Marsau Scott accused Melody Shari of never being accountable.
“Love & Marriage: Huntsville” star Marsau Scott had a lot to say to Melody Shari while filming the current season’s reunion. Carlos King asked Melody if there was any chance that she could mend her friendships with the Scotts. Melody is only friends with Kimmi Scott.
She went on to say that the issue has been that the others don’t want to be accountable for their role in the breakdown of their friendship circle. Marsau interjected and clapped back accusing Melody of never being accountable for anything. Interestingly enough, a YouTuber was able to provide receipts. And they put together clips of Melody taking accountability multiple times.
There were moments when Melody apologized to LaTisha, but she wasn’t receptive. So it kept Melody and LaTisha from moving forward. And this has resulted in Melody no longer wanting a friendship at all.
Regarding Melody’s disconnect with LaTisha Scott, Marsau didn’t mince words. And in one past scene, Marsau told LaTisha that she was the one not being accountable regarding her fallout with Melody.
Interestingly enough, Kimmi had an interesting response to the accountability discourse that took place at the reunion.
Kimmi Scott said multiple people aren’t being accountable.
Carlos had a question for Kimmi in a deleted scene.
He said, “The friendships that you guys had at the beginning is what attracted all of us to this show, is what attracted the network to want it. And as you’re watching your family and friend over here have this disagreement that seems to be going nowhere, how does it make you feel?”
Kimmi had a different perspective from Marsau. She answered, “To be perfectly honest, I think there’s a lot of accountability to go around.”
She continued, “I think we often start in the middle of situations and we don’t start at the beginning. I’ve always believed for some reason if we could get to the beginnings of where some of the issues started, they could actually be resolved. It’s always a conversation of, ‘This person did this to me first. This person did that to me first.’ It’s a hamster wheel.”
Kimmi thought that getting to the root of the drama would improve things.
“And so for a long time, I really held out hope that if we were able to get to the fundamentals of how some of this stuff actually started, as opposed to the reactionary stuff, that things would be mendable.”
Kimmi always has the most accurate and honest read on things in the group. I just wish she kept that same energy with that husband of hers. I do not like the side comments he made during that segment about Marsau getting that pic from that woman. I don’t trust Maurice at all!
The cameraman was shady as h-ll and I wonder if anyone else caught it…
I agree with Kimmi about getting to the fundamentals of where things started going wrong. However, we all know where it started. Martell! He cheated, cheated, cheated and then got the same girl pregnant. That would be heartbreaking to any woman. I don’t think Melody is really healing because being on tv and having so many people in your business doesn’t allow for smooth healing. On top of that, Martell is not the only cheater. So, now we’re in the attacking mode.
It’s a sad situation all around. Although, my heart goes out to Melody. I do believe that she’s not being held accountable. She posts things on social media that triggers a response in others. She’s not that innocent nor is her mother. I think Kimmi and Maurice are the only ones that don’t put their feelings on social media.
Social media was made for the younger generation. If you’re 30 and over, the only thing you should be putting on social media is business and uplifting stories. They created this monster and now more relationships are breaking up, marriages, business, suicide and the devil is having his way.
I wish we could go back to the day when everybody just talked with each other or they just left each other alone. And, if Melody decided that she wanted take Martell back at some point, that is her business. Your marriage is your marriage and no one can tell you what to do in your marriage. You’re not the first couple that this has happened to and you won’t be the last, unfortunately.
Don’t let the devil get you, please! I’ll pray for you and please pray for me.
That’s why the reunion was a dud for me. Producers could easily shut the sh-t down and started showing flashbacks to show the cast how full of sh-t they all are. But they didn’t. Whenever you have a group of people fighting, it’s never one person that deserves all the blame. It’s always going to be enough blame to go around because that’s the reality of contention in friendships. We know Mel ain’t no angel but what we’re not going to do is pretend she’s the only one who has done wrong. I watched the first season. And it all started with Marsau and Martell. So let’s start there.
LaTisha sitting up there like she just don’t want to hear anything that Kimmi is saying….That girl will for hold a grudge and it will continue to eat her up inside… That’s one thing I’ve often told myself….”I don’t hold grudges….I hold people ACCOUNTABLE!!!
Kimmi is right and you can tell by all the eye rolling Marsau, LaTisha and Maurice are doing that they weren’t trying to hear it. They want to place all the blame on Melody and Kimmi is telling them, NOPE! Martell cheated. He and Melody decided to work on their marriage. Marsau turns around and makes tasteless jokes about it even though the Holts helped Marsau and LaTisha while they were broke and homeless. LaTisha gloats and throws her little shade. Mel and Martell watch the playbacks, and they decide to clap back by pointing out that Marsau was right there cheating too. Instead of LaTisha confronting that, she deflects to Melody (like always) and she never takes her anger out on her real tormentors (Wanda and Marsau). Wanda gets involved because she’s a classless, overbearing momma wanting to be the next Momma Dee. Maurice plays MLK when he’s messier than Marsau on the low. And here we are. I never take commenters seriously on here that criticize Mel/Martell but have absolutely no criticisms for the Scotts. You don’t agree with Kimmi if you don’t think there’s equal blame. And you don’t agree with Kimmi if you think Mel hasn’t been accountable bc Kimmi’s whole point was – none of them have been accountable! The fact that Melody has even apologized is more than Marsau and LaTisha have ever done.
And I’m also starting to see that the root of all the Mel and Van backlash always comes down to a few things: jealousy, misogyny, classism, and disinformation. That’s it, that’s all. I ain’t responding to any Scott supporters. I’m done engaging the clownery in 2023. It’s too many people playing stupid.
Melody makes a lot of black women insecure. It’s actually pathetic to see. But delicious as well. This show couldn’t survive without Kimmi and Melody because honestly LaTisha is one of the most embarrassing wives I’ve seen on a reality show. Part 2 of the reunion was disturbing. I know the Scotts thought they succeeded in making Melody look bad, but I walked away with a worser perception of Marsau and LaTisha. Their whole marriage is disturbing. And Wanda’s meddling was vindicated. She has every right to not trust her son in law.
This topic just showed me that a lot of grown folks have no idea what the word accountability means and it’s cringeworthy. How are you grown as h-ll and think that someone who has apologized multiple times hasn’t held themselves accountable? You can’t even apologize without being accountable. Apologizing means admitting when you’re wrong. THAT. IS. ACCOUNTABILITY. This is something middle schoolers understand…like what? I see now why Melody is done. To the people who don’t like her, what she does is never going to be good enough. So why give a f-ck at this point? I’ll be glad when she leaves this show so I can leave with her.
It will always be Melody and Kimmi for me. I’m glad Kimmi never allows her relatives to make her go along with their childish mindsets. Truth be told, they would have all been friends again if LaTisha would’ve just accepted Melody’s third apology a year or so ago.
Troll,
I’m not sure who you’re questioning regarding the definition of accountability but holding a MBA, I am clear about the definition. The things we write on here are our own perception of how we see and hear things.
I, at no point want to start name calling anyone. This is reality tv and I’m not in any of their shoes. Please let’s respect each other’s right to have a different opinion. Foul language is not the key.
May God Continue to Bless Us All!
Marsau just made himself look dumb with the accountability thing. The only people who didn’t see through it are the Melody haters. They are so determined to point out how flawed Melody is but we like her despite said flaws. We don’t care lol. This is what the 4th season? And I’ve never seen the Scotts take accountability for anything. Kimmi sees it too and I love that.
I know people want the show to go back to what it was, but it’s not happening. I don’t think it makes sense to try to push Melody to be friends with people who truly don’t like her. Maybe a better concept would be accepting that certain friendships are dead. So it’s time to focus more on people’s personal stories and less on stale cast beefs.
Mel is the type of woman Marsau would love to have.I always notice he has a thing for Mel Latisha too DIZZY yall see when she fell back Marsau told her not to do that like he was embarrassed…I think it’s SAD how these friendships just DISSOLVED…if they rebuild these friendships i think the show would be more successful.
Wow! This is what happens. Now we’re focusing on the definition of accountability with and/or without an education. I am the last person who hates on anyone’s accomplishments. I’m proud to be alive to see people of color on tv in any capacity. They are making money and for the most part, they are giving back.
I am the 1st generation of college graduates in my family and I’m proud about it. By no means, does it make me emotionally or educationally better or lesser than anyone else.
This is the part of social media where I don’t agree with the massive. Does that make me wrong? No, it makes me different and I stand on that.
I’m not sure who I’m speaking to when I write this but Inger is my name and I’m a woman of color who knows the definition of accountability.
Please let’s leave it there.
Umm anyway, I appreciate this from Kimmi. Melody doesn’t let the hate from her coworkers get to her anymore. She’s done with all of them except Kimmi and I don’t blame her. She tried multiple times to move forward but that isn’t what Wanda, LaTisha, Maurice, or Marsau wanted. Time to move on!
I can’t stand stans but Melody’s stans do make valid points at times. If Melody made an attempt to extend the olive branch multiple times and the Scotts didn’t accept, it’s not her who wasn’t accountable. And to be honest, none of them are innocent, including Kimmi and Maurice. Until they all accept blame, there is no moving forward.
Not everyone watched LAMH from the beginning…my eyes were opened after Keke said that she and Melody were actually friends first. And LaTisha met Melody through Keke. That’s when I realized how much the Scotts lie and manipulate things to look a certain way on the show.
Ok, so in the beginning, the show was supposedly to be about 3 couples who were associates, if not friends, who were entering into a business partnership and then at a dinner, Melody decided to shake things up by putting her husband’s infidelities out in public. THAT DECISION changed the whole direction of the show, because when the heat in the kitchen became too much for The Hilts they began to deflect by dropping vague innuendo about Marsau and his alleged cheating and quite frankly, it’s been a mess ever since, so Kimmi, there’s your beginning, not to hard to dig that root up!!
Who cares? Melody doesn’t want to be friends with these folks. It doesn’t matter who started what. It’s weird people can’t accept when a grown woman doesn’t want to fool with certain people and moves on.
The Scotts aren’t victims and never will be. Next!
I think that all of them except Mel have some sense cause Kim is mess she went and repeat words about Mel party knowing it was mess and then Latish husband he like Mel you can see this in his eyes when he is around her, but the show is nothing like it used to be the haters the fussing all the time it is not a good show.
My comment is off topic but I respected the fact that Martel, all though brief admitted that he does miss the life he had with Mel and the kids… Mel even gotta misty eyed a little bit. I was rooting for them but he just really did entirely too much
I agree with you whole heartedly
The reunion was nothing more than “Melody’s the one to blame” pileup. So sad & pathetic. I can see why Mel pays em dust.
Right, I use to think Mel was the problem bc she does fall out with a lot of ppl but I know know she just aint got the time nor patience for foolishness
Amen, No Reactions are the best reaction
LaTish and Marcel needs to get a new storyline. Mel is a Boss keep doing you Mel leave mess with the messy
I don’t know you but you said everything correct. Mel knew her husband was cheating before show started and if that girl wouldn’t had that baby she would still be with her husband and thats their business. She knew the young lady was pregnant and she did away with the baby. Mel continued her marriage had another baby husband thats fine. No one should be rooting for any marriage to break up. Same goes for Latisha and Marsau. Carlos continues to asked Tisha what are you going to do if you find out hes cheating. No women or husband know how they would handle a situation like that into they cross that bridge. I’m so over Mel and Martel, move on and co parent. No one said anything about Mel going live during production with the incident with Mrs.Wanda so, she get plenty of passes on this show. I wish them all well and would like to see black entrepreneurs making money. Any drama should be resolved easy not I want my peace, I’m good, then bring people on this show to degrade someone or prove a point. The Whitlows need to go. Period. Carlos King is too much and so invested. He was just on the phone with Sheree then get on there and tell Martel he’s worried about him and that he still love Mel. Stop it Carlos stay in your lane and let them move on.
Ooooh! You said it! Thank you for your honest and mature message. I, 1000% agree with you.
That’s it and that’s all. I don’t want to battle with anyone else about their difference of opinion. It’s okay to agree to disagree. This one, I wholeheartedly agree. Thanks, Sherry Booker!
Again, nope. I have NEVER commented on Martell and Arionne, because, I don’t care about that situation, she’s not even on the show, so your confused. And, I don’t hate Melody or any of the cast members. I was offering my opinion about Kimmi’s comment. First of all, everyone on this show as far as I ‘m concerned brings it, on camera, and on Social media, that’s why we continue to talk about the show, but yeah sir, you got me confused with someone else. I would call out ANY cast member if I wanted to make a observation or point, DOES NOT mean I ‘m hating on that person. Really???
Nah, I’m done. People can’t differentiate between an argument and a different outlook. I’m not argiung, just saying my interpretation of how things got started. I don’t want know smoke. And definitely not favoring men over women. Not even about that. What do I expect from somebody that goes by “Hater!!”
This is for everyone on this site who is making comments.
It is okay to have our own personal opinion. We have to learn to agree to disagree with each other. There are some people on here who are calling people out of their names because they have a difference of opinion.
Please stop!
Whatever you believe is your belief! If you feel and think you’re right, stand on it. You don’t have to talk about people whom you don’t know in any derogatory way. Some of you even call some of the cast members names. It’s not good and it can be very hurtful.
Please, Please Stop!
Melody does not always say anything about the others until they continue to come after her and enough is enough. Melody has apologized to Tish several times about the cheating aggregation in her marriage, but Tish has not been able to move on from the past. Also, Melody does not need to take Martel back under any circumstances. Kimmi, spoke the truth on the reunion, but she also needs to take accountability on the part that she plays in all of this, she can throw a rock and hid her hand,