Domestic Violence Victims Call out Tahiry Jose + Some Viewers Are Boycotting 'Marriage Boot Camp'
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Domestic Violence Victims Call out Tahiry Jose + Some Viewers Are Boycotting ‘Marriage Boot Camp’

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Tahiry and Vado’s relationship went left.

Marriage Boot Camp” just wrapped up an eventful season. While there was plenty of drama from all of the couples, Tahiry and Vado’s situation is the most controversial. Both came on the show to see if their “situationship” could become a serious relationship. They had been friends for about ten years and becoming intimate made them want more. However, Tahiry became furious after she found out Vado is also close to his baby momma. And they talk a lot. In fact, he may actually confide in her more than Tahiry. So Tahiry accused Vado of having an emotional affair.

Things would really escalate when they participated in a shock therapy exercise.

Tahiry didn’t like that Vado shocked her multiple times. However, the couples were told to shock their partners when they did any of the toxic behaviors that they listed as issues in the relationship.

After the exercise ended, Tahiry threw two apples at Vado, hitting him in the face.

Vado was expelled from the house.

He was outraged and would later snatch her up after Tahiry told the others that he was making her seem aggressive to everyone else. To Vado, it seemed as if Tahiry was blaming him for her actions.

Regardless, Dr. Ish and Judge Toler felt it was Vado who needed to be held responsible. He was escorted out of the house and he had to complete the rest of the boot camp in a hotel. By the end of the season, Tahiry would keep the ring for herself instead of giving it to Vado. She spoke about self-love and she said Vado should have just thrown apples back at her if he was upset.

Interestingly enough, fans of the show have been vocal about their disgust with the situation. And some domestic violence victims also called out Tahiry and the show on social media.

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  1. Anonymous

    September 4, 2020 at 11:19 am

    This show has really become awful. I don’t like how Tahiry did things but I’m more disgusted by the producers, Dr. Ish, and Judge Toler. They know better. This situation as well as the Kurupt situation were not handled well. Then they have these fake couples come on the show for ratings so we already know this show isn’t about healing anymore. I’m really getting tired of reality television. All of it is toxic now.

    • Max

      September 4, 2020 at 7:02 pm

      Why has no one talked about how every man sat there and let the dude choke a female and not one tryed to help her or correct him. That should have been addressed

      • Meg

        September 4, 2020 at 7:18 pm

        Probably the same reason they sat there and watched Tahiry assault him multiple times and said and did nothing 🤷🏾‍♀️. That should have been addressed.

      • Mo

        September 5, 2020 at 1:34 am

        Double standard…… women choosing to ignore the men in that room who did nothing

      • Jesmenda

        September 5, 2020 at 7:49 pm

        Also those same men nor did the body guards stop or even acknowledge she started the whole situation. Being hit in the head with apples is like being hit with a base ball or rock, no sympathy for an abuser man or women

    • DIANE

      September 4, 2020 at 9:27 pm

      Your right me 2

    • Momma DEE

      September 5, 2020 at 12:43 am

      I feel all those that ruined about boycott and to Harry is wrong someone said if she didn’t do what she did he wouldn’t have been provoked to do what he did to her b******* whether she provoked him or not gave him no right to throw his hands at her around her neck just think if she wasn’t on national TV she probably be dead or mentally f***** up I’m also a woman that has been abused and more ways than any of the stories that I read on you guys and I’m the real Mama Dee but to me it’s b******* you don’t know what that woman has been through for Apple she did nothing wrong and for another abused woman or man to write something to come back on her again because of what he did is unacceptable as an abused woman none of the stories that I read has anything to what I’ve been through to Harry was not wrong she was not playing a victim she has been the victim if you guys paid attention all her life how well can you sleep

      • Kay

        September 5, 2020 at 7:40 pm

        Full that of course he should not have choked her but I don’t care what she been thru its sill no reason to throw f-cking apples period!!!

      • Memphis

        September 6, 2020 at 10:53 am

        You are so wrong. Basically what you are saying is that it’s ok to abuse a man and wrong for him to retaliate. No man should be held responsible for any women passing another man. She should have never got into another relationship until she heal from the last. You are definitely sending the wrong message to women.

  2. Ross

    September 4, 2020 at 11:27 am

    I am a man that has NO RESPECT for men that beat woman….however i use to like Tihary until seeing her on this season of MBC…she was definitely OUT OF ORDER for assaulting Wado with them HARD apples at close range…Tihary should have been held accountable for her ABUSE as well…i miss the OR3 couple that started MBC…Dr Ish handled this ALL WRONG..I too may be done watching.

    • Pamela Walton

      September 5, 2020 at 7:16 pm

      I totally agree with you . We want equality but it seems that we as women tend to want to be treated differently when it comes to owning up to our own short comings . I don’t and will never condone a man hitting a woman ; however I think that there should be laws in place that tells a woman that if she doesn’t want to get hit , she should also not hit . It doesn’t matter who can do the most damage . Women need to be reprimanded also . If you commit the same crime , then you should get the same punishment . Reality TV is turning out to be not so real . Producers need to know when to step in and stop the madness, instead of gunning for ratings at any cost . Nobody even questioned if Vado was hurt when Tahiry hit him with those apples . She didn’t toss them , she seem to throw them with all her might ; as though she were really trying to hurt him .
      Women are women but we give birth to sons . How would you as a parent have reacted if she had put one of his eyes out or put him in a coma ? Why should the abuse of a man by a woman be treated any differently ?
      Would the world act differently if she had shot him ?
      Abuse is still abuse even if it’s a scratch or a bite .
      If you don’t want it done to you , then don’t do it to someone else .

      • Ross

        September 5, 2020 at 10:41 pm

        PERIOD!!!!!! I agree 100%

  3. TeTe G

    September 4, 2020 at 11:41 am

    I said this bullsh-t as well. I was furious that Tahiry did not get reprimanded for her actions. What she did was abuse and assault. Not only did she verbally abuse him, she assaulted him as well. She’s damaged goods, but could be counseled. She’s needs outside therapy. They basically enabled her to continue to do what she does. She’s gonna continue to do this because they showed her it was ok and it’s not. Abuse is not cool from either genders…Period!

  4. Anonymous

    September 4, 2020 at 12:30 pm

    Any man with sense would stay far away from Tahiry.

    • 404

      September 4, 2020 at 1:45 pm


    • Angela Clacks

      September 5, 2020 at 5:07 pm

      I thought I was tripping each episode I was thinking oh they will address her and what she did,but instead they made her feel it was his fault and she did nothing wrong. I tell you this if a mf throw 2 or 3 apples at my face i would have probably smacked her on the spot. She humiliated that man and f-cked his face up .but i guess she a pretty princess who deserves to get away with such bullsh-t. I did not like this season I wanted too but tahiry and corrupt ruined that. And they coulda left out Hazel muppet baby face they were annoying

  5. Laila

    September 4, 2020 at 12:46 pm

    You expect an actual psychiatrist to know an abusive woman when he sees her. Not make her out to be a victim.

  6. Donna

    September 4, 2020 at 12:54 pm

    Tahiry is not some role model nor is she “every woman.” She’s a toxic abuser and manipulative opportunist using something as serious as domestic violence for relevance. This season was shameful.

  7. Vee

    September 4, 2020 at 1:36 pm

    Tahiry needs help. She thinks there’s nothing wrong with her violence. That’s dangerous.

  8. Morethanhecanhandle

    September 4, 2020 at 3:45 pm

    She had no business hitting him with those apples and the show knows that. He reacted after the shock of being hit and hit hard too she hit him with force and y’all seen that point blank. He should file charges against her but we know how men are f that press charges on her frfr

  9. Chenell Todd

    September 4, 2020 at 8:16 pm

    This was disgusting to watch, Tahiry was very aggressive and abusive….I saw this Vado unraveling and no one had his back when she violently three those hard a-s apples at his face humiliation at it’s finest!!! Vado was treated like a criminal, this girl was not in any danger, they both should have been given the same consequences pont blank and a period!!!!

    • Christine Johnson

      September 4, 2020 at 11:10 pm

      I feel the same way. Tahiry mentally and physically abused Vado. He followed the rules when he shocked her. She has a mouth on her that just won’t quit. If the Bible says not to provoke a child to anger don’t you know you definitely can’t provoke a grown man or woman.

  10. J

    September 5, 2020 at 3:43 am

    Prior to watchin this show i was in love with tahiry but after seein how how toxic she is its understandable why she is single at 40. Im totally against men putting there hands on a woman but the same rules should apply for men as well. This show promoted a double standard and i no longer will watch it. What was the purpose of even keeping him on just to act like he was criminal. Tahiry started that situaion and then played victim. Seems like she did the same thing with joe budden. Seeems like she chasin a check based on clout

  11. Pooh

    September 5, 2020 at 10:33 am

    Shameful she provocateur that man in every way she could and didnt care. To me she is not a victim it’s obvious she not scared of him she hit him with those apples. She need to stop pretending to be a victim and sit down. I honestly thought she was cool but now she just a manipulative liar we all saw the show. I wont be watching this anymore. As well as anything else with Tahiry in the cast.

  12. Glenn

    September 5, 2020 at 6:15 pm

    I won’t watch again this is so word . Stop playing the victim when you start bs. And because of your gender don’t give anyone a pass. Keep your hands to yourself and walk away Period

  13. Jesmenda

    September 5, 2020 at 8:04 pm

    Ish and toler don’t even deserve their titles, to enable and abuser and act like this man wasn’t abused mentally and physically until he snapped. I used to love Tahiry but she is abusive not a victim, and the fact that they act like him getting hit with apple point blank multiple times he was not a big deal what if he got a concussion?? They didn’t even have him checked out.. Like this whole season was torture, and to be so sexist. Like men cannot be abused or sexual assaulted that’s pretty much what they were saying by treating her as the victim even though she through those hard as rock apple. Men can also be the victim, my question is if he would’ve thrown 2-3 apples point blank to her head and she choked him who would be the victim?? Double standards at its finest

  14. Princess moore

    September 6, 2020 at 1:14 am

    I believe it goes both ways. If Dr Ish and the rest of the producers had reprimanded Tahiry and let her know that that type of behavior is unacceptable Vado wouldn’t have had a chance to retaliate. Their lack of action led to him putting his hands on her which shouldn’t have happened. MBC is sending out the message that abuse is ok as long as the woman is the one doing it. MBC chose to ignore her horrible behavior and let her play victim. She should have been put out the house the second she assaulted him by throwing those apples. Tahiry is an abuser and not a victim.

  15. Shorty

    September 6, 2020 at 7:46 pm

    I’m so disappointed with Dr.Ish and Judge Lynn Toler. I will never watch your show again. Tahiry started the whole situation and Vado just reacted and Tahiry was never corrected and yet Vado went to a hotel. Tahiry is a very toxic individual but yet the show acted like she was a victim of domestic abuse.

  16. TionaC

    September 8, 2020 at 4:47 am

    Ultimately this is why there is alot of ANGRY BLACK MEN why does society like to make JUSTIFICATIONS for them being abused? At the end of the day we are ALL HUMAN BEINGS before anything. So just because GOD made a choice to put Vado in a man’s body he has to tolerate abuse? This is crazy that yall saying who cares if she threw 2 apples at him? Are men not able to be victims of domestic violence? How do we as women want our men to open up emotionally when they get treated as if their rights as HUMAN BEINGS DONT MATTER whenever we are in our emotions? How do you want RESPECT when you dont give it? How as an ADULT do u want someone to take accountability when you won’t because GOD decided to put you in a different body then the person you are asking of these things? I have both a son and daughter and they are very respectful kind hearted human beings and BOTH OF THEIR PHYSICAL,MENTAL, AND EMOTIONAL STATE MATTERS EQUALLY. I refuse to raise an entitled daughter who will feel she can mentally or physically abuse a man because of the double standard BS society puts out on men victims of domestic violence. And my son WILL know HIS PHYSICAL, MENTAL, AND EMOTIONAL BEING matters just as much as a my daughter’s or any female.

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