'Married to Medicine' Star Dr. Simone Whitmore Seemingly Shades Dr. Contessa Metcalfe


‘Married to Medicine’ Star Dr. Simone Whitmore Seemingly Shades Dr. Contessa Metcalfe

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By: Amanda Anderson-Niles

On the latest episode of “Married to Medicine,” Quad Webb celebrated the launch of her new cookbook. She also celebrated a birthday. So she decided to throw a party to celebrate both. All the ladies were invited except Mariah Huq. And that’s because things have gotten worse between them. Quad accused Mariah of being a drug user and the two women haven’t been able to move past that.

Regardless, some of the ladies felt like Quad was being shady with her thank you speech. It’s all because she claimed her “Sister Circle” coworkers are the reasons why she didn’t give up on having female friends. It seemed like a jab to a few of the “Married to Medicine” women. However, Dr. Simone Whitmore and Toya Bush-Harris decided to leave.

Even though Contessa seemingly felt the shade too, she stayed. And she later told Quad that she knew that Quad was going to eventually show them some love, too.

Simone apparently feels like Contessa’s actions make her seem like a follower.

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  1. Tisha

    November 2, 2019 at 10:03 am

    I mean Contessa is a follower. She wants to be down with Jackie, Heavenly, and Quad so badly.

  2. And What?

    November 2, 2019 at 10:22 am

    Contessa has been thirsty since her first season. Her fake nanny told us what was up.

    • Renee

      November 4, 2019 at 3:05 am

      Sweetheart I never was fake I’m a real nanny and I was tessa nanny unroll she f-ck me I’m miss Renee there’s nothing fake about me

  3. trece

    November 2, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    Contessa is thirsty…she Knew it was a snub Jackie too then threw everyone else under the Bus….messy as her wig🤦🏾

    • Winsome Andrea Callum

      November 2, 2019 at 1:17 pm

      I love you dr contessa dr Heavenly and Quad

      • Mary mckinney

        November 5, 2019 at 3:19 pm

        You must need some money.

    • Forreal

      November 2, 2019 at 8:25 pm

      Quad is so phony anyone who doesn’t know that. It’s not for real themself

  4. Queen

    November 2, 2019 at 1:29 pm

    I agree with the tweet.

  5. Deb

    November 2, 2019 at 1:32 pm

    Maybe quad trying to hold on to both bags

    • Idele Dawson

      November 2, 2019 at 8:34 pm

      Quad Jackie,Contessa are the most shady thirsty, females on the show!They aren’t true freind to themselves,

      • Sweet Pea

        November 3, 2019 at 5:02 am

        Im getting really tired if Dr. Simone. When Quad first began goung through her divorce….Dr. Simone was mad because Quad wasn’t giving up details. So now she’s on Sister Circle and she has them as friends as well. D-mn she can’t have other friends…. Dr Simone to me is nothing more than a bully!

        • Sherise

          November 3, 2019 at 7:27 am

          I agree! Dr. Simone and Toya act loke “mean girls” and everybody supposed to run behind them or kiss their behinds. Grow up…ain’t nobody got time for that!!!

          • Tisha

            November 3, 2019 at 7:42 am

            Girl please. If we’re being real, every woman on the show has been a mean girl. And the main person who wants their a-s kissed is Jackie with Quad coming in second place. Be real.

        • Tisha

          November 3, 2019 at 7:40 am

          That’s fine because Quad didn’t want Mariah to have any friends after they fell out. Remember it was Quad who told the whole cast they had to pick between her and Mariah. She didn’t want them inviting Mariah to events or anything. But yall were okay with that back then. So what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.

        • Carol

          November 3, 2019 at 11:56 am

          Another delusional fan has no friends to compare this situation to. Sighhhhhh

        • Janice Kennedy

          November 7, 2019 at 1:37 pm

          I really agree 💯

  6. Lonnie

    November 2, 2019 at 1:37 pm

    Contessa is a former military personnel who served our country, a daughter, a wife, a mother, a doctor, a beautiful Black woman, a kind individual, but she most certainly is NOT thirsty. It is actually okay to be a critical thinker and consider both sides. Quad was shady, but Contessa gave her the benefit of the doubt. Nothing wrong with that.

    • Debra

      November 2, 2019 at 1:48 pm

      Contessa creates fake storylines every season. That’s being thirsty.

      • Mary

        November 2, 2019 at 4:46 pm

        No she doesn’t
        Her story lines are real

        The other women are just ridiculous aaaholes

        Contessa knows who shed rather align herself with

        And she saw how those women turned on Quad when she needed thier understanding

        • Yvette

          November 2, 2019 at 6:35 pm

          Quad wants all eye’s on me syndrome honey she could careless about anyone understanding her why you should ask …….. She has herself uuuurrrrk 😅🧟

          • Gregory B Boyd

            November 3, 2019 at 5:12 pm

            All I have to say is that Toya and Dr. Simone treated Dr. Contessa like sh-t at the last reunion. You have to take that into consideration as to why Dr. Simone seem to have chosen a side🤷🏽‍♂️

        • Marie Christian

          November 2, 2019 at 7:36 pm

          Quad is a piece of sh-t. She so phony its nauseating. Can’t stand her. She’s very condescending in her delivery and forgot where she came from. All of a sudden her nose is up in the air…crazy how this is even allowed amongst professional women with PHD’s.

          • Chris

            November 2, 2019 at 8:33 pm

            Wow! A black woman who calls another black woman a piece of sh-t because she refuses to allow others to dictate her life.

        • Lisa

          November 3, 2019 at 5:17 pm

          Contessa a b-tch and thirsty as hell heavenly did t even like her at first girl bye she only f-cking with her because she is cool with quad and don’t have no friends

      • BOSTON

        November 3, 2019 at 12:38 am

        Quad is overly dramatic,because of MM she is on sister circle. Should have thanked all of her sisters/girlfriends as a group. Contessa should have never said what she said about the others leaving that’s what makes her look thirsty.

    • Monie

      November 2, 2019 at 2:11 pm

      I concur!

    • Tea

      November 2, 2019 at 2:18 pm

      Contessa is all these things AND thirsty 🤷🏾‍♀️

      • Yvette Grier

        November 3, 2019 at 5:55 am

        Extremely parched! She has been that way since her first season. I cannot stand her.

    • Jay

      November 2, 2019 at 2:25 pm

      I completely agree Lonnie! She’s always done her own thing and from what I have viewed,she has tried to positive with everyone until they come for her.

      • Veronica

        November 2, 2019 at 2:38 pm

        This isn’t true. She was friends with Toya and turned around and talked trash about Toya at that Back in the Black party. And that’s what led to their beef. I don’t know why y’all are trying to make Contessa out to be some saint. That’s not the case.

        • JoJo

          November 2, 2019 at 6:03 pm

          Not shade she just told the truth, who throws a party for paying their Bill’s?

          • Veronica

            November 2, 2019 at 6:12 pm

            Who said it was shade? Either way, if you’re friends with somebody you don’t go to their party and trash them. Hell you don’t even do that to people you aren’t friends with. Stay at home if you think the party is stupid. That’s called having tact and not being messy. Contessa is rude, condescending and pretentious. Stop hyping her up so much.

          • Dora

            November 2, 2019 at 7:02 pm

            If I had paid that amount off to the IRS, I would probably want to celebrate as well, that was no small amount, nor small feat to work hard, missing out on family time to do extra shifts to get out of debt, it’s also taught them a very valuable lesson in life, always always keep up with ALL of your bills and obligations, making certain that you check and double check people you have in your life giving advice, paying your expenses, etc… I was not always a fan of Dr Simone or Toya, but I honestly believe they’re the two most real women on the show… love Ms.Miraha as well… I truly wish Jackie would wake up and smell the coffee when it comes to the bashing of Mariah… she is the very one who has given all of these women an opportunity to show the world, Strong, hardworking,charitable women

          • Godgiven

            November 3, 2019 at 8:51 am

            But the wide mouth stays the same no matter what

          • Godgiven

            November 3, 2019 at 8:58 am

            Very happy to get rid of the huge deb t. We all buy ourselves something when we achieve a gaol, that was her case. Especially when everyone was talking about it.
            I will do something too maybe not as big as hers

      • It's Me

        November 2, 2019 at 5:08 pm

        That’s not truth Cotussie what ever her d-mn name….In Deavenly voice….If she was so much for right she would stand up for right….She always riding for Fraud who lies on Mariah along with Deavenly and Jackie who always being Sneaky in the wrong when it comes to Mariah she co-signed on every lies they offer her about Mariah but she never to admit that Fraud went too far with the Drug accusations about Mariah seem like she’s a follower to me.

    • Jean

      November 2, 2019 at 4:36 pm

      Truly…Why is Quad there? she’s isn’t married to medicine or the mailman or anyone..anymore! BUT she got exactly what she wanted..FAME!!

    • Teresa Woods

      November 2, 2019 at 6:26 pm


    • Idele Dawson

      November 2, 2019 at 8:38 pm

      Just because she served in the military, doesn’t excludes her from being shady.I hear she is a decent physician, but look how selfish she was to leave all the kids with her husband, n kids

      • Sweet Pea

        November 3, 2019 at 5:09 am

        Tessa whining a-s man! Mothers take care of their kids on their own all the d-mn time whether the man is there or not. He needs to put in for a tall order of balls and man the hell up. I think is was is jealous if her anyway. She is trying to do more in the healthcare field and he can’t stand it. #foh with that foolishness

    • Shawn

      November 2, 2019 at 9:16 pm

      Exactly! Dont discount her accomplishments.

  7. Seriously?

    November 2, 2019 at 2:35 pm

    No lies found in this tweet.

  8. Jo

    November 2, 2019 at 2:35 pm

    Come on people, have you forgotten when Quad first came on the show, you knew she was a kill and destroy type of person. It’s about time the Dr.’s wake up and see her for her true self. First Mariah, whom she did s hatchet job on. Then Simone now it’s about to be the rest of them. Watch out Dr. Heavenly and ladies on Sister Circle ya got a snake in the mix

  9. bonita

    November 2, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Some ppl are always looking for ways to tear others down. Some ppl always look for the absolute worst and will believe the absolute worst of others. I don’t see where the shade was in Quad’s speech. Everyone who’s followed this show knows how Quad was treated by some of her so-called “friends” and cast members of M2M (specifically Simone and Toya) last year when they insisted that she share her very personal and painful marriage woes. And when she didn’t those same two “friends” talked badly about her at every turn. So Quad’s comment about giving up on female “friends” was quite understandable. But she was able to forge what she feels is a TRUE friendship with the ladies of SC and that renewed her faith in female friendship. Contessa was a grown-up and expressed her thoughts to Quad by stating that she knew Quad was eventually going to acknowledge her cast-mates. NO FOLLOWING, JUST STATING HER FEELINGS/THOUGHTS. But I get it, ANYTIME someone expresses the slightest bit of positivity to and for Quad, it’s seen as something negative by those that don’t like her. And that’s their prerogative. As for me, I AM #TeamQuad and #TeamContessa and #TeamHeavenly and #TeamJackie


      November 2, 2019 at 4:14 pm

      I agree 100% with what you typed!! Did people forget that the M2M crew knew and befriended Quads husband? The Sister Circle ladies were able to support Quad (in a totally different way) w/o judgement thru her divorce and thus, she is able to still see a female as a friend. Wonderful!!

      • Anonymous

        November 3, 2019 at 7:56 am

        What are you talking about? Some of these people were friends with Greg before the show. They aren’t going to dump him just because Quad divorced him. That doesn’t make any sense. And I wouldn’t be so quick to believe that those Sister Circle women are real friends to Quad. Tamar thought the same thing and well we saw how that ended.

    • Being Truthful

      November 2, 2019 at 4:15 pm

      I agree with bonita. She’s absolutely right when you go back and remember all that was done in the past. Now Heavenly is a hot mess

      • Marie Christian

        November 2, 2019 at 7:30 pm

        Totally agree. Contessa has a mind of her own and takes a stand when need be. She dealt with it diplomatically….something Dr.Simone doesn’t know how to do. Dr. Simone is a doctor and should conduct and act accordingly. Its obvious that Quad was showing shade, herself and Toya choose to leave…im in total agreement with them. However, wouldn’t critize Contessa. I probably would have left also. Quad is messy,undercover ghetto wanna be pretending to be “someone of class”….haha…sorry Quad you’re reeking fake and trash!

        • Anonymous

          November 3, 2019 at 7:54 am

          Contessa does not have a mind of her own. She’s one of the biggest followers on the show. So is Heavenly.

    • Teresa Woods

      November 2, 2019 at 6:28 pm

      It’s Perogative

    • Glenda Martin

      November 2, 2019 at 9:31 pm

      Well quad was in their business but didn’t want to discuss her business fake a..

    • Anthony

      November 3, 2019 at 2:35 am

      No it was more about her stank a-s attitude towards them last year. Whem she was like I don’t have time to hang with you guys anymore I have sister circle now. I am the real star of this show(which came out at last year reunion). And she only want to come to only film. So that said a lot about her friendship with the ladies of M2M.

    • Holly

      November 3, 2019 at 7:59 am

      It was shade Bonita. Even Jackie and Contessa recognized that. Contessa just made herself look goofy by acknowledging it was shade but then trying to switch it up when Quad came around. But I get you won’t be honest about it because as you already said, you’re Team Jackie, Contessa, Heavenly, and Quad. And that’s the problem. The cast is divided into two teams and so are the viewers. No one is objective anymore which makes the show and commenting on it stale now.

    • Savannah Spearman

      November 3, 2019 at 4:15 pm

      you are on the wrong team heavenly is crazy as hell she gonna find out her man been cheating on her.And Jackie she got her nose in the air thinking she is the queen.Looking like a man.Quad is nothing but a user.Sje wants to be more than she is but she is fonie as hell I like when a person better themselves but do it the right way.All of them need to stop acting out bad representation of classy black women am ashame of them especially that loud mouth heavenly nasty talking a-s .Her daughter got more sense than her.Toothfaced talks about everyone of them jealousy looks terrible on her.Take her off the show along with Jackie quad simoneand conteesa.Keep Maria and Toya.

  10. Patricia

    November 2, 2019 at 2:43 pm

    Contessa is Team Jackie, Quad and Heavenly. She’s never going to call them out for anything. This is why the season is just so so. These women are on these stupid teams now and it’s annoying to watch. That’s why I’m ready for RHOA.

    • Mary Guidry

      November 2, 2019 at 3:00 pm

      They are just as messy their all the same hun a bunch of old boring bitter women making us as black women look bad and behaving poorly

  11. Linda Moles

    November 2, 2019 at 2:46 pm

    Why is Quad still on this show?
    She is hateful and arrogant and narcissistic.
    She is not married to a doctor and is nasty to the ladies. Please remove her.

    • Ms Linda

      November 2, 2019 at 4:11 pm

      Yeeees. Best tweet Ive heard all day!!!!

    • Glenda Martin

      November 2, 2019 at 9:33 pm

      Yes she need to go

  12. Rracy

    November 2, 2019 at 3:42 pm

    Yes Quad is a fraud I remember when it first came on and She was so press to marry her ex she knew what she was doing she knew she wasnt never going to give that man a family and she had it all planned get what she want and roll out she already had stop sleeping with him

  13. Shirley h Lewis

    November 2, 2019 at 3:58 pm

    I agree 100% she’s not a doctor’s wife as far as what Gregg says she was never into him. Quad used Mariah, and Dr Gregg
    to get on the show inorder to get her platform going, now she hates them both. Please get her off the show. I think it will be a much better show without the angered Ms. Quad. Please let her go, so I can enjoy the show again

    • Chris

      November 2, 2019 at 7:10 pm

      You sound like a fool.Greg is trying to save face because he went outside the marriage.

      Greg wanted a Stepford wife not a partner in life. So miss me with the mess because truth be told Mariah seems like she didn’t marry for love but for stability and there’s nothing wrong with it but own your own mess before telling me about mines.

      • Anonymous

        November 3, 2019 at 7:52 am

        Mariah was the one who worked full time in journalism and supported Aydin while he was broke and in medical school. She was already stable. Quad was taken care of by Greg from day one. She didn’t become self sufficient until recently. And even then she’s still not 100 percent there since she asked for half of Greg’s assets in the divorce.

    • Lala

      November 2, 2019 at 7:33 pm

      I agree Shirley. Quad is a user and social climber.

  14. KAB

    November 2, 2019 at 4:01 pm

    I would’ve felt some kind of way about Quad’s speech whether I left or stuck around until the end. There was no need for her to make such a distinction like that in front of everyone, but then again it’s Quad we’re talking about. Btw… I agree with the tweet. There appears to be something inauthentic about Contessa. It’s like she found out how to play the reality TV game, and now she’s playing it, unlike in season one.

  15. Shirley h Lewis

    November 2, 2019 at 4:06 pm

    Quad doesn’t belong on the show anymore, Dr. Gregg’s not there, that’s so unfair.

  16. Chris

    November 2, 2019 at 6:45 pm

    What is amazing is that on most of these shows whenever the couple divorces the woman still stay on the show therefore miss me with Quad has to go because she’s getting a divorce.

    Also I distinctly remember these same women isolated Quad because she wouldn’t bare every inch of her soul to them. When a friend is going thru something it’s not their job to reach out to you but it’s your job as the friend to just say “Hey I’m checking in & when you ready give me a call.”

    You people are full of it. Also this mess about Quad married for a come up is idiotic at best. I can love a man and also want a man who is financially stable. Hell when Caucasian or Hispanic women marry for stability & love we applaud them so what’s wrong with a sista marrying for love & stability? Y’all are a bunch of weak minded hypocritical followers. GROW UP!!

    • Michelle

      November 2, 2019 at 7:03 pm

      I think you have some growing up to do yourself. No emotionally mature person hops on a blog and name calls people for having a different opinion from them. This is just a reality show. It’s not that deep.

      • Chris

        November 2, 2019 at 7:14 pm

        I see you’re a overly sensitive creature because no name calling was done dear.

        Your statement shows your immaturity in dealing and having real grown up conversation. Control your emotions because it seems like you are that person that got on a blog calling others names and talking mess. DO BETTER!!

      • Lala

        November 2, 2019 at 7:35 pm

        Michelle elephants don’t swat flies love. How’s your evening?

        • Michelle

          November 2, 2019 at 7:49 pm

          Ah, you’re right girl. Anyway, my evening is great and about to get even better. Thanks and have a good night.

    • Aretha Cherry

      November 2, 2019 at 9:36 pm

      Chris I agree with you these comments about Quad is horrible she is on a reality show everybody on there is looking for some kind of fame with lies and all and those of you that talk about Heavenly Jackie Quad Contessa something is really shallow in your life are you wasn’t watching the show from the very beginning that woman has been abused shamed and all you black azz women can do is put her down because she didn’t let you see her getting dragged are punched and the way he talked to her was abuse you heffas are sick and jealous because right now if given the opportunity you would be on the show kissing Mariah’s azz are acting like Ratched b***h

    • blackrose

      November 3, 2019 at 7:30 am

      who applauds caucasian and Hispanic women for marrying for stability? Is that even a thing amongst black wome ?

  17. JJ

    November 2, 2019 at 8:30 pm

    Quad is phony, and jealous of Mariah

  18. Anonymous

    November 2, 2019 at 9:44 pm

    Some people take these reality shows way too seriously.

  19. Gail Edwards

    November 2, 2019 at 10:46 pm

    Quad may have ment well but I’m sure she kn ok was you can say anything you want to say if you say it correctly. I think the other doctor’s will tell her later how shady her comment was. I just think they are more mature than Toya and Dr. Samone does not care about being classy

  20. Sweet Pea

    November 3, 2019 at 5:17 am

    LEAVE QUAD ALONE! Hell Marlo is on the Housewives of Atlanta and she ain’t nobodys wife! So should she be put off of that show as well?

  21. Yvette Grier

    November 3, 2019 at 6:01 am

    IMO….Quad is a complete Fraud, opportunist, and drama queen. She did not seem to ever love her Ex husband. Contessa is beyond a follower. She idolized Quad and wants to be her so bad. Her character is wishy washy and very disrespectful to her marriage and husband. Jackie is slick shady and not anyone I would EVER want to associate with.

  22. blackrose

    November 3, 2019 at 7:28 am

    If Contessa wants to keep her marriage she need to stay off the show. And she is a follower because Quads speech was shady. Thank who you like but dont trash me in the process

  23. Anony

    November 3, 2019 at 8:47 am

    IF IT WASN’T FOR MARIAH, WE WOULDN’T KNOW ANY OF THEM. PERIOD. They ALL need to give credit where credit is due, especially quad, contessa, and heavenly.

  24. Katy Louu

    November 3, 2019 at 4:43 pm

    I still think this is Simone vs Jackie and truth be told, while I don’t like either, I would be forced to root for Simone. IMO, both are “self-righteous” but I give Simone credit for not going along with what seems to be a blatant lie started by Quad with regards to Mariah and drug use, particularly when there is scientific proof that she didn’t. Only a fool would discount it and I find it laughable that so e with medical degree’s did just that. Who would want these clowns deciphering their lab results?

    I want to think that Contessa didn’t leave with Simone in particular because she is friends with Buffie…lol But her entire “woe is me” story line this season is just stupid. Scott seems to be a very nice guy and we watched as he supported her when Toya came for her. What the heck was the point of taking a course all the way in Nashville, when she could have done so in Atlanta? Just stupid as is her claim that Scott is turning the kids against her. IMO, she had been off since her operation.

    Quad is so full of it that Tierion Lannister could have gotten the necessary ingredients from her to blow up that church and anything within a 50mile radius and the white walkers on GoT. WHO, in their right mind would believe anything Quad has to say? I am sure those women on Sister Circle only tolerate her because she is the host, which I am hoping will change since Trina Braxton was hired.

    • Simone M

      November 6, 2019 at 2:42 pm

      Katy, you are definitely on to something there. It is Simone vs Jackie disguised as everything else. I still want to know why Simone left their practice and went out on her own. They slid right past that. That was season one… Still waiting lol.
      While all the women on all these reality shows comment/throw shade on one another regarding petty gossip, I thought it was understood that tossing about allegations of illegal behavior is defaming to someone’s professional image. If anyone needs a reminder… Google Phaedra Parks’ departure from RHOA. It just shouldn’t be done. It’s mindblowing that the are even sides to pick on this issue.


    November 3, 2019 at 11:34 pm


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