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Traci Braxton’s Husband Reveals What She Needs from Toni Braxton to Start Healing Process

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Traci and Tamar’s relationship fell apart on BFV.

Fans of “Braxton Family Values” are fully aware of the contentious relationships between the Braxton sisters. In fact, last season was an explosive one. Things got much worse between Traci Braxton and Tamar Braxton. During Tamar’s birthday getaway, the sisters had a heated conversation. And Traci ended up telling Tamar that she makes it hard for people to love her. As for Tamar, she feels as if Traci refuses to move on from the past. So that makes it impossible for the sisters to ever get in a good place.

Traci just feels like issues from the past and the current prove that she doesn’t truly have any support from her sisters. And she doesn’t think things can be resolved until that issue is addressed.

David gets involved.

So when Towanda Braxton’s boyfriend Sean Hall tried to help the sisters mend things last season, Traci wasn’t feeling this. She called out Towanda and said that Sean didn’t know enough about the situation to get involved the way he did.

While some fans of the show figured the sisters could at least work things out while the show is currently in hiatus from airing on television, apparently things have worsened. And Tamar allegedly revealed that things got violent between family members. It’s also looking as if Tamar and Traci still aren’t on good terms.

Interestingly enough, Tamar’s ex-boyfriend David Adefeso attempted to help mend the relationship between Tamar and Traci on “Get Ya Life.” He did so by secretly meeting with Traci’s husband Kevin Surrat. And Kevin had a lot to say.

Click next for the details. 

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  1. Blackrose

    September 25, 2020 at 1:05 pm

    Tracy is not a strong singer and maybe thats why it was so easy to let her go. Right or wrong. Toni and Tamar are the only ones with voices strong enough to carry a group.
    Anywho. Hopefully they work it out. It was 20something years ago

    • Carol Evans

      September 25, 2020 at 4:40 pm

      It doesn’t matter. If she sounds like a Braxton or Minnie Mouse. They should have had her back as a sister and had things explained to her. I pray that Traci gets over this. Toni lost everything once but not before her sickness. Not Traci. Tamar is bipolar, has been in an abusive relationship and can’t keep a man just like Toni. Ive not heard of Traci going bankrupt nor being abused by a man. Family can hurt you to the core. Traci needs to realize that she’s better off and richer than any of their millions.I pray that Traci sees this and it helps her to reevaluate her purpose in life. Blessing to Traci and her family.

      • Idele m dawson

        September 25, 2020 at 9:25 pm

        I totally 💯 agree with you Carol Evans, its not about who is the strongest singer, its the blend of the harmony these sisters bring. Traci, yr far more richer and blessed than yr sisters in many ways, wishing yr happiness and blessings

        • Lynn Mallory-Smith

          September 29, 2020 at 9:31 am

          Disrespect should never be tolerated. Tamar is disrespectful to everyone except Toni. She proved it during the sessions with Ms Vanzant. I think she gets it from Ms E. Mama never got over Braxton leaving her. She pushed that off on her girls except for Traci who stayed close to her Dad. That has had a profound effect on these ladies and their relationships with men. Read between the lines. A lot of disfunction and everyone needs counseling off air. Life is too short for this mess. These are grown women.

      • Idele m dawson

        September 25, 2020 at 9:29 pm

        Amen to that 🙏 🙏

      • alima Rogers

        September 25, 2020 at 11:53 pm

        I’m with you. Through the season’s of the show unless you’re blind you can see that they treat her differently that includes her mother. They put on a front but you can see that they feel they’re
        better than traci if my family treated me like that i too would be angry I don’t care how long ago it started I would leave them alone. They seem to be just for self.

        • Khris

          September 26, 2020 at 7:40 pm

          What do they do to treat her differently , specifically? I keep seeing ppl say that but nobody has given an example.

          • Rchamp

            September 26, 2020 at 9:24 pm

            They never support her. She has had numerous shows and not one of them show up. Toni, when asked by a therapist what Traci should work on she said her weight because it’s unhealthy; that’s not emotional that’s superficial and it was rude. Tamar talks crazy to her all he time. Trina and Towanda treat her well, but at the end of the day they are going to side with Toni and Tamar. They never ask Traci how she’s doing, what’s going on in her life, the relationship is superficial and distant. Traci is expected to attend any event no matter where she is or what she is doing. If you watch the show you can tell the diffetence.

      • Gloria Moore

        September 26, 2020 at 2:20 am


        • Anna Marie Downey

          September 26, 2020 at 6:46 pm

          Tamar is a brat and forgets they are sisters and that should always come first but she only thinks of her self grow up


        September 26, 2020 at 1:38 pm

        So True!💯💯

      • Ge Dixon

        September 27, 2020 at 10:14 am

        Amen Amen….You are so on point. Traci is richer than they could ever be and that could be the real issue. She choose family, they chose fame and she is still with her choice. They have struggled in theirs.

      • Giselle t. Holmes

        September 27, 2020 at 12:47 pm

        I agree 💯 Traci have always been my favorite as I admire all the sisters Traci is my favorite because she is the most authentic and real out of them all. and I believe not judging mind you I just believe she has the softest heart and they do at times take advantage of that.i think they really don’t give Traci the respect as they do their other sisters.
        I pray for them all that they can really once and for all and forever get on the same page.

    • Jo A Rhodes

      September 25, 2020 at 6:39 pm

      I agree with what you said. You saved me some typing time.

    • Gloria

      September 25, 2020 at 7:44 pm

      Tracy voice not the problem it’s Tamar it always been tamar what’s to out shine all her sister just like she try to out sing Toni she has to much mouth in everything let someone else get in front and have a voice

      • Idele m dawson

        September 25, 2020 at 9:33 pm

        I had have had it with Tamar and her ghetto, spoiled, childish ways🤐😠

        • Tiffani A Young

          September 26, 2020 at 6:49 pm

          Tamar does need to quit acting like a spoiled brat. The family & people have had it with her.

          • Crystal Burrell

            September 28, 2020 at 8:09 am

            Maybe if they make an album together, she will feel better about her relationship with her sisters and kind of make up for what happened years ago.

        • Trudy Hu

          September 28, 2020 at 9:35 pm

          Well change the channel

      • Chels

        October 18, 2020 at 7:40 am

        Actually, she doesn’t “try” to outside Toni. Toni said on the show that Tamar just happens to have the best vocals out of everyone. That’s not HER fault lmbo

    • Kaye

      September 25, 2020 at 9:07 pm

      I have always felt like Tamar is too much. She always wants to be the center of attention. She never understands anyone else’s point of view. Tracie has a beautiful voice. I think they are all equally talented. I would never have left my sister on the Sidelines like that. I would have said take us all or none of us. my sister is my very best friend So if we earn an opportunity together We would enjoy it together.

    • Idele m dawson

      September 25, 2020 at 9:28 pm

      Black Rose its not about who is the strongest singer, they all harming together as sisters. Hope they can bring themselves together again n stop being so petty and childish

    • Jamie Nark

      September 25, 2020 at 10:55 pm

      Wow, you missed everything Kevin aS actually saying. He explained clearly that Traci needs support from her family. Call her, show her respect & believe in her. He only said the contract issue is the root but everything else has grown from that root. None of them are as supportive as Trina towards Traci. And Tamar only respects Toni because she wants to be like her.I don’t think it matters how long ago something happened, you still need what you need to move forward & let it go. And if you have mastered moving on from every core hurt, congratulations.

    • C'the

      September 25, 2020 at 11:58 pm

      Tay Tay i love her to bit, but she need to stop being childish at some point, so just because the siblings didn’t pitch 4 turkey day, or what ever reason that might be and now y’all not 👄? She needs to Communicate and ask questions regarding situations, life is too short to be mad at each other for something so silly!(WE the views of BFV loves u guyz) To be quite honest she looks every lonely without her family. She need to install some listening skills in her and less 👄 and allow what it’s being said to her to process, and allow it to sink in.not everything is about being right or wrong, it about understand one another. No shades at all, from 1 woman to another.❤❤❤❤❤❤Tamar

    • Carman Josey

      September 26, 2020 at 12:15 am

      What gives Tamar the right to disrespect her older sister? Manners is what’s missing from this equation. Yes, Toni needs to talk to her younger sister’s and get them all in ✔. #BigSisterRealLove

    • Enough Y'all!

      September 26, 2020 at 2:07 am

      These women need to really just grow the F. up all ready. Every season it’s the same BS. Day in, day out. Personal issues with this one, self esteem problems with that one, childhood dilemmas with her & career letdowns with that one. Enough! Dang aren’t y’all grown up yet?!?! When is moving on and letting God be Good Enough?!? Seriously, I think all of them are bipolar, sick misguided souls! Enough! Move Along! Let God figure this out but, meanwhile, be good to eachother, Life is Way Too Short for all this Life-Burden-Craziness! FR y’all! This would literally make you go Bonkers!

    • Monique

      September 26, 2020 at 11:37 am

      Tracy, is acting very childish. You made a decision to keep your child be happy with it that’s the entertainment business for you. Why are you bringing your sisters for something that has nothing to do with them? They were entertainers didn’t know they had contracts to sign for years and a lot of them probably put their personal life behind to go make that money. Don’t hate

      • Luna

        September 26, 2020 at 7:55 pm

        Thank youuu!!! I’m so tired of hearing people coddle her grown a-s. She made a decision and decisions have consequences sometimes. It irritates me that nobody sees how selfish she is to think they should have given up their dreams all because she got pregnant. So basically, if she can’t live her dream then nobody should be able to. Also, she’s admitted that she pulled away from the family after that yet they expect the sisters to call and do all this stuff when SHE chose to be distant. It seems like nobody wants to hold Traci accountable bc they feel sorry for her bc all she does, literally since season one, is pity and feel sorry for herself. She used to be one of my favs but I got tired of her whining abt the same thing over and over.

    • Looloo

      September 26, 2020 at 12:35 pm

      I’m glad somebody finally said it Although she is very good, she is not on par with Toni and Tamar. None of them are… doesn’t take away from their talents.. but Toni and Tamar are very gifted STRONG singers. Their sisters are pleasant singers..but not Powerhouses like Tamar and Toni. Tamar will not rise to legendary status like Toni because all the negative drama. Toni is far more humble too.

    • Khris

      September 26, 2020 at 7:38 pm

      Right. Traci has the weakest voice of them all and she’s also the least talented as it pertains to the entertainment business itself. She would not be thriving had it not been for her last name.

      • Jessie

        September 27, 2020 at 2:32 pm

        First of all better said then done Traci have the right to feel how she wants as long as she wants She the one looks more like the mother Toni and Tamar treats her like she not there sister so don’t state something unless you have felt it to boom..ur

    • Denise Benjamin

      September 26, 2020 at 8:50 pm

      Traci sings just fine

    • Zach Singletary

      October 1, 2020 at 8:41 am

      People always tell Traci left her trauma go but never says that Tamar needs to let her trauma go. Unlike Tamar Traci hasn’t said nasty things to her sisters or their husbands so I don’t get why Traci is treated so horribly yet they tolerate Tamar who degrades everybody

  2. Queen

    September 25, 2020 at 1:22 pm

    Traci has been hurting for a long time. I hope she gets peace someday. And I hope this family can work out their issues. It’s sad to see a family so broken. None of them seem happy.

  3. Tea

    September 25, 2020 at 2:59 pm

    The whole family needs therapy in my opinion. And not on TV.

    • Denise

      September 25, 2020 at 5:20 pm


  4. Chelly

    September 25, 2020 at 3:31 pm

    Sad situation all around.

    • K

      September 25, 2020 at 4:03 pm

      Tracy is the strongest sister who probably was the one who took up for her sisters and they did not have her back like she had theres Tracy you weren’t chosen because that’s not like the creator had for you . Look at toni look at tamar your sister Tamar almost lost her dam mind being fake and talking about everybody and not looking so the creator had to humble her . She lost family and friends because how treated everyone to become famous . She put everybody on blast except herself . Toni is fake to because she goes with the flow . Tracy you did not get picked because you are the chosen one .

      • Patsy placencia

        September 25, 2020 at 5:19 pm

        Traci needs to quit feeling sorry for herself . If it wasn’t for toni. All those sister’s would be nothing.!!!!!! So toni had ups and downs . Who dsnt . I love her she’s amazing. She the rock .

        • Nancy

          September 25, 2020 at 6:34 pm

          Traci you rock! You have a husband who loves and supports you. You and your husband have a beautiful family. God has truly blessed you.

        • DENISE

          September 25, 2020 at 7:05 pm

          God made them not Toni. Really?

          • Veronica

            September 25, 2020 at 7:50 pm

            Thank you.

        • Veronica

          September 25, 2020 at 7:49 pm

          Excuse me? Everyone is something. Everyone is somebody. Everyone matters. Everyone is valuable. No human is responsible for someone else’s worth to the world. I really wonder about some of you on here.

        • Kholi

          September 26, 2020 at 8:14 am

          Well said. I Love Traci, but now she needs to let the past be the past, Toni has always been there for all them, Tamar is too much and too childish, always want attention….Toni is their rock what they all failing to see is with their drama is that they are hurting Toni because she has tried everything she could to make them what they are, but I feel like they taking her for granted, I think Toni has a heart of gold and loves all of them. Traci needs to move on, Tamar needs to grow.

        • Khris

          September 26, 2020 at 7:57 pm

          She’s been feeling sorry for herself since season one and now everybody feels sorry for her. She takes no accountability for her own actions.

      • Idele m dawson

        September 25, 2020 at 9:36 pm

        Correct! FAMILY 1ST

  5. Esther K Farris

    September 25, 2020 at 6:58 pm

    I don’t think she is the rock(money hungry). They all turn their back on Tracey. Several episodes back the only thing Toni said was Tracey. You need to lose weight are you drunk? She never said a word to trena who was arrested for being drunk. Evelyn treats her bad to. Look back at those episodes. She doesn’t care for Tracy because she is close to her dad..

    • Ms. B

      September 26, 2020 at 12:15 am

      I believe their issues may have started before the contract, I think the contract proved to Tracy that she wasn’t included in their sisterhood. It’s sad to see a family divided and critical of each other. Tracy is the only sister who’s still with her husband and blessings come in many forms. She may never get the acceptance and support she wants from her sisters but at least she has a family of her own that seems to love her unconditionally. I pray they can find healing and happiness or move on in Peace.

  6. Margo

    September 25, 2020 at 7:36 pm

    Toni and Tamar look down on all their sisters why I dont know they both need to learn to not be so snobbish and Traci do need to leave the past in the past

  7. Lauren

    September 25, 2020 at 8:47 pm

    They all need healing and kindness. Let’s stop putting down one to uplift another. I pray this family is able to fix all their problems.

  8. Sandy Matteo

    September 25, 2020 at 10:14 pm

    Sorry to say this but Miss Evelyn plays a Huge part into the disharmony of the sisters, moms have a vital role in teaching siblings how to love and support one another, it starts as small children,she does not do this,I do hope they all heal

  9. Lele

    September 25, 2020 at 10:23 pm

    The reason Traci has been an outcast from the family is because she chose to stay neutral as a child should when parent’s divorce. The mother could have nipped the contentions between these women long ago. But she refused because she too is still bitter that her husband moved on and remarried, and Traci continued to love and respect her Father as she should. However, the rest of the sister’s jumped on their Mother’s bandwagon with hating their father. It is deeper than this whole I was left out of the group thing. It’s sad when a mother is so bitter, that she too turns her back on her daughter for continuing to love her Father. That entire family needs intense in-house therapy. You can tell it goes deeper than that B.S. their showing in the public.

    • Ms. B

      September 26, 2020 at 12:27 am

      I agree the contract didn’t cause the division within their sisterhood. Mrs. Evelyn was too busy hating her ex husband for cheating and marrying when she should have focused on keeping what’s left of her family together. I wonder if they were ever close or just tolerated each other. Life is too short for these long term grudges and professional therapy could be beneficial but you have to choose to win.

      • Lvlyldy55

        September 26, 2020 at 10:15 am


  10. CPeezy

    September 25, 2020 at 10:28 pm

    They are all super talented, that goes without question. But they have ALL forgotten where they came from and how far they have come. They need to get back to there roots, get back grounded. Instead of being so selfish, stubborn & simple they need to uplift each other. Look for each other’s good qualities then focus on that. Love each other, you all you got ladies, don’t forget that. Tracey is the most loyal and most level headed of them all. She’s past her breaking point with all of them. Stay strong Traey and continue to lead by example and be the treasure of the family.

  11. Maja

    September 26, 2020 at 2:49 am

    If I was Traci, I would cut all of them but Trina off to be honest.

  12. Ms. V

    September 26, 2020 at 7:15 am

    Toni has always been the glue that holds these sisters together. If it wasn’t for Toni none of them would be known or where they are today. Toni never wanted to do the reality show but the network wouldn’t do the show without her and they should have listened. Putting family business on display for everyone to chime in with their 2 cents worth is never good. The networks always want drama to be put out front to keep the viewers watching so that the money keeps rolling in. It has broken this family apart. Tamar will never be a Toni. I’m sorry but she doesn’t have Toni’s class, voice or style and she wants too much attention which is never a good thing. Keep your head up Tracie. Your family loves you. Love you Toni. Your sisters owe you girl. I hope they appreciate all that you’ve done for them.

  13. Betty

    September 26, 2020 at 9:16 am

    Tracy needs to speak to someone about this. She has been carrying this for over 20 years! You cannot change the past & they apologized to her about & she still can’t come to terms with it. She has to find a way to move on & let God be her guiding path. None of the other sisters (besides Toni & Tamar) have successful musical careers, so she should count her blessings that she has her husband, her son & grandson.

    • Ariel

      September 30, 2020 at 1:01 am

      Thank you! She needs to process this herself. Her sisters shouldn’t have to keep apologizing.

  14. Tywanda Golden

    September 26, 2020 at 11:44 am

    Honestly, I have never watched the show however I know you are unable to be anything to anyone until you are whole. No one is perfect (Love isn’t either) and WE ARE ALL a work in progress. In any relationship, once respect is gone all other things follow. I too hope things work out for the better for each of them. TIME is precious and is something you can never get back.

  15. Luna

    September 26, 2020 at 7:51 pm

    When is Traci going to grow up? She’s d-mn near 50 beating the same dead horse and playing victim as if she’s completely innocent. Used to like her but she has gotten so annoying. Not to mention, it’s completely selfish of Traci to expect her sisters to give up their dreams because of HER decision to have unprotected sex, knowing the consequences.. People also fail to realize that the industry didn’t want ANY of the sisters, just Toni, so how could she possibly expect them to take the “if my sister doesn’t sign, none of us will” stance when they had zero leverage? She’s too d-mn old to be a professional victim from something that happened like 30 years ago. Get over it Traci and stop acting like you don’t play a part in yalls strained relationship. She admitted that SHE pulled away from them after the contract signing dispute so she’s as much to blame as them. Y’all need to stop making that old a-s woman a victim. She also projects her own insecurities onto them, as well. She takes no accountability.

    • Ariel Simon

      September 30, 2020 at 1:03 am

      Yaaaassss to all of this! I couldn’t have said it better. I am tired of her complaining about this. It must be for television purposes that this keeps coming up for her.

  16. Savannah

    September 26, 2020 at 8:02 pm

    I think it’s insensitive to say Traci needs to get over anything. I have a sister and I would never put her in that situation Traci was placed in. My faith in God would prevent me from ever being desperate enough to do that to my blood. Trust and believe there’s always another opportunity out there that won’t require you to hurt your family. In the end, they did what they did to Traci and their careers still ended up nowhere until this reality show. Probably would have turned out differently if they were patient and waited for a better opportunity that didn’t require making that kind of decision. I don’t play about my sister. I’ll sacrifice her for no one. And truth be told, Traci isn’t the only one hurting. They all are. Therapy is needed.

  17. Murielp

    September 27, 2020 at 9:11 am

    I think you have a talented group of women in Fame and Fortune is separated their relationship these women were brought up in the church each one of them need to pick up their Bible and read it because once they became in the world the Bible said be in the world but not of the world and that’s what happened to these ladies God bless them all I hope they can find closure tracing all I can say to you is that there’s nothing you can do about the past to go back and change it but you take a good look at your life you have family your sisters your husband son who loves your grandbaby who loves you that’s far greater than any riches you can ever buy and don’t let that kind of hurt consume your life and take away the beauty of your family at home love your family forgive your sisters all of you know that God says if you can’t forgive one another he can’t forgive you and be at peace with one another

  18. kimberly

    September 27, 2020 at 2:03 pm

    Sometimes you have to learn to love some family members from a distance. Just because you share a bloodline does not mean that someone is automatically healthy for you or to you. Traci should celebrate her blessings and find her joy in them. Surrounding herself in pains of the past only causes her to miss the gifts that are being presented to her currently. It seems like all of them are living an image of a life to some degree or another. I wish healing for all of them!

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