When it comes to relationships these days, it seems as if we will take counsel from just about anybody willing to give it. We’re so confused about love, men, relationships; hell even marriage, that we’ll happily take any advice, as long as it permits us to forsake using our good old common sense and not do the one thing that we know that we should. It’s human nature to seek out a little assistance in our personal lives and our pursuits in love, but only an idiot would seek out relationship advice from someone who hasn’t demonstrated that they even know how to be in a relationship. And for that record, only a woman who truly doesn’t want to experience real love or satisfaction at the hands of a good man, would seek the conventional and just plain tired advice from a woman who thinks the worst of all men.
Why is it that so many women seek out man haters for assistance on finding a good man? It makes as much sense as trying to book a flight one day before the start of your vacation…nine times out of ten, you won’t get anywhere.
Now before you tell me that it’s not your girls that I’m talking about or your current situation, let’s examine the typical beliefs and foolishness that the man haters live by and speak on a frequent basis:
1. “All men are dogs.”
The Truth: No, all the men she has dated willingly are dogs.
2. “Never give a man 100%, because he will never give you 100%.”
The Truth: Only children and immature adults believe that a relationship can work without the full efforts of both individuals in the relationship. How old are these people?
3. “It’s smarter to just keep men around for random booty calls.”
The Truth: Studies show that extremely promiscuous women tend to stay single. But don’t shoot the messenger.
4. “Sex is better than love.”
The Truth: This really means that she hasn’t been in love before. Pardon her ignorance.
5. “It’s human nature for men to cheat.”
The Truth: No, it’s human nature for boys to cheat. Know the difference between men and boys.
6. “In order to get over your last relationship, you must hop into another one fast!”
The Truth: Sure, if you don’t want to stay in that relationship very long.
7. “That man is too nice to be with.”
The Truth: Nice men are usually the men we end up marrying, hence the phrase, “Nice guys finish last.” You can waste your time if you’d like, but eventually, you’ll pray to God for another nice guy.
8. “There’s nothing wrong with a little drama in a relationship, drama means you have something real.”
The Truth: Drama kills relationships, period. Meanwhile, a few problems here and there give couples a chance to grow closer.
9. “I don’t care what he does! I don’t need a man anyway. Money over everything.”
The Truth: This really means I’m lonely as hell, so I’ll just brag about my money instead.
10. “Men are horrible, and that’s why none of my relationships have ever worked out.”
The Truth: Out of all the breakups she’s had, she has no blame in any of those? Not buying it.