Erica Mena Shades Bow Wow’s Baby Mama? (UPDATE)

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Photo Credit: Instagram

By: Amanda Anderson-Niles

Erica Mena and Bow Wow recently told the media they might tie the knot any day now, and as the couple continues to plan out their big day, it appears there could be some drama brewing between Erica and Bow Wow’s baby mama Joie Chavis.

We told you recently Joie wouldn’t allow Erica to attend their daughter’s recent birthday bash, but sources told us Erica refuses to be messy on social media because she doesn’t want her relationship with Bow Wow to sour as a result.

Well it looks like Erica may have had a change of heart.

The other day she posted a video to snap chat that seemed like an undercover nasty message to Joie.

In the video, Erica says:

“Shout out to the b*tches who are stalking the Snapchat. You just a BM b*tch! Don’t forget.”

When Erica’s followers started accusing her of shading Joie and being messy, Erica took to social media to accuse the blogs of being messy.

What say you? Could this be shade or a reach?

@iamerica_mena throws shots at @shadmoss baby mother #JoieChavis ! #ericamena #bowwow

A video posted by THEDAILYKRAVE | TDK (@thedailykrave) on


UPDATE: It looks like Bow Wow chose a side:

Really @shadmoss? #BowWow says he wished he never had a child with #JoieChavis Social media is not the place to vent.

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  1. Erica needs to sit her bird a-s all the way down. She acts like being engaged to Bow Wow is the equivalent of snatching up Jay f-cking Z. Who the f-ck cares about Lil Bow Wow? And if he doesn’t marry her, I’m dragging her a-s on Twitter.

  2. It’s clearly shade to his baby mama. Erica is such an immature person. The last thing she wants is a war with the mother of his child. That little girl will grow up and she will be on her mom’s side and Erica will regret ever coming for Joie. Sometimes we create our own problems and don’t even know it.

  3. I figured she would eventually stop trying to pretend she had any class and common sense. But I hope she realizes beefing with the baby mama could end badly for her. No man wants to marry a woman who can’t even get along with the mother of his seed. And when his daughter grows up, she won’t get along with Erica either. I wouldn’t be surprised if Bow Wow ended the relationship to prevent the pretty obvious drama that is sure to come if he marries her.

    1. Bow Wow encourages her sh-t though, cause he posted something on FB this morning talking about he’s ashamed that he had a daughter with Joie. He’s just as much a b-tch as Erica. He deserves her and all the sh-t she’ll bring to his life.

  4. Yes Erica throwing shade at Joie but she shaded her damn self because she just a baby mama as well. See this what happens when bum bitches like Erica make a come up they start trying to clown and act like they so much better. Just cause she has an engagement ring don’t mean sh-t she still a baby mama too.

    1. But what come up its not like she’s engaged to Jay-Z, She isn’t even engaged to a dude like Puffy…please Bish is still a lame and so is her lil a$$ man…..she proud that he gave her a ring….like either 1 of them is a a prize to or for somebody

  5. Doesn’t she have a kid? So isn’t she a baby momma? lol so she’s engaged, now she better than every other who had a kid out of wedlock ? You’ll ALWAYS be your kids father’s BM if u don’t marry HIM…. Get your life Erica

  6. She is letting this engagement blow her head up. She’s not better than Joie. She’s a baby mama herself.

  7. *blank stare* I know sometimes she forgets she’s a mother but those in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

  8. I don’t understand why she’s shading Joie for being a baby mama when she’s in the same shoes. Yes, she’s now engaged but they aren’t married yet. It’s possible they will never get married? Then that would make her just a a baby mama again, correct?

  9. Joie can see Erica isn’t capable of being marriage material and most importantly, stepmother material and like the idiot she is, Erica is just proving her right.

  10. It would have been nice to see her actually resist going in on Joie but that would make too much sense.

  11. Bow Wow needs to hope and pray his daughter doesn’t grow up hating him and Erica. A lot of daughters will side their mothers. He needs to tread lightly.

  12. So he wants to troll his baby mama when she’s the one who has primary custody? He’s just as dumb as his bird.

  13. The sad thing is his daughter will read this one day and feel like she wasn’t wanted. He is a low down piece of sh-t while he trying to hurt Joie he hurting his daughter in the long run. Teresa come get your trifling a-s son.

  14. Lil Bow wow is a f***king idiot. He’s gonna let that bird mess up his situation. He better hope his BM ain’t collecting all these antics to provide to the court.

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