In a recent interview, when asked why she took Waka back, Tammy reveals that she thinks it’s weak for women to leave cheating partners.
Here’s an excerpt of her interview with Bleu Bombshell:
What gave you the courage to stay and give your husband another chance?
Because my husband is a good man. He’s a great man, and I think in today’s society everything is so disposable. Times are not the same, women nowadays you know they say oh let me just do this, I can go out and find me another man, n*ggas ain’t nothing. You know, all of that, and I get it. But then on the other side you have men who aren’t growing up with fathers, not making excuses for men to cheat, but you have men who never seen what a household is supposed to look like – my husband was never in a married household. He didn’t know. His mom was a hustler, you know what I’m saying, she was out in the streets she was the mom and the dad. He doesn’t know—he grew up in the industry. He had early stardom with his career, I think Waka was in his early 20s mid 20s when he dropped his first hit. So you have all these groupies, you have all these things but despite all of that, behind closed doors -this man loves me to death and I know he loves my child to death. He does anything for us. So, my mom always told me– you can find a man who can financially take care of you, you can find a man who might not be a cheater, might have it all together, might of grew up with a father in their household, but it’s hard to find real love and a person who genuinely loves you and who is willing to change, my husband was willing to change for his family. So why would I give up on my husband. I’m not that type, I think that’s weak of a woman to do that. It’s easier to walk away as opposed to than to speaking up! No we’re going to fight for this we got married. My family is worth fighting for.
It’s so annoying when women say this. No, it takes a weak woman to stay and settle. Especially since that’s what black women are expected to do anyway.
Thank you!
Sigh…
She’s going to feel really dumb when he cheats on her again. Sometimes cheating just ain’t that deep. Most of the time people cheat just because they want to. They don’t believe they should have to just be with one person. Now add that to the fact he’s a rapper and it’s only going to be worse. It’s really nothing but selfishness and ego but I’ll let Tammy be great.
Girl shut up.
I think women like Tammy say this to make themselves feel better. They aren’t really ok with the fact that they took back a cheater but they need to save face. I mean if you’re at peace with a decision you made, you wouldn’t keep trying to defend it to strangers all the time. The insecurity with this one is thick.
I agree with u 100%.
True…like be satisfied/happy with your choice to yourself and stop trying to beat others in the head with your beliefs and babbles
She’s entitled to her wrong opinion.
Why is she still explaining herself? We get it! Sheesh!
Meh. I think she’s still trying to convince herself that she made the right decision.
If Tammy don’t get this f-ck sh-t out of here. Ain’t nothing strong about staying with a man who will f-ck all of Instagram if given the chance. All her dumb a-s is doing is putting herself at risk of catching a STD and a life of regret. Sh-t look how things have worked out for Tiny. F-ck that ride or die bullsh-t.
It’s like she doesn’t think she has anything else to talk about.
Does she?
Girl bye. It’s not that men are magically disposable now. In my opinion, in the earlier years women were expected to stay in a marriage and feel as if they would never find another man because of sexism. Women were made to think that without a man they were nothing. Nowadays we’ve far surpassed that mentality, well at least most of us. We’re independent, out in the work force, educated and cant maintain our lifestyles with or without a man. It has nothing to do with being weak but absolutely everything to do with being a strong.
*can maintain
She would say this dumb sh-t.
LMAOOOOOOO she sounds like such a fool.
This is sad. She thinks grown men are incapable of truly loving and respecting a woman enough to be faithful. Yes, some men grow up without proper role models but so do many women.
There isn’t a man out here who would take a woman back who cheated on them ane they definitely wouldn’t be making excuses for it.
Tammy clearly has low self-esteem. Taking back a man who constantly disrespects you by cheating on you is indicative of a woman who doesn’t love, value and respect herself enough to believe she deserves better. She’s got this sh*t all twisted. It takes a strong woman to love herself more than a cheating man and sacrifice the relationship she knows isn’t right in order to find the one that will be. What a sad thing when a man can make a beautiful woman feel so ugly inside that she feels she has no other choice but to take his abuse and disrespect.
Smdh Don’t let loyalty become slavery, as they say if you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything. Its only a matter of time before she catch something she cant cure. I hope she don’t think he is using condoms…I hope she realizes what she is doing is teaching her daughter that a man is more important than ur self worth and dignity. I wonder if she would be so ride or die if he wasn’t famous. Doubt it!!!
Hmm.
I can’t believe I liked this woman. She just sounds dumber and dumber every time she talks about this.