spice is misdirecting her energy to her and Sierra. Sierra tries to explain to Spice that they look silly fighting over something Safaree instigated. However, Spice says Safaree didn’t do anything wrong. An argument ensues between Bambi and Spice. Spice gets up from the table like she’s ready to scrap. Bambi gets up as well saying she was open to talking. The episode ends on a cliffhanger.
What are your thoughts on the episode?
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Erica Mena it’s too late. What’s done is done ✔️. Spice is a blue smurf. All she ever wears is BLUE!
So it’s Saferee’ s fault that Erica called Spice a monkey 🐒. He wasn’t even part of the scene. Giving he to power over Erica’s mouth.
Erica your absolutely done🤷🤷🤷, I’m definitely with Kirk on this one, are you calling all of monkeys, are you really expressing your TRUE FEELING’S, HAVE YOU BEEN HOLDING THIS IN UNTIL IT’S CONVENT FOR YOU TO SAY IT, LORD KNOWS WHAT SHE’LL SAY NEXT
I totally agree with Kirk as well. I don’t care how mad you are, to me that’s when you reveal your true feelings. They say the truth hurts and what spice said was the truth. Spice wasn’t talking about her don, she just mentioned his true feeling about his mother, Erica. All these years she’s been chasing men and woman, from bow wow, to Syn. He’s at the age where people know who his mother is and probably teases him about it because she’s been passed around and is very ratchet. So it was the truth that set Erica off.just like Erica was telling the false narrative that Safaree wasn’t helping with the children. She wasn’t getting what she thought she would get and was in her feelings, but yet you’re still having sex with a man that apparently does you and his children so wrong.🤔I don’t agree with spice. What Bambi said was she spoke to Erica but they didn’t have a full conversation about the whole incident. Erica knew she was wrong, that’s why she didn’t tell Bambi or the other girl about calling Spice a “monkey”.
Spice ALWAYS coming at the women sideways ….just because they Erica’s friends don’t mean she has to come at them DISRESPECTFUL as f***….I am a BLACK MAN and when she mentioned Erica’s son it was time to GO LOW PERIOD DOT……also a lot of those blacks from other countries don’t care for AFRICAN AMERICANS …..
Absolutely true!! Spice has always thought she was a cut above the woman on the show
Vernita, your statement is spot on!
I just saw the episode and Spice throws a rock and hides her hand. Now she is bent out of shape because she was called a “blue monkey” but she is throwing the “b****” word and jumping up doing all this unnecessary yelling and cursing. If you want respect then extend it to others. She doesn’t act like a woman that was “given a second chance”!
Direct her anger towards the person that you have the issue with. Eric should not have made a comment that was deemed a racial slur however Spice provoked her and when the gloves are off nobody places them neatly in a corner, they throw them. Comments about children should be off limits. Why is Spice worried about Erica’s situation with Safaree? If Erica wants to have sex with her ex-husband that isn’t Spice’s concern. Safaree showed child support for this year, what about last year, the year before?
This toxicity is too much!!!!
Shakur, thank you for that. Since Spice has finally become successful I noticed a change in her. I remember when she first came on the show, she had a problem with anyone calling her a B-TCH. Well now she uses the word toward others a lot. In my opinion she is a BITCH. No one ever addresses her on her disrespectful rude behavior toward others. I have no admiration or respect for her anymore. ERICA WAS DEAD WRONG FOR CALL HER A BLUE MONKEY, BUT SPICE WAS DEAD WRONG FOR TALKING ABOUT HER SON. AND SPICE WAS ALSO DEAD WRONG FOR ATTACKING BAMBI THE WAY SHE DID.
Yes! People don’t remember (by choice or didn’t notice) that Spice is the one that exposed Joc for messing with Meda. She sat up there at that ladies luncheon for Kendra’s engagement and not only said Joc was sleeping with Meda but also went around the table to see who else besides Karlie had ALSO been with him. It turned into a mess right at that table with everyone trying to figure out the timelines and it all stemmed from Spice starting it.
But that never comes out. And yes, the way Spice would tell someone to never use the word B!+ch regarding her, it simply rolls off her tongue now. But see, if someone come for her saying she’s salty because she has no man or her kid was sick after she had a life-threatening illness and all she wanted to do was get back to the bag, she’d go off on people. Yeah, she a slick one.
You hit the nail on head!! So true!!
WHY DID SHE TAKE IT THERE??????????????? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE. WHEN A B/N SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM! THAT SHIT WAS NOT JUST A SLIP UP OUT OF ANGER PLEASE BELIEVE THAT WAS FROM HER SOUL, AND HEART
i AM WAY PAST MY PRIME, AND I KNOW WHAT IS FROM THE SOUL, AND BABY BELIEVE ME THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT SHE FEELS PUERTO RICAN WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS HAD A PROBLEM WITH US ESPECIALLY IF WE ARE PRETTY GIRLS
I HEAR SHE WAS FIRED??? AS SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN, AND NOW SHE NEEDS TO BE BLACKCALLED AIN’T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT SH-T IN 2023??????
Did y’all here when Spice told Erica that her son hate her that was a very low blow. Spice kids are living with her mother and not her. Why is that’s so come on people you don’t say hateful things about people kids she is so dam messy.
Everyone knows never bring up someone kids. (NEVER) They were both wrong for saying hurtful things. I do believe Erica was there to make things good with spice but spice was so negative from the start. As she was with Bambi and Sierra. How dare her make them pick a side.
They talked about Jesus; my point is because she said your son don’t like you is no reason to call her a monkey; besides it’s a international fact about her relationship with her son. I agree with Spice, Erica was upset about the photo of her, Amara, Safaree.