By: Amanda Anderson-Niles
T-Pain made a recent appearance on “The Arsenio Hall Show,” and he of course discussed making music with his signature auto tune sound and he even revealed how he has been able to keep his 11-year marriage intact too.
Interestingly enough, T-Pain says he and his wife keep their marriage strong by inviting other people into their bedroom. He says:
“We involve other people in our marriage sometimes. Sometimes we have extraordinary partners. And we like to travel around the world and go to different strip clubs to see what those are about and things like that. And sometimes the employees…we like to see what those are about too.
“It keeps it fun. It keeps it real nice and fun.”
T-Pain has always been very honest about his non traditional marriage and he claims the freedom to involve other people is keeping his marriage to his wife Amber Najm together. However, he’s always stressed that they do not sleep with other people separately and have agreed to only do it together. And according to T-Pain and Amber, they are not swingers and they do not consider their marriage to be an “open” one because of their rules.
Check out T-Pain singing without auto tune and talking about his rather interesting marriage below:
And also check out his live performance of “Up Down”:
I feel like if you have to sleep with other people, you shouldn’t be married.
Exactly! T-Pain is a damn trip! LOL!
He sounds so much better without auto tune. I wonder why he uses it.
Then why even be married?
I like T-Pain, but I don’t get how his marriage works. If he needs to bring other people into the bedroom, them maybe marriage just isn’t for him. No one said marriage is required. It’s a choice and it’s not for everybody. If you’re not willing to forsake all others, then don’t get married. I also know that he had a child outside his marriage before they agreed to do this whole sharing thing. So yeah, maybe marriage isn’t really cut out for him.
I honestly agree. Some people get married because they feel like they have to and it’s really not cut out for them. And I think that’s one of the reasons the divorce rate is so high here. Marriage is something you have t commit too and most don’t.
I wish a ninja would ask me to share our bed with skrippers. Chile BYE.
Honey, the locks would be changed and he would be picking his teeth off the floor.
*blank stare*
Why does he use autotune? He has a great voice!
Notice how he said people and never said women. I wonder if he plays for both teams…
To each its own but I’m not sharing my spouse intentionally…nope. Too many STDs out here and break babies as it is.
It trips me out how some married people want to act single so bad. The hell you get married for?
I’ve never understood “marriages” like these.
Oh wow he can really sing. Who knew? :-/
The hell? It’s obvious your wife doesn’t please you enough by herself in the bedroom so you feel the need to include others! People who have no business getting married have mocked its whole purpose. Ugh…
Well if you’re inviting other chicks to your bedroom, that’s an open marriage. And I doubt he doesn’t sleep with other women by himself when his wife isn’t around. Who does he think he’s fooling? This is the same man that is so bored with his wife that he needs guests to be in attendance. But hey, do you boos! LOL.
Another married couple who doesn’t take their own vows seriously.
I guess if it works for them what can I say
No bueno. I can’t agree to his marriage life, but I still like his music! 🙂
What happened to forsake all others?
Definitely something I wouldn’t do but I’m not married to him. I guess that’s what works best for them.
I love T-Pain, I love his music. He has a beautiful voice with or without auto tune. I don’t agree with what him and his wife do to keep his marriage up. I can understand that his wife is a lesbian so that is part of why they do it that way, I won’t.., but if that’s what works for them then so be it. Do what you have to do, right? An ex of mine wanted to have a relationship like this with me and we wasn’t even married, plus I’m not into other women. We had to part ways because if I didn’t agree to it I felt like he would do it behind my back anyway and I wasn’t having that so he got the boot.
His wife is doing and and everything to keep this man from leaving her. I bet u his tune would change if it was another man pounding his wife in the bedroom -_-
Right! I really like T-Pain but I have to wonder if he’s willing to let another man in his bedroom to for his wife’s sake. I doubt it. LOL.
Who would sleep with him? He looks too grimey!
You mean his wife wants to sleep with other people? To my understanding…she prefers women.
1. Marriage is not always about monogomy or sex with only that person forever. It actually doesn’t mean that by definition.
2. We don’t know what vows they took at their wedding. For all we know, the vows could’ve been open marriage vows.
3. I think that it’s sweet that he can be slutty (like most men end up being anyways) without it considered cheating and causing issues in the marriage & she can live out her sexy lesbian fantasies (like a lot of women have but don’t want to be real and admit) without it considered cheating causing issues in the marriage as well. They can be themselves and free with one another. That’s a closeness ignorant, old fashioned, conditional loving people will never be able to understand.
The power of unconditional love trumps sex always baby.