Cynthia Defends Stirring the Pot

Photo Credit: Bravo
Photo Credit: Bravo

By: Amanda Anderson-Niles

Cynthia Bailey has been called out by RHOA fans and even the other housewives because plenty of folks feel she stirred the pot when she brought up the Mr. Chocolate rumors during a housewives outing, but apparently Cynthia has no regrets and she feels it was the only fair thing to do.

She writes in her Bravo blog:

Bravotv.com: Were you surprised by Kenya’s emotional reaction to the Chocolate accusations?

Cynthia Bailey: Of course I was not surprised. I think she responded the way anyone would after having their character publicly assassinated for two years over similar accusations. Had Phaedra marked my life by broadcasting a worldwide whore campaign with no real facts (at least not from a credible source) without an apology (even after her clean man came clean), I would have been quite emotional as well. I passed this information along to Kenya, because I was naturally sympathetic to the hurt and pain she must have gone through as a result of these vicious claims. I thought that is was only fair that Kenya knew her accuser’s character was now being called into question. Ironically by the same source.

Bravotv.com: Did Phaedra’s reaction shock you?

CB: Yes it was very shocking to watch her stand up and lift her purse in a threatening way. Had the shoe been on the other foot (or in this case the purse in the other hand), Team Double Standard would have claimed that Phaedra was provoked, attacked, and of course let’s not forget blindsided.

…My intentions were to make Phaedra aware of what her husband told Peter, and it was not done with any judgment or malice. It has been pretty clear from Phaedra’s own mouth that she is over Apollo. Therefore, I do not regret telling her amongst our friends (that’s how we typically share information) and was actually surprised by her reaction. Is this the same lady that told Kandi that she would light up her husband with a 357 and use her own services to embalm him?

22 comments

  1. As uncomfortable as she was when she said it, it’s pretty obvious to me even Cynthia doesn’t believe what she did was right. She mumbled and had her head down because she knew she was being malicious. But I guess she will do whatever she needs to do to stay on RHOA.

  2. Cynthia gets on my last nerves with her trifling a-s. Bottom line she has to be this messy to keep her and Peter’s peach safe. The fact that she is trying defend her actions shows just how low and conniving she will get to stay on the show. She along with Claudia and Kenya have no story line so they have pick fights with Phaedra, Porsha, & NeNe. I don’t want to hear that BS the producers made her do it that’s such a cop out she knew what she was doing.

  3. I really don’t like Cynthia anymore. She does like Kenya and tries to pretend she’s never messy when she stirs the pot all the time.

  4. So it’s lies when Apollo did it to Krnua, but gospel when he did it to Phaedra? This b-tch is just twanging my last freaking nerve. She can’t even try to dig herself out the hole without falling back in. Ugh!!

  5. Girl just stop while you’re ahead. Anyone with sense can see she stirred the pot and I mean really, if she didn’t what storyline would she have this season? No one cares about her fallout with Nene anymore, and she’s always been boring. The only thing left for her to do now is Kenya’s strategy (create beefs and messiness because you have no career or life to bring to the show).

    1. Exactly! When Nene called her out outside she got quiet and had a dumb look on her face looking like a damn fool but now she bold writing in her blog tuh.

  6. Cynthia shut all the way up cause you could have pulled that woman to the side and not broadcast her business like that. And you so punkish you couldn’t even finish the story. Had to have mouth all mighty do it for you. If you cant finish what you start don’t start dummy. Yeah she is Kenya’s puppet.smh

  7. MAN I CAN’T WAIT TO PHAEDRA, NENE AND PORTIA GET CYNTHIA AT THE REUNION SHE REALLY COULDV’E TOLD PHAEDRA THAT CRAP IN PRIVATE. I MEAN IT CAME FR APOLLO AND WE ALL KNOW HOW MUCH OF A LIAR HE IS……ITS NOT PHAEDRA FAULT SHE BELIEVED HER HUSBAND IN THE 1ST PLACE……WASN’T LIKE KENYA WAS NOT FLIRTING AND ALLOWING APOLLO TO TOUCH HER BUTT IN THE POOL WHEN THEY WENT ON THAT ANGUILLA TRIP.

    AND KENYA NEEDS TO THINK LOGICALLY….DON’T NO1 WANT HER ROTTEN BUTT AROUND THEIR HUSBAND

  8. She needs to get a backbone and stop doing the dirty work of the stronger personalities (first Nene and now Kenya).

  9. Cynthia made some very good points. I’m glad she isn’t backing down to NeNe and the rest of Team Petty.

  10. It’s really funny how she was saying that the whore calling needs to stop…but I think tha Nene apoogized to Claudia on the bus. Dumb a-s Kandi apologized for everyone else for thinking that Kenya was whore. Cynthia and Peter apologized for thinking she was a whore. Apollo apologized for lying to everyone but not for calling her a whore. Let’s see I think I got all the apologies out. Now who brought up the whore again…Cynthia, Kenya and Claudia.

    But she feel that she was within her right to bring it up again. This is so ludacris. She wasn’t even one to be called a whore so if Kenya wanted to come to a cat fight then why wasn’t she the one who scratched with her paws first? Cynthia it doesn’t matter how you look at this, you are messy and scary.

  11. She’s been looking real tired and cheap lately. I guess switching teams has taken a toll on her.

    1. She’s going to cry and of course it doesn’t matter how many times Nene has apologized to a person or agreed to disagree, Kenya, Cynthia and Claudia will always bring up the old shigidy as if it means anything now. It’s them who keep dwelling on the past stuff because they have no story so they will ride it until something come credible.

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