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Iyanla Vanzant Responds to Criticism from Shay Johnson + Shay Calls out Wendy Williams

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Shay Johnson’s appearance on “Iyanla: Fix My Life” was controversial.

Love And Hip Hop Miami” star Shay Johnson recently appeared on “Iyanla: Fix My Life” with her family. While she intended for her and her brothers to hash things out with their mother, it didn’t really pan out that way. In fact, Shay was surprised that her brothers also had issues with her as well. Taken aback by this, Shay was angry after her brothers Emjay Johnson and Dr. Joe Johnson said that she was disrespectful. They took issue with some of the things Shay has said while she was angry.

Iyanla Vanzant asked Shay to just receive what they had to say and not say anything back, but Shay wasn’t able to do this. After she gave them a piece of her mind, Iyanla pulled Shay to the side and called her out for this. The two women began to argue. And after Iyanla tried to explain that Shay just didn’t understand the process of healing, Shay told her, “F*ck your process!”

Shay then left and Iyanla decided she didn’t want to speak to Shay again.

Shay Johnson called out Iyanla Vanzant on social media.

After the episode aired, Shay spoke her mind about her experience via Instagram Live. She had a lot to say about Iyanla. Shay expressed she felt Iyanla’s approach needed some work and she didn’t think it was fair that Iyanla refused to finish the session with her.

Shay also said, “You have to find the right therapist that you connect with and you just have a vibe. I don’t vibe with her, I don’t vibe with her attitude, I don’t vibe with her smart a*s mouth, I don’t vibe with her disrespect. And I don’t vibe with the fact that she don’t own up to sh*t.”

Well, Iyanla recently appeared on “The Wendy Williams Show.” After Wendy said that Shay said horrible things about Iyanla on Instagram Live, Shay felt the need to respond.

Click next for the details. 

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18 Comments

18 Comments

  1. Queen

    November 13, 2020 at 11:33 am

    This right here is exactly why Shay should have stayed for the entirety of the session with Iyanla. She is very defensive, confrontational and messy still.

    • Kim

      November 14, 2020 at 5:45 pm

      You are absolutely right!And here is another thing that I would like people to grow to and get.How you feel about Iyanla is not the focus.Shay seems to think that her telling Iyanla how to behave is her place.Shay came to that woman for help.She told her that she may not like her at times.Shay response was “Im not gonna dislike you”.lol So,When Iyanla did nothing but let her brothers tell her how they felt about her shay lost it and went off on Iyanla.But,Thats why you were there sweetie! And like Iyanla told her she cannot control the process and shay didnt like that.I notice that many critics of Iyanla and guest to the show always want to talk about how she is but its not about her.And she didnt ask them for their help.Its not about critiquing her you are there to be critiqued and helped.See I remember when I use to be like that.I was quick to tell somebody about how they were acting because i didnt like something that they said about me or to me that was true.LOL

      • MsCoCoMango

        November 15, 2020 at 8:22 pm

        CoSign EVERYTHING u said

  2. Erica

    November 13, 2020 at 11:41 am

    Shay still thinks she did nothing wrong and that’s insane to me. Even after she acted a fool, Iyanla still defended her after she left and helped her family understand where Shay was coming from.

  3. Trina

    November 13, 2020 at 1:56 pm

    Shay knows that she was wrong. Pride will not allow her to admit it nor allow her to accept help.

    • Karen Aghaji

      November 13, 2020 at 7:43 pm

      Shay is narcissistic b…no healing for her until she can take what she dishes out! Pray for her

    • Carol young

      November 14, 2020 at 9:19 am

      Shay was very disrespectful to Iyanla!

    • Julie Burnie

      November 14, 2020 at 3:32 pm

      The really sad thing is that she’s NOT changed since she was on flavor of love.. Shay gives drama queen a whole new meanin plus no hair do or outfit she wears can hide how hood she remains

  4. Bosslady

    November 13, 2020 at 7:01 pm

    Shay is a loud mouth rude person. Listening is her biggest problem, and until she can do that she’s gonna always bump heads with everyone about anything. ” Shut your mouth for once and just Listen”. ( Potty Mouth”)

  5. Deloris

    November 13, 2020 at 7:21 pm

    Lyanla tried to fix your life shay you ran away the truth hurts get out of your feelings lots of people watch lyanla show and you knew this why call out Wendy

  6. Gloria underwood

    November 13, 2020 at 7:23 pm

    Shay I watch the show and you were wrong your brothers was right for telling you how they feel your mouth is something else you need help I’m proud that your brothers talk things out hopefully if you don’t come around they will keep in touch with each other god bless those two young men shay fix your life

  7. Natalie

    November 14, 2020 at 7:02 am

    Shay is a straight up mess. She’s very delusional and simply couldn’t handle the truth. In her mind she always seems to be getting attacked(playing victim)so instantly she goes into defense mode.
    She asked Iyanla for help but stepped into Iyanla’s world ready to act up because both of her brothers came at her about her funky attitude. We all saw that way before Iyana tried to fix her life!
    Sis got a lot of nerve to continue her disrespect of Iyanla on social media. That was punkish when she could’ve said it to Iyanla’s face. I feel she’s made herself look worse.

  8. Tanya

    November 14, 2020 at 12:00 pm

    I saw the show as well. Shay is used to having her own way and not being called on her stuff. She acted like a brat! And until she understands that there are consequences to her actions, she will never attempt to change!

  9. Mary

    November 14, 2020 at 3:36 pm

    Shay was so wrong in the way she acted and her mouth is shameful. She needs to own her behavior. So glad the rest of her was healed. Shay is really a mess.

  10. Barbara

    November 14, 2020 at 3:44 pm

    I saw the show as well. Her mom started off not remembering she call her own daughter a demon until the receipts was shown. Same with Shay her selective memory something else.

    She throw temper tantrums all the time. Really to old for that.

  11. Sasha

    November 14, 2020 at 10:07 pm

    Shay a a very broken woman. It happens. When Scrappy publicly dumped her for Erica on air she felt belittled I’m sure. At SOME point t you need to reflect, correct, and move forward in life. On these shows (all of them) she is simply treading mud repeating the same character over and over. I hope that she figures it out. No one likes a nasty and bitter person. Male or female. I also wish her well.

  12. kevin wilcox

    November 15, 2020 at 7:42 am

    I can identify with shay there’s pieces of her life you can tell she obviously leaving out. she leaves it out because she knows it would clarify exactly what everyone is saying. This lady has clearly been in multiple situations where she has needed defense she’s been if not physically definetly mentally and verbally abused. I am a young brother of two siblings both boys who has sinced passed away they were 14 years older then. My mom worked 3 jobs so I was left daily in the care of the two of them. I was tortured teased I was even an unwilling wwe fighter always tag teamed 2 against one. Not to mention im 5’6 so you can imagine what growing up was like. what im getting at is seems like defending myself is all I know and im very protective of my feelings if I even feel you coming my way in a funny manner I’m like a pit when u step into his territory. woof woof woof off rip. Because of this im constantly in arguments fights have lost many friends as well. SO I don’t agree with the behavior but I can relate. And im sure just like me when she’s in her own space and after she realizes the hurt she just caused somone she loves ( cause oh yea if we don’t love you we not arguing with you) might toss a couple demon words at n tell you stfu, But when we trying to get you see that we actin like this from the heart as shitty as it may seem if you don’t recognize the hurt in our eyes we get very defensive its like all we hear is But but n but. im sure she hates what she said or what she did but dont expect her to say it or show it until she feels or you extend a olive branch after the altercation or showed love at a time that supercedes the previous situation.What I do now and it does help is I catch myself so now when sombody starts to get out of pocket. I etheir change the situation or if it’s a situation that must continue I tell myself save that energy for a neccesary war. So I listen more and I realize not all the time but a lot that people were actually saying stuff to because they cared and felt i wasnt understanding they side and was being a lil defensive because they knew my defense was already up so they come prepared lol see how that worked

  13. kevin wilcox

    November 15, 2020 at 7:55 am

    I can relate with shay there’s pieces of her life you can tell she obviously leaving out. she leaves it out because she knows it would clarify exactly what everyone is saying. This lady has clearly been in multiple situations where she has needed defense she’s been if not physically definetly mentally and verbally abused. I am a young brother of two siblings both boys who has sinced passed away they were 14 years older then. My mom worked 3 jobs so I was left daily in the care of the two of them. I was tortured teased I was even an unwilling wwe fighter always tag teamed 2 against one. Not to mention im 5’6 so you can imagine what growing up was like. what im getting at is seems like defending myself is all I know and im very protective of my feelings if I even feel you coming my way in a funny manner I’m like a pit when u step into his territory. woof woof woof off rip. Because of this im constantly in arguments fights have lost many friends as well. SO I don’t agree with the behavior but I can relate. And im sure just like me when she’s in her own space and after she realizes the hurt she just caused somone she loves ( cause oh yea if we don’t love you we not arguing with you) might toss a couple demon words at you n tell you stfu, But when we trying to get you see that we actin like this from the heart as shitty as it may seem if you don’t recognize the hurt in our eyes we get very defensive its like all we hear is But but n but. im sure she hates what she said or what she did but dont expect her to say it or show it until she feels or you extend a olive branch after the altercation or showed love at a time that supercedes the previous situation.What I do now and it does help is I catch myself so now when sombody starts to get out of pocket. I etheir change the situation or if it’s a situation that must continue I tell myself save that energy for a neccesary war. So I listen more and I realize not all the time but a lot that people were actually saying stuff to because they cared and felt i wasnt understanding they side and was being a lil defensive because they knew my defense was already up so they come prepared lol see how that worked

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