By: Amanda Anderson-Niles
While everyone is still debating on who’s to really blame for the drama that went down at NeNe Leakes’ pillow talk, Kenya Moore seems to think it’s all NeNe’s fault. Interestingly enough, some have taken to social media to point fingers at NeNe’s bestie Cynthia Bailey, and they feel Cynthia instigated the situation between Christopher Williams’ wife Natalie and Kandi Burruss.
Interestingly enough, Cynthia took to her Bravo blog to admit her role in the drama and she admits she was messy. She writes:
I don’t throw the word hate around much, but I have to say that I truly hate seeing people physically fight each other. It actually makes me sick to my stomach. There is nothing wrong with having a difference of opinion, or throwing a little shade every now and then. However, I do have a problem watching people beat up each other. I don’t care what the reason is, or who started what. It doesn’t matter. Physical violence should never be the answer. At the end of the day everyone is grown and is responsible for their own actions. How we choose to handle situations as people is always a personal choice. It’s not about making excuses or pointing fingers. I have apologized publicly for myself, my husband, and for everyone that was there. I know that in my heart everyone involved looks back on that night with embarrassment and regret.
Let’s move on! I admit that it was a little “messy boots” for me to tell the ladies about my conversation with Natalie about the whole Todd opportunist thing. In Natalie’s defense, I don’t remember if she ever said the word opportunist, but I felt like it was implied. She actually had a lot of very nice things to say about Todd as well, but I guess the negative will always outweigh the positive. It’s actually kind of funny, because this whole conversation started off pretty harmless. Everything that was said happened so long ago!
Cynthia also now admits that she did see her sister Mal push Kandi while watching the last episode:
Last but not least, I definitely didn’t know until I saw it on tape that Mal pushed Kandi. I actually didn’t believe it until I saw the tape, because I just don’t remember it happening. I thought Mal was trying to keep Peter and Todd from getting into it by pushing them apart. Mal did tell me that in that moment Todd pushed her, and she instinctually pushed him back. Then all hell broke loose from there. Remember, Mal is my sister first and foremost. She is just as protective of me as the other ladies’ families are protective of them. Just like the other incident, it all happened so quickly it was hard to know who pushed whom and when or why. We may never know exactly how it all started, I am just glad that it is over.
Cynthia has always been messy. I’m not sure why she thought she was saying something no one figured out already. LOL.
Mal gets on my last nerves! She thinks she is so hard and I highly doubt Todd pushed her first. I really wish Kandi could have gotten a piece of her. I can’t stand her.
I normally am a big fan Cyntie, but you talk too much sometimes. Trying to keep your spot on the show, doesn’t mean gossiping at every turn, and starting mess.
You should be more worried about Papa Smurf spending your money, and sending you both to the poor house. Not other people’s relationships.
Well I am glad Cynthia is taking responsibility for her slick messy ways that irked me. I appreciate her admitting her wrong and her sister wrong. It is so funny that everybody taking responsibility except for guess who? Kenya “messy” Moore.
Exactly. But I can’t say I’m surprised that Kenya is once again playing the victim when her hands are just as dirty as everyone else’s.
Cynthia and Kenya pretty much started all of this when you think about it. While everyone is trying to put all of this on NeNe, they seem to be forgetting that it was Cynthia who had a convo with Natalie about Todd and it was Cynthia who told Kenya. Kenya then ran with it and she’s also the one who had the nerve to tell everyone that Natalie wasn’t really married to Christopher. So when she sees Christopher at the party, he tries to confront Kenya about it and that’s when everything went to hell. But none of this would have happened if both Kenya and Cynthia would have kept their damn mouths shut and stayed out of everyone else’s business. But I guess everyone is on the Hate NeNe bandwagon. Kenya’s not smart enough to understand how fickle reality tv watchers are. They will turn on her too at some point. Then what?
All of this. But you know Kenya will ride this sympathy train for as long as possible. But what will she do when no one on the show wants to deal with her or film with her? And yeah they can hire people who will but Kenya will just burn that new bridge within two or three episodes. She better learn how to play the game before she gets the Sheree treatment in a couple of seasons. You have to have allies. Right now she has none.
I noticed a while ago that Kenya is a manipulator. She’s also a huge liar. She’s playing all NeNe’s haters and they can’t even see it because they don’t want to be real and admit something stinks here and it ain’t just NeNe.
I’m still waiting for Kenya to admit her part in all of this.
You’ll be waiting forever. She never owns up to her ish.
But isn’t Peter the real opportunist? At least Todd isn’t spending all of Kandi’s money and throwing her money away on flop business ventures.
Yes!! Yes!! Yes! Peter is the opportunist and no one seems to say anything about that! I like Todd for Kandi! At least Todd isn’t using and spending up all his woman money like Peter is!
Cynthia messy? You don’t say! lol
We all saw Porsha get up and leave! No one was forced to stay there and fight. They all did it because they wanted to. Kenya can try to play like she’s innocent all she wants but I peeped game already. She gossiped her way into that mess with Natalie and Chris. Why is it her business if they are married or not?! She was about to get called out by Chris and she panicked and flipped the script real quick. But she ain’t fooling me.
Right…she didn’t give the man a chance to speak….
Because Chris knows Kenya from back in the day, and she knew the best way out of getting her business being put on front, was to deflect.
So why didn’t big and bad Kenya forward pedal to NeNe when she called her diaper booty? Kenya has nothing but internet courage. She is the wackest housewife the show has ever had.
Yasssssss!
What really annoys me about all of this is how Kenya is trying to use Brandon to garner sympathy from the LGBT community, but she made some HIV/gay prison sex remarks about Apollo. Why is no one outraged by that? And why does she get a pass for saying two black women (Phaedra and NeNe) look like men when it’s a common stereotype enforced by racists that black women look like men? And where was the outrage when Kenya threatened to knock Phaedra’s teeth out WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT? Or why were they not outraged when she tried to fight Porsha?! The double standards in favor of Kenya are sickening and it’s making me want to stop watching the show. At least everyone else has owned up to their actions. But not Kenya. Nope. She has no plans to and yet they want to get mad at NeNe for calling Brandon a queen. Ugh!
Thank you!!!!!
ALL OF THIS! You bring up great points that are valid.
What she is saying true…Whoa! Feel like I just read a story book. Girl sure can talk
Nice that u are wearing ur Big Girl Panties….U NEED TO STOP GETTING DIARRHEA OF THE MOUTH….telling…u did the same thing last season… Running to Kenya with everything u heared…FYI…NOBODY LIKES A SNITCH!
Why was Mal even there to begin with? That was just odd to me.
You are messy as hell, that you did tell the true and NeNe too is a hot mess and 2 faces, and that man looking sister sure have stay her broke butt @ home she can not even get a hotel who does that move in on her sister with a husband. and that drag queen Christopher Williams wife is messy as hell too, and Kenya she sure had kept her seat the whole show is rachet and low class and need to be taken off the air. we as the black race all we do is fight and at like our kids.