LHHNY Recap: Is Mendeecees Harris’ Mother Judy His Biggest Enabler?

Kimbella and Samantha’s mom Kim think it’s time for a final sit-down.

The episode opens up with Kimbella and Kim meeting and discussing why Lil Mendeecees’ birthday party went left. Both agree that it was all a misunderstanding, and Kimbella reveals that she had no intention of trying to fight anyone. Kim admits she overreacted and both agree that it’s time for everyone to have a final sit-down about keeping the kids together.

Drewski now realizes why his relationship with Bianca was so problematic to Sky.

When Drewski sees Sky interacting with a male friend he has never met, he gets a taste of his own medicine. Not only does he get jealous, but he begins to question Sky’s loyalty. Sky is all familiar with his feelings given what went down with Bianca. But she doesn’t give in to Drewski’s emotions, and leaves him uncertain about his future with Sky. Checkmate for Sky?

Swift puts it all on the table with Cardi B.

Now that he knows Cardi and Tommy are over, Swift decided to tell Cardi how he feels. He surprises her with flowers and tells her he’s interested in being with her romantically. And his feelings go beyond the physical. Unfortunately for him, Cardi isn’t ready to be in another serious relationship just yet.

Remy and Papoose decide it’s time to try to move past the miscarriage and focus on the future.

Suffering a miscarriage hasn’t been easy for Papoose and Remy, but with their kids getting serious about pursuing rap careers, they realize it’s time for them to shift their focus to the future.

Snoop has an emotional visit to her adoptive mother’s grave-site.

Snoop still hasn’t been able to move her mother’s body back to Baltimore but she’s now determined more than ever to make it happen.

Rich Dollaz and Cisco clash again over Mariahlynn.

So much for their truce. When Rich learns that Cisco and Mariahlynn are once again on friendly terms, he confronts Cisco. Rich feels he can’t trust Cisco because befriending Mariah is a problem since he blames her for their previous issues.

Drewski crosses the line again, with Sky.

Although Drewski was finally able to see Sky’s side in the Bianca situation thanks to her an unnamed male friend, Drewski eventually reminded Sky why their relationship isn’t living up to its potential.

After gifting Sky with a new car, Drewski says she must change her cell phone number because he isn’t sure she can be trusted.

Sky is insulted and tells him his request just proves that he is very controlling. She turns down the new car, refuses to change her number and walks away leaving Drewski in disbelief.

Kimbella and Kim’s sit-down is a disaster.

It’s probably not hard to believe that the bulk of the drama of this episode stems from Yandy’s feud with Erika and Samantha.

When Kimbella, Kim, Samantha, Erika, Yandy and Judy sit down to talk about getting the kids back together, it doesn’t take long for things to go left.

The conversation starts off with Samantha, Kim and Erika questioning why Kimbella came to Lil Mendeecees’ birthday party with no presents and dressed to throw down.

Kimbella still denies being messy and then they direct their frustrations to Yandy. After Yandy explains that she didn’t show up to the party because of the commotion she heard around the corner (she claims she had no idea the commotion was Kimbella yelling outside), she decided she is willing to move on from the party drama and move forward with Samantha and Erika.

After Erika blames Yandy’s inability to be honest for all of their issues, Kimbella then jumps in and points out that all three women have been played by Mendeecees.

“But Erika, you have children by the same man, period. And this ****** bastard ***** that’s in jail, done ******* over all of y’all.” – Kimbella

Kimbella’s comment immediately sets off Judy.

“What bastard?” – Judy

Kimbella stands by her comment though.

“These women need to start respecting themselves, and acknowledge the fact that it’s Mendeecees’ fault.” – Kimbella

Judy is unable to move on from Kimbella’s comment though.

“What the f*ck are you talking about Kim?” – Judy

Yandy isn’t happy about it either.

“Wait a minute, I know my best friend didn’t just try to play my man.” – Yandy

And to a lot of viewers, it’s what Judy said next that makes it possible to argue that she is Mendeecees’ biggest enabler.

“Hold up Kimbella…don’t put that sh*t on my son. This is not about Mendeecees. This is not about Mendeecees, this is about the mothers putting their sh*t aside.”  – Judy

Although Kimbella’s comment caused quite the uproar, it would be Samatha’s comment to Judy that made things even worse.

“I’m trying to make a point. You have four children. And you’re one mother. They had different fathers. So the point is…” – Samantha to Judy

Judy immediately took Samantha’s comment as an insult, and she fired off at Yandy to put Samantha in check.

“You’re going to let her say that sh*t to me?!” – Judy to Yandy

When Yandy tries to tell Samantha she is out of line with her remark to Judy, Samantha stands firm and refuses to backtrack.

“So what? You say the worse to me!” – Samantha to Judy

The drama continues when Judy accuses Samantha of asking Mendeecees for his “man juice.”

That really sets off Samantha and she challenges Judy to throw hands.

“Do something b*tch!” – Samantha to Judy

Yandy just feels Samantha was completely disrespectful to Judy and all the women agree that things won’t be resolved until Mendeecees gets out of prison.

What are your thoughts?

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22 comments

  1. I and a few others on here have already pointed out that Judy is the biggest problem right after Mendeecees. She has no problem with her son running around here and impregnating multiple women. In fact, she actually blames the women (Erika and Samantha) for his poor decisions like he’s not capable of having self control. And when someone points out how messed up he is, she gets offended. Dysfunction all around.

  2. Judy is a hot mess. Her and Yandy are very passive aggressive and get mad when someone says the truth about Mendeecees. He ain’t no prize but they don’t want to hear that.

    1. Man their passive aggressiveness annoys me so much! They keep pretending they never know what’s going on when they are causing a lot of this mess from jump.

  3. Yandy knew what she was getting herself into when she chose to have kids with someone who’s mixed into baby mama drama. I cannot see myself arguing over a man weekly or monthly. I would be turned off and question my self esteem after a short while. Even worse if he is in prison

  4. I can’t stand Judy. And LOL at her getting all mad when Samantha clocked her tea. All the foul stuff she’s said about Samantha and Erika all season, and facts get her all worked up? Too funny.

  5. Yandy is so full of herself. She’s actually blaming Erika and Samantha for hurting her brand but she’s the one who willingly got knocked up by a felon and was pregnant the same time Erika was. Babysitter my a-s. Nah Yandy, YOU f-cked up your brand!

  6. Why did Judy get mad? Is she ashamed that she has four kids with different men? If that’s the case, why does she keep making excuses for her son? She has issues.

  7. Yandy and Judy are trash. They keep acting like Mendeecees is some God’s gift to women when he’s nothing but a drug dealer who can’t keep it in his pants.

  8. Judy is an enabler but so is Yandy. Yandy knows how dirty Mendeecees did her but now she’s acting like it never happened. Newsflash, Yandy and Erika were pregnant at the same time. So what does that say? I’m so over all of this.

  9. Judy has been a problem for a long time now. She pretends she wants all the kids together but her actions don’t match her words. And just because she’s the grandmother doesn’t mean she can say whatever she wants to everyone else. It doesn’t work like that. You have to give respect to get respect…healthy families understand that.

  10. Mess…and didn’t Mendeecees say he never met his father? Judy needs to sit down somewhere and stop pretending she’s any better than Erika and Samantha. All of them have issues so humility would serve them well.

  11. Dang Samantha even caught me off guard the way she got Judy together. By as snooty as Judy has been acting, you would have never known she has four kids by different men. She loves to call Samantha and Erika everything but a child of God, but knowing what we know now, she should be quiet from now on :-/.

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